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In my opinion, the three stages of life income should be like this:
In the first stage, coming out of school, 23-30 years old, earning money with energy and physical strength, what you earn is actually skills and experience.
In the second stage, 30 or 45 years old, with certain qualifications, earn money by experience and skills, earn resources (channels, contacts, information), and then start to do some asset allocation (deposits, stable investment and real estate).
In the third stage, after the age of 45, the energy is no longer vigorous, and you should rely on accumulated resources (such as matchmaking) and passive income (such as interest and rent).
Of course, it should also be noted that the more conservative the third stage, the better, and many people invest too aggressively in the third stage and lose all their savings.
I think that people in every industry should learn to Xi writing, because writing can make a person quickly become the idol of peers and customers, so that the business is getting better and better.
The most important thing in the so-called living clearly is to never give the judging criteria to others, once the judging criteria are handed over to others, you will not live and understand at all. ”
We don't have to be too much about you in the unexpected world, they don't have to be responsible for your life, but you have to be responsible for your life.
I'll always love myself, and I think it's more important....
Allow others to be different from yourself, allow yourself to be different from others.
I don't know if you've ever been told that the city is deep, such as what is always smiling, there is not much fluctuation in emotions, and it looks unfathomable.
But what is my actual situation, I'm just just lazy, too lazy to talk so I just laugh, my mind doesn't move at all, you think I might be calculating something, but I may not have listened to a word.
I only focus on myself, and the focus is only on my own growth.
I have a friend like this, he hardly cares about what others say about him, he is extremely utilitarian, and he quantifies everything, for example, I myself am worth 3,000 yuan an hour, and if you call me to pick cherries or help out with something, I will evaluate it from the value, is it worth it?
He gave me a lot of advice, for example, if someone tells me to drink, I will go, and he thinks that you are a complete waste of time, drinking and complaining, why not refuse from the perspective of being responsible for yourself?
What is life?Your life is what your time is made of.
He thinks that many people are too cheap to customize!
Man has three fundamental dilemmas, so he has three opportunities for joy.
First, people are born to be only themselves, and they are destined to live among countless others and not be able to communicate with them thoroughly. It means loneliness.
Second, people are born with desires, and man's ability to realize his desires can never catch up with his ability to desire, which is an eternal distance. It means pain.
Third, people don't want to die, but they are born to die. It means fear.
God tortures us with these three things.
But it is possible that we misunderstand that God meant to give us three opportunities for joy. If I were the only one in the world, if I had no desires (without desires to not bear that distance), if I had never died, would I not have become a pile of unchangeable numbness and endless dullness?
Thinking about it this way, I would rather still have those three dilemmas.
I think the reason why writing ** appeals to me is that it helps me turn three dilemmas into three dilemmas and three opportunities for joy.
I've read that the pious may even wonder if their piety might be too revealing (or pretentious) for fear of angering God. This is truly religious. The kind of Chinese who pay bribes to see gods and ghosts and burn incense at the temple are the most funny.