1. There are many ways to change the fate of life, but for students from ordinary families, reading is one of the more common ways. Many students work hard to study Xi and get into good universities through their own efforts, laying a solid foundation for their future. However, when they step into the bustling metropolis and enter the top colleges and universities where the top students are gathered, they find that they seem to be standing at the starting point of some people. In Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, this is especially true for only children. They have enjoyed good educational resources and a comfortable family environment since they were young, and after graduation, they do not run around to find jobs like other graduates, but choose to prepare for public affairs at home*** Some people mistakenly think that these only children in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai have a wealthy family, so they live an easy life without working, but in fact they bear the cost of the exam themselves. These students took the exam until they were 35 years old and could no longer take the exam, and parents did not care whether they succeeded in the exam, but wanted their children to have a stable job. They only apply for local civil service positions, because parents believe that children who grow up in such an environment will have neither cost-effective nor much future if they go out to work. If you are admitted to the civil service, you will be "supported by the state", and if you fail to pass the exam, you will be supported by your family. Such a phenomenon is the envy of many students, and at the same time reveals the dilemma faced by ordinary family students.
Behind the only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai choosing to raise at home or be admitted to the state is the recognition and pursuit of civil servant positions by families in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai. Civil service positions are in the spotlight, and the number of applicants for the national public service in 2024 has broken the all-time record of 3 million. Civil service positions have good prospects for future development, with stable jobs and good pay, so they attract the attention of a large number of candidates. However, for students from ordinary families, it is difficult to choose to not work at all and concentrate on preparing for the exam. Many students have to prepare for exams while working. And if they don't get into the civil service for two years in a row, they may be forced to abandon the exam and look for other ways to make a living. When ordinary family students who embark on the road of job hunting are compared with the only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, they will inevitably feel sad. It is understood that in 2024, 780,000 people will abandon the national public examination. Among them, 420,000 students passed the preliminary examination but did not finally confirm and pay the fee, and some students paid the fee but did not enter the examination room to take the exam. Although the number of applicants for public *** is large, many students choose to give up every year. This phenomenon shows that although students from families with strong financial ability have a certain advantage in the public school, can prepare for the exam wholeheartedly, and take the exam for many years in a row, the admission result of the public school mainly depends on the grades. As long as students from ordinary families work hard and conscientiously, they also have the opportunity to go ashore. Therefore, we should not give up our dreams because of our background, but strive for opportunities with our own efforts.
2. I personally have my own views on this issue. First of all, I believe that family background is not the decisive factor in determining a person's achievement, and everyone has the opportunity to change their destiny through their own efforts. Whether it is an only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai or a student from an ordinary family, as long as they focus on their studies and work hard to improve their abilities, they are likely to succeed. Although family circumstances may affect a person's academic and career start, as long as you have enough perseverance and courage, any difficult situation can be counterattacked.
Second, choosing a civil servant is a stable career choice, but it's not for everyone. Although civil servants have stable positions and good salaries, there are also problems such as fierce competition and difficult promotion. It is also important for young people with certain ambitions and pursuits to pursue their personal dreams and career development. Therefore, when choosing a career, we should consider our own interests and abilities and find the path that suits us best.
Finally, fair competition is the cornerstone of social progress. Although it may be easier for some students from well-off families to prepare for the civil service exam, we should not regard civil service positions as "state support" because of this. Everyone has an equal chance in the exam, and only when the kung fu is reached, can the fist not be left in the hand. Whether it is an only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai or a student from an ordinary family, as long as you put in enough effort and wisdom, it is possible to realize your dreams.
In short, whether it is an only daughter from Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai with a superior family background, or a student from an ordinary family, everyone has the opportunity to change their fate through hard work. You can't give up your dreams because of your background, but you have to use your own efforts to strive for a better future. Civil service is only a career choice, not the only way out. We should choose a career path that suits us and pursue true achievement and happiness.