Perhaps, Sichuan girls are very stubborn, but they are also very strong, firmly believing that fate is in their own hands - after graduation, Xie Na began the journey of "finding happiness" to the north. This former Cinderella, trekking all the way, tears and joy, turned into a story in the struggle for self-improvement, witnessing the warmth and coldness of the world. She was only 18 years old at the time, and she was often wet with tears in the dead of night. She was homesick and loved her parents. But she knows one thing better, that is, she has no "way out"...
It is said that life will not disappoint everyone who loves it. In July 1999, by chance, Xie Na played a lively and lovely girl in "Young Hero Fang Shiyu", which attracted the attention of many directors. By mistake, he also got the reputation of "Yahuan Professional Household", and starred in many supporting roles one after another. In this unaccompanied city, although Xie Na's work is busy, her life is finally passable. After a few more years, she finally ushered in her own transformation period. 2006 is the "Year of Xie Na" in the mouth. With the establishment of the "Happy Family", Xie Na, who had experienced the hardships of wind and rain, finally broke out of the cocoon into a butterfly, and quickly blew a Xie Na-style "happy storm". With the tacit cooperation of each partner, "Happy Camp" surpassed all variety shows and became the ratings champion. And the "crazy" Xie Na has also gained the love of thousands of fans. At the same time——Xie Na's first book, Na is a Burst of Madness, was a national hitstarred in the classic drama "Secret Love in Peach Blossom Spring" and won the Best Actress Award;Finalist for the Dance Forest Competition and won the award;In the TV series "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", she played Princess Huazheng....Xie Na completed a series of gorgeous transformations and opened a new chapter in her life.
However, Xie Na, who was unprecedentedly popular at this time, did not stop. hosting, filming, dancing, acting in dramas, dubbing, endorsement ......Her career is in full bloom and soaring. And the audience's love for her no longer needs words to support it. In 2007, Xie Na was the busiest time, and even set a record of "72 hours without sleep". Full of transcripts, dazzling to watch. But you can also imagine the hard work and effort she put in behind the scenes....
Xie Na on the stage has gradually grown and matured, and has more and more personal style and charm. Unlike those stars who "become famous overnight", they tend to lose their status very quickly.Xie Na's hard work and persistence are seen by everyone. This is also the most important reason why she "gained a firm foothold" in the entertainment industry. It's just that compared with the prosperity of her career, in terms of love, Xie Na's experience is a little tortuous. As we all know, Xie Na's husband is Zhang Jie. But before that, she had a failed relationship. The first relationship lasted 6 years, and it must be false to say "not sad, not painful". It took Xie Na a long time to come out of the pain and meet the "true love" of her life - Zhang Jie.
I remember that time, it was in the 2007 "Fast Man" 4-in-3 competition. Zhang Jie was defeated and woke up and regretfully exited. At the moment when he finally delivered his "leaving" speech, Zhang Jie, who has always been considered "calm", said a sentence that everyone didn't expect:
"The person I especially want to thank is ......Nana, because she gave me a lot of ......”After the game, netizens unanimously agreedThis is Zhang Jie's "declaration of love" to Xie Na, and countless fans have sent "Jiena Love" blessings. It's just that, considering the identity and development of artists, they can't be "above board" together. Paparazzi ** and gossip are the biggest damage to the feelings of the two. Xie Na and Zhang Jie "endured" for a long time, and it was not until the Qixi Festival in 2011 that they officially announced their marriage. On September 26 of the same year, they held a wedding in Shangri-La, Yunnan. Zhang Jie likes everything about Xie Na, including her "big grin" personality. But he also said that Xie Na was not easy:
"Her liveliness is visible to everyone, and many people think she is a 'crazy woman', but in fact, she is not easy. Obviously a beautiful girl, but she wants to pretend to be ugly to bring happiness to everyone, she is a good girl who has everyone in her heart...”
After getting married online, this "sister and brother love" has become a topic of discussion. Although they are not favored by the outside world, they firmly believe in each other and pursue true happiness. On February 1, 2018, Xie Na gave birth to twin daughters, named Jumping and Qiaoqiao. Three years later, Xie Na gave birth to a second child, named Xiao Buya. At that time, Xie Na also posted a photo of a family of five on social platforms, and the happy appearance attracted many netizens and celebrities to send blessings. Until now, the marriage between the two has gone through 12 years, and their relationship is also very stable. They grow together and keep moving forward. Along the way, it is not only a beautiful love, but also an inspiring story...
However, as the saying goes,"Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. ”The girl who seems to be "heartless and lungless" is not always happy. Just in a recent variety show, Xie Na disclosed an unknown experience. It turned out that after giving birth to her second child, she suffered from a mental illness - postpartum depression. This matter has aroused widespread concern. But Xie Na said unabashedly"I'm not as strong as I thought I was, and I'm not as good as I thought. ”This sentence has made countless mothers empathize. Because they all understand that postpartum depression is a very common but often overlooked psychological problem. No one is immune to this rare disease. Xie Na said that after experiencing the stress of parenting, she often felt depressed, anxious and insomnia. Even, she wants to cry every day and doesn't want to communicate with anyone. This emotion lasted for a long time and made her feel very painful....
Speaking of the Internet, there have been more and more patients with postpartum depression in recent years. This is a question worth pondering
Does society and family provide enough care and support for women to give birth?Do we truly understand their pain and needs?Childbirth is a life experience for women. The changes that have taken place in their bodies have left them at a loss, sensitive and vulnerable. The appearance of postpartum "depression" has brought them huge psychological pressure. Even Xie Na said, "I don't want to face this kind of experience again." That's what women are saying. We should unconditionally give more attention to mothers. "Mom"It is a sacred identity, and children are the future of the motherland. To help Bao Ma is to help yourself. "Like" + "Watching".I hope that every woman can get enough care and support in the process of giving birth. I also hope that every mother will receive the respect and understanding she deserves after giving birth.