In "Happiness Like Flowers", Poplar tried his best to pursue Du Juan. He is handsome, romantic, and knows how to capture the hearts of girls. After Du Juan and Lin Bin broke up, they were depressed all day long, and Poplar rose to the challenge, breaking through Du Juan's heart step by step, squeezing Lin Bin out of Du Juan's heart, and successfully holding the beauty.
Du Juan was able to marry the best child Bai Yang as his wife, and many people envied her. Even her best friend Damei also said that the poplar appearance and family background are one of a thousand, and she misses herself, and it is difficult to have an object with better conditions than herself. But Du Juan knows very well in her heart how bitter her life is after marrying Baiyang, Baiyang is deeply rooted on the surface, but in fact he has never "sincerely" loved her.
1.Lin Bin's appearance stimulates Poplar's desire to win.
Bai Yang and Lin Bin have not handled it well since they first met. Lin Bin is handsome and talented, in addition to the fact that his family conditions are not as good as him, he also has a little inferiority complex in his heart, and he is better than him in other points. In particular, Baiyang's father praised Lin Bin, but he never praised Baiyang for half a sentence, and Baiyang disagreed even more in his heart.
Du Juan, the pillar of the art troupe, Poplar, is like a pure and beautiful self, but this love does not mean love. Du Juan is nothing more than a novelty for him. If you taste it, you will hate it. He never thought about marrying Du Juan, until he heard Lin Bin's feelings for Du Juan.
The original work is written like this: Bai Yang looked for Lin Bin and said word by word: You leave Du Juan in the future, I will fall in love with him.
Lin Bin stared at Poplar with wide eyes, Poplar looked at Lin Bin not far behind, Lin Bin was startled, and smiled again: There is no such truth in the world, you are allowed to love, but I am not allowed to love?
Poplar glared at Lin Bin scoundrelly: My poplar has such a rule.
Lin Bin was a little incoherent: Does Du Juan agree?As long as she doesn't agree, which of us chases whoever counts, is that fair?
The Poplar Terrier nodded on his neck, a smug smile on his lips. He is full of confidence when chasing girls, he has been the so-called lover since junior high school, and he also has this confidence.
Da Mei has had a crush on Poplar for a long time, but she knows it in her heart, Poplar has a far-sighted vision, and even looks at the most beautiful woman in the art troupe like herself, most of the time, she is loved to death by those girls, he is like no one, only a handsome back.
Du Juan's idea is simple, and Bai Yang is completely sure in his heart, as long as he does it himself, it is only a matter of time before he takes down Du Juan. Since competing with Lin Bin in public, Bai Yang's mind has been filled with Du Juan's shadow, and when he saw Du Juan Li Lin Bin's appearance, he was so angry that he was going crazy.
Baiyang thought that he was really in love with Du Juan, and he was entangled in this emotion and sang every night, but Baiyang's friend told the truth in one sentence: Could it be that your self-esteem is unbearable, and you are reluctant to lose to Lin Bin?
Poplar grew up to be a gentleman, and when it came to gambling, he never lost money. Now watching Lin Bin and Du Juan getting closer and closer, he is anxious, but it is a pity that he understands this anger into love.
Lin Bin left the army for personal reasons, and in order not to delay Du Juan's future, so that she would not suffer hardships behind her, he voluntarily cut off contact with Du Juan. Poplar took advantage of the void to enter, and Du Juan, who shushed the cold every day, shamelessly showed her love.
A month after Poplar went down to the grassroots level, he wrote love letters to Du Juan, these love letters contain affection, Poplar thought that Du Juan could be moved to tears, and voluntarily ran into his arms, but Du Juan said: Don't think you don't know, these love letters are transcribed by you elsewhere.
At that moment, for the first time, I began to wonder if Poplar was sincere. If a man is really in love with a woman, most of them will touch each other with sincerity. Poplar chasing Du Juan is full of routines. If he really loves Du Juan, it is entirely possible to write a love letter that only exists between himself and Du Juan if he understands his emotions. But he is so perfunctory in writing love letters, excerpting some words from the book, even if it is sincere, this sincerity, is very cheap.
Lin Bin also wrote to Du Juan, which rarely mentioned Du Juan's name and his own life, but each letter was full of love. He liked the stoic and deep that she liked. But Poplar loves Du Juan perfunctorily, and her desire to win, possession and conquest far surpasses her. For Poplar, Du Juan is like a non-sale item in a window boutique, and she is more and more yearning for it because she can't ask for it.
2.After marriage, Poplar took the perfunctory performance to the extreme.
When Baiyang held a wedding with Du Juan, he specially invited Lin Bin to show off his affection for Du Juan in front of everyone. Bai Yang's high-profile wedding was not to show how deep his love for Du Juan was, he just wanted to show off Lin Bin's exploits by marrying Du Juan, how awesome Lin Bin was, and in the end, he didn't marry Du Juan himself.
Poplar chased Du Juan and asked her. Du Juan thought that she liked Lin Bin more than Lin Bin, but soon after marriage, Du Juan found that Poplar Yang would do what he said.
Du Juan likes to dance, and when she was with Lin Bin, Lin Bin repeatedly expressed her respect for her wishes, and waited until she was thirty years old to have children, so that she had enough energy and time to do what she liked to do. She thought that Bai Yang liked herself so much and must know herself better than Lin Bin, but she was very wrong. Not long after Du Juan married Bai Yang, her mother-in-law urged them to give birth to a child as soon as possible.
The original work is written like this: Whenever Du Juan dialed the food into the poplar bowl, she was counted by her mother-in-law, with a blue nose and swollen face, and the poplar did not look at it from her own point of view.
Du Juan learned from her marriage that Baiyang was a Go enthusiast and studied chess games when she had nothing to do at home. It is not this and that, but that, that and when the time is right, they will invite those single men to play against them, and sometimes they will even push the door out at midnight.
The poplars in love are gone, and the passion and romance have disappeared with the marriage life on the right track. It was Du Juan who came back to life in the romantic feelings and passion of Poplar, which are now gone.
Du Juan's dream is to dance for life like her teacher. But from the time of marriage, she was occupied by some trivial household chores. She needs to cook, wash dishes, clean the house, and do laundry and tidy up the house. Before she got married, she ate in the cafeteria every day, and in addition to washing clothes, she had a lot of time to practice.
After marriage, she was like a bird that had lost her freedom, and she was locked up in a cage all day long. She took advantage of the vegetable cutting kung fu to press her leg down, but was sarcastically ridiculed by her mother-in-law: You dance, you have left your parents since you were a child, you lack a tutor, and you don't look like you do anything.
Du Juan couldn't figure out why there was no tutor when she pressed her legs when chopping vegetablesShe is so busy every day, doesn't she have time to concentrate on practicing Xi dance moves?What made Du Juan even more angry was that she couldn't eat too much to keep in shape for dancing. The mother-in-law always complained about eating cat food, so she could only silently swallow a big bowl of rice, and then ran to the toilet to pick up the rice.
Du Juan didn't like to cook, but her mother-in-law asked her to be a live-in nanny, learned to cook every day, and taught her how to be a full-time housewife to take care of her husband's daily life.
The original book reads: At this moment, she thinks that Poplar is by her side, even if she doesn't stand on her side, even if she comforts her twice, her heart is still very good, but Poplar is playing against others at the moment. Du Juan was even more puzzled why the poplar in love was a different person from the poplar after marriage.
The tone of his speech, the tone of his speech, and his concern for himself are all completely two-ended, Du Juan also has a whim, has the former aspen ever been dropped, and which one is this aspen in reality?She began to regret her marriage, knowing that this would be the case after marriage, and she would definitely not marry.
Poplar's mother is strong and does what she says. Before Du Juan and Bai Yang got married, Bai Yang repeatedly promised to take care of her, not to let her be embarrassed by him and his mother-in-law, and he would definitely focus on supporting her dance dream and not have children before the age of thirty.
But all this was just for Bai Yang to lie about Du Juan's marriage with himself, and after the two got married, Bai Yang achieved his goal of marrying himself, and he didn't even bother to say anything perfunctory. Instead of protecting himself, he chose to flee under the difficulties of his mother-in-law.
It is not very important whether a man looks good or not, the key is whether he has wisdom in his head and responsibility in his heart;It doesn't matter if a man talks sweetly, the key is to see whether he fulfills his promise;It doesn't matter how much money a man has, the key is whether it costs your heart or not.
Before marriage, Poplar's passion and madness made Du Juan mistakenly think that she had met someone who loved her like life, and only after marriage did she understand that Poplar's love was just a desire to conquer and freshness, and she didn't regret it.
She never took the initiative to reconcile the contradictions between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and she never really cared about her own wishes. Or did he never think of cherishing her, what he needed was just to let Lin Bin and the others prove that they already had enough to win the invincible Du Juan, and they no longer appeared in their eyes.
How happy Du Juan and Poplar were when they fell in love, and how sad they were after they got married. As Lin Bin said, when he found out that Du Juan and Poplar were married, he never laughed happily. When you get married, you want people you love to rely on each other and find happiness, but Du Juan only saw despair and helplessness from marriage.
3.In the name of love, Du Juan's dancing feelings were shattered.
Teacher Du Juan has never been married or pregnant for life, and in the eyes of others, she has lived to this day, and there is not even a person around her who knows whether she knows cold or hot, how sad it is. But Du Juan knew in her heart that the teacher lived a very happy and happy life. Her love for dance and the abundance of her soul are beyond the reach of others.
Du Juan and Bai Yang got married not because she didn't want children for the rest of her life, she just wanted to pursue her dream before the age of thirty. Since she was a teenager, she has been dancing, she doesn't know what else she can do except dance, dance is like embedded in her bones, and she can't shake it off.
Poplar fell in love with the radiant Du Juan on stage, but after Du Juan married herself, she wanted to reinvent herself and make Du Juan like her mother, going around her husband and the stove.
Du Juan was pregnant, and her heart collapsed abnormally. She doesn't want this child anymore, this is the best time for her to dance, and she will regret it for the rest of her life if she misses it. And the child was not there, but there was one, so she beat the child without the consent of others.
When Poplar and her mother-in-law learned about this, they were even more indifferent to her. They expressed their dissatisfaction with Du Juan in silent words. Poplar didn't know what dance meant to Du Juan. He kept saying that he liked her, but never knew what she was thinking.
When Du Juan was in love with Lin Bin, she once had such a conversation: Lin Bin once asked himself, what if you can't jump one day?
Du Juan said: How can there be such a day?Do you know Ulanova in the USSR?She is in her 60s, and she is still the same white swan dance, but she is beautiful. The magic of dance is that the soul never ages, even though it ages, and I want to be one of those dancers.
Lin Bin glanced at Du Juan and said in a pitying tone: Du Juan, I'm really afraid of following me, your white swan wing is injured. To be honest, watching you dance on stage, I feel like the whole world lights up. You're definitely a true dancer. Of course I support you. I can wait until you, wait until you're thirty years old, get married, or later.
Lin Bin knows that Du Juan likes the stage, and he has never dampened Du Juan's confidence in dance, and even exceeded everyone's support for his dreams, this kind of trust and encouragement is Du Juan's greatest need. But Du Juan, who gets along with Poplar, has never experienced that feeling. That's why Du Juan married Poplar after breaking with Lin Bin, but she couldn't let go of her true reason.
It's rare to have a confidant in life, even if it's a good girlfriend Damei, it's worldly and real, and she can't understand her love for dance, Lin Bin can understand herself, and she's willing to take care of her dance dream, so amorous, she doesn't buy it.
After Du Juan married Bai Yang, Bai Yang always told her that she couldn't dance for a lifetime, and that a woman had to pay for her children and family all her life. He didn't know Du Juan's true thoughts, and he didn't bother to know them. Du Juan and Poplar tied the knot, but they never had a common topic. Now that the child is gone, the two are even more estranged.
Zheng Lihan said: The three views of good conduct are the minimum of a good marriage, and the maximum of a good marriage depends on whether he has the ability to love. Many people have an emotional experience of love, but lack the ability to love it.
Poplar has been romantic since childhood, and there is no lack of love experience, but what he lacks is only love for others. When I grew up, I was fascinated by the girls and made myself the focus. Baiyang enjoyed that kind of self-centeredness, so he felt that Du Juan would love herself so much and give her all for herself.
But he underestimated Du Juan's love for dance, love and marriage are not everything in his life, and he also has his own ideals and pursuits. In Bai Yang's eyes, Du Juan's dream is not realistic, but Du Juan enjoys the process of chasing dreams, even if the ending is cruel, she has to go on a journey.
Bai Yang likes a leisurely and leisurely life, Du Juan likes to have days of pursuing and dreaming, although the two came together because of marriage, they never appreciate each other, support each other, and never encourage each other to become better.
For Du Juan, the loss of spiritual life and marriage are just vulgar contracts and rusty chains, tormenting each other. So she resolutely divorced Poplar, did Poplar fall in love with her?Maybe all this will happen, just because her love is too shallow, and the love she gives does not reach what she hopes. Even he treats Du Juan with good intentions, which makes Du Juan even more miserable.
I once saw such a text: there is always a kind of encounter, like each other, appreciate each other, grow up with each other, look at each other across the sea in the vast sea of people, and run to each other with tenderness.
People who truly love themselves will hold up their own ridges and take care of their ideals. If Poplar really loves Du Juan, she must be ready to take care of Du Juan, a dancer, Du Juan's idea is very simple, but she is very insistent on her ideals.
If he fell in love with her, how could he be willing to shatter her dreams and make her as ordinary as other women?See if a man has truly loved you, see if he has reformed you, whether he has suppressed you, if he has loved himself, it is more important than loving you, then love is just his wishful thinking.