Jingxin was working in the company, and her husband sent her a message: "Jingxin, today my mother said that she would come to our house to live for a while, after you get off work today, remember to buy more food and come back, I may have to work overtime, and I will be home at about 7 o'clock in the evening."
I bought some of my mom's favorite stuffed eggplant and bitter gourd stuff, and by the way, salt-baked chicken.
Another day to the weekend, we had a good hot pot at home.
The dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law deepened, but considering that she was her husband's mother and had not gotten along much before, she still had to remain polite.
Soon, she replied to her husband: "Okay, I know, I'll buy it after work." ”
After replying to her husband, she devoted herself to her work.
I worked until 6 p.m., tidied up my things, and got off work immediately.
Jingxin rides an electric car to and from work every day, while her husband drives to and from work by himself.
Summer was fine, but when winter came, she felt very cold.
Some time ago, Jingxin said to her husband: "Brother Yong, it's cold now, can you pick me up every day?"The distance is not far, and it takes only ten minutes to drive.
It's too cold to commute alone. ”
Who knew that my husband quickly refused: "No, it's convenient for you to ride by yourself."
If I were to pick you up, I would have to get up half an hour early every morning and pick you up after work, which is really inconvenient.
I'd rather use that time to get a little more sleep. ”
Listening to these words, Jing Jing felt a little sad in his heart.
She is not a very demanding person, and she didn't expect that her small request would not be met, which made her very sad.
Perhaps, he may not love her that much.
Although she felt uncomfortable, she quickly adjusted her emotions.
She had to put on a little more clothes.
02.When I got to the parking lot, I put on my spare down jacket and started the car.
She was going to the vegetable market, but it was already dark, the vegetable market was closed, and she had to go to the supermarket to buy it.
There was no brew in the supermarket, so she decided not to buy it, and it was estimated that it would take at least half an hour to cook her own meal.
Coupled with the cooking time, I will be busy until eight o'clock and there will be no food, so I don't buy it.
She bought salt-baked chicken casually, and when she saw that the fish was on sale, she bought some.
When the shopping is done, she goes to check out.
In the evening, the supermarket is not crowded with only a few customers.
She paid quickly, and the bill cost a total of more than 200 yuan.
Looking at the bill quietly, I felt that it was really not easy to spend money, and I felt a little uncomfortable thinking that I didn't have much balance in my card.
03.When I got home, there were already people in the house.
After Jing Jing changed his shoes, he walked to the sofa and found his mother-in-law there.
The mother-in-law looked up at her and asked, "Why did you get off work so late?"Was it so late before?It's almost 7 o'clock now, and it's 8 o'clock when the meal is ready, and Xiao Yong is hungry when he comes back, and the rice hasn't been cooked yet. ”
As soon as she entered the door, her mother-in-law said this, and she was even more unhappy.
But today is the mother-in-law who just came to the house, and she didn't want to have any conflict with her, so she quickly responded: "I heard Brother Yong say that you are here."
After work, I went to the supermarket to buy some vegetables, and it was so late. ”
The mother-in-law didn't have a good face, and she glanced at the bag in Jing Xin's hand.
The tone was full of disdain: "Okay, let's go cook."
Jing Xin turned around and went into the kitchen.
04.She went to the kitchen, washed the rice and put it in the rice cooker.
The sound is really deafening and irritating to listen to.
She washed the vegetables, the salt-baked chicken was done, she directly put a little garlic seedlings in it and fried it, fried the hairtail, and washed the vegetables.
Because there are no bones, there is no soup today.
Thinking that there were still tomatoes and eggs in the refrigerator, she took a tomato and two eggs and made a boiling soup.
Just as she was stir-frying, the door opened.
As soon as he entered the house, he looked very happy, looked in the direction of his mother-in-law, laughed and said, "Mom, you are here, I haven't seen you for a long time."
As he spoke, her husband immediately went up and hugged her mother-in-law.
Jing Xin watched all this silently in the kitchen, as if he didn't know.
My husband hugged my mother-in-law for a while before letting go.
He said: "Mom, how have you lost weight, you must eat more food when you live with us during this time, otherwise I will be distressed." ”
The mother-in-law smiled: "You stinky boy, you know how to make your mother happy, okay, I came here this time to supervise you."
I'm telling you, this time, you must have a baby as soon as possible anyway, you have been married for 3 years, why haven't you moved at all.
Your aunt, her daughter-in-law, and her children have all given birth.
Why don't you hurry up at all, you're all 30 years old, and you're standing in your thirties, and you have to have a child as soon as possible. ”
After my husband heard this, he fooled and said, "Mom, don't worry, you have to think clearly about this kind of thing like giving birth to a child."
Besides, we're very busy right now, so we have time. ”
The mother-in-law said again: "You stinky boy, you don't have time to give birth, isn't it just a matter of sleeping?"I don't need you to give birth to those who don't need you to conceive, give birth to a few more. ”
Listening quietly in the kitchen, her heart sank little by little.
When it comes to having children, in fact, she has lost hope.
05.Since marrying her husband, he has not been active in marital life.
I'm not afraid of everyone's jokes when I say it, they have been married for 3 months, and under her every request, they have the first time.
However, that time was not satisfactory.
Don't look at your husband as tall and handsome, but in that aspect, he can't do it at all.
So Jing Xin then understood why before marriage, my husband never touched himself, he said to respect himself.
But after getting married, this ** is respect, this is simply treating her as a brother.
The two of them share the same bed every day, but they are unusually pure, and her husband has never had any thoughts about her.
If it weren't for Jing Jing's request, it is estimated that he would not be willing to have sex with her for a year.
Even though meditation was requested, it was not successful.
Jingxin has quarreled with her husband many times because of this incident.
Because she wants to have a child, but her husband has no ability to satisfy her idea.
At most several times a year, each time it is not satisfactory.
Life can't just be lived for this little thing.
She focused on her work wholeheartedly.
I slept in a separate bed with my husband completely.
This also explains why her mother-in-law always urges her to have children, but she can't answer.
It's not that she doesn't want it, it's that her husband has a problem.
06.But that's good, after sleeping separately, Jingxin got a better night's sleep, and she gradually became relieved about it.
She works hard, her husband doesn't ask much of her, and the life of the two is quite passable.
Now that I heard my mother-in-law mention this purpose again, it turned out to be to force them to have a child as soon as possible.
Jing Xin thought it was funny and couldn't help but laugh out loud.
Her laughter caught the attention of her mother-in-law, who shouted at her in the kitchen, "Meditation, do you hear me?"Hurry up and have a baby.
Otherwise, when a few years pass, it will be difficult for you to have children when you are old. ”
Listening to the mother-in-law's words, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.
She replied a little helplessly: "Your son is like a man in his fifties and sixties, what's the point of having a child?"She thought that her mother-in-law would be able to understand the meaning of her words, but she did not understand at all, and instead said, "Men are like this, a little lazy."
When you get pregnant and give birth to a child, it is basically the woman who takes care of the child the most.
But once two people have children, your bond will be stronger. ”
Jingxin also wants to have children, but her husband can't do it.
What's more, now she is the only one in their family who has income, and her husband's salary is handed over to her mother-in-law.
It's simply not realistic to have children like this.
Thinking of this, Jing Xin said, "Mom, our family has no money to have children.
Moreover, it is not so easy to have children.
The monthly mortgage is 5,000 yuan, and the remaining 3,000 yuan is living expenses, water and electricity bills and property fees, which also cost a lot of money.
There is really not a penny left, and I barely support myself on my salary every month.
Mom, Brother Yong's salary has been handed over to you, think about it for the sake of family expenses, and you don't want him to pay his salary in the future. ”
When the husband heard Jingxin's words, he became angry, and his tone was full of impatience: "Jingxin, what are you talking nonsense?"Didn't we say we wouldn't have children for a while?Moreover, my mother worked hard to raise me, and now that I have the ability, it is right to pay her a salary.
My mom won't spend money indiscriminately, and she will pay it back to us later. ”
Jing Xin listened to it and thought it was funny.
My mother-in-law has received her salary, can she keep it all so that she can give it to them later?No way.
Because her husband also has a younger sister who is pampered by her mother-in-law.
3 years younger than her husband, she is 27 years old this year, she has no job, and she is not in a relationship or married.
Every day is just playing everywhere.
Her mother-in-law used to live with her and take care of her diet and daily life.
The mother-in-law also has no pension, and where does her expenses come from, in the final analysis, it is not the money that her son gave her.
07.Jingxin brought out the dishes, she looked at her husband and said, "Although I want the child, there is no way, who told you not to go to the doctor." ”
The problem is to see the doctor, explain in front of your mother today why we haven't had a baby for so long, lest everyone always blame me.
Moreover, you are 30 years old and married, but your salary is always handed over to your mother, which is obviously unreasonable, right?Don't you have a share in this family?Don't you need to use it yourself?Don't you have to take on a mortgage?And ......" "And what?"My husband asked.
Jing Xin didn't want to hide it anymore, since they didn't treat her as family, then she was not polite.
She said"And your salary was taken away by your mother, hasn't she been raising your sister all the time?I can understand giving a little living allowance every month, such as 2,000 yuan.
But you actually gave 19,000 yuan a month, and almost all your wages were handed over, which I don't understand and agree with.
When the mother-in-law heard Jingxin's words, she couldn't believe it, and looked at Jingxin with wide eyes and said"What do you say?You mean, Xiao Yong has a problem so he can't have children?Don't lie to me, my son is in good health, how is that possible?I think you're just jealous of Xiao Yong handing over his salary to me, so you made up this lie.
By the way, Xiaoqi has her own income, and she bears her own expenses, and I am only responsible for living expenses and rent.
The money that Xiao Yong gave me every month, I saved 5,000 yuan.
If Xiaoqi doesn't get married in the future, I will give her a pension, and if she gets married, then this money is her dowry.
Of course, there is still the remaining part that will be returned to Xiao Yong.
Meditation, this is our family's business, and the money Xiao Yong earns is also our family, and it is right for him to support our family.
As a sister-in-law, don't be careful.
Listening to these words quietly, I felt that this mother-in-law was too ridiculous.
I was embarrassed to say that the rest of the money would be returned to my husband, and it was clear that as long as I could have it left, I would give it to him, and when I couldn't keep it, when I got old and sick, I didn't want them to pay.
She no longer suffers from this set.
And the mother-in-law didn't believe that it was Xiaoyong's problem that they couldn't have children, which angered Jingxin even more.
She looked at her husband and said:"Brother Yong, if you really have a conscience, make things clear in front of your mother today.
We've been sleeping in separate beds for a year, can we have children?Moreover, although I slept in the same bed for the first two years, I only had a few times a year, and the sex was not normal, how can we have children like this?There is nothing to be ashamed of if you have a physical problem to see a doctor.
Moreover, if you don't explain it to your mother, she will put the blame on me and let me be misunderstood.
Then what am I marrying you for?You don't pay for your family, you can't have children with me, your health is not good, and you have to give your salary to your mother to support your family.
Do you think I need to continue living with you?"My husband was said by Jing Xin and touched his sore spot.
In fact, since he was 20 years old, the most inferiority complex for him was his physical physiology.
Before he met meditation, he also saw a doctor, took medicine, and received other **, but it didn't work.
He talked about a girlfriend.
I lived with that girlfriend for a month and tried many times, but none of them worked.
The girlfriend made an excuse to break up with her.
At that time, he felt that he should die alone.
However, he did not expect that he would encounter meditation.
08.Jing Xin and Fang Yong met on a blind date.
The outside of meditation Fang Yong is satisfied.
In this way, a lot of trouble can be avoided.
He married Jingxin just to keep other people's mouths shut so that everyone wouldn't say that there was something wrong with him and that he was still not married at such an old age.
It just so happens that meditation is in line with his aesthetics, and he doesn't seem to be enthusiastic about men and women.
Because after a week of contact, Jing Xin never asked for a kiss or a hug, at most just holding hands.
This made him feel even more that he could get married.
His salary is not low, so he always buys gifts for meditation, necklaces, the best mobile phones, bags, shoes, and clothes.
Girls are always easily touched by these little favors.
At that time, she watched Fang Yong be so generous to herself, and he was very warm, and he would not be in a hurry to get in touch with her, she felt that this man was very reliable, not a man who only cared about himself.
Received so many gifts from Fang Yong.
She was very moved.
Later, on her 27th birthday.
Fang Yong gave him a very romantic marriage proposal.
In the presence of many relatives and friends, she agreed.
When he got married, Fang Yong was also very sincere and gave a bride price of 200,000 yuan, which was definitely a lot when placed on the side of his mother's family.
everyone thinks that fang yong is really willing to meditate , not to mention that he bought so many things before marriage , he can actually give a bride price of 200,000 yuan when he gets married .
I really love to meditate, that's why I'm so generous.
The quiet parents also liked this generous son-in-law and praised him very much.
fang yong was very happy , he didn 't expect that no one would care about his physical problems , so easily he would be able to get the love of all the people in jingxin .
He was very happy.
09.But after getting married, Fang Yong was really powerless.
On the wedding night, the bride and groom which are not overnight.
Fortunately, everyone was very tired from the wedding that day.
So at night I fell asleep as soon as I got into bed.
Later, Jing Xin also proposed to ** things.
But Fang Yong always refused.
anyway , he doesn't break the law , as long as he treats her well in life , he thinks it's okay .
but after two people get along for a long time , they will get tired , especially couples who are not husband and wife .
jingxin looked at him more and more pleasing to the eye , and the mother-in-law felt that after spending so much money to marry jingxin , she should save money well after marriage .
She asked Fang Yong to hand over her salary every month.
Fang Yong has always been a good son, his father died when he and his sister were still very young , and it was his mother who pulled the two of them to grow up .
left 1,000 yuan of pocket money for himself every month, and gave the rest to his mother.
At first , this matter was hidden from meditation.
Until one time, Jingxin suddenly saw the record of chatting with his mother on his mobile phone, as well as the transfer record.
The couple had a big fight.
Jing Xin was disappointed.
In fact, she wanted to divorce at that time, she was widowed, had no money, and had no emotional value, she didn't know what the use of getting married was.
But her parents disagreed, they felt that Fang Yong's salary was high, and it was not bad for her, and they didn't let her have children for the time being, so she could live a few more chic days.
And has a house and a car, and doesn't like to mess with flowers and grass, such a man is simply a treasure, how can he agree to his daughter's divorce?Besides, marriage is easy and divorce is hard.
Even if there are no children, once the divorce is made, the daughter will become a second marriage, and if you say it, the reputation is still bad.
The old man just doesn't agree.
Jingxin has also been educated, like Fang Yong, who doesn't bother, smokes, drinks and doesn't commit domestic violence, he is a good man, divorced, can he find a better one in the future?So this is also the reason why Jing Si is so slow to settle down to get a divorce.
But after a big fight, they slept in separate beds.
After a long time, they have become Xi to this mode of getting along, they are like brothers, and their parents will not say anything more.
She and her husband are completely living together.
Fang Yong knew that what Jing Xin cared about most was that they couldn't become a husband and wife in substance, but he couldn't help it.
He was scared now and didn't want to go to the doctor anymore.
He felt that when he used to go to see it, everyone looked at him with a special kind of gaze.
This kind of gaze made him uncomfortable.
So, even though Jing Xin repeatedly persuaded him, he still refused to go.
Except for this matter, he couldn't satisfy her, and other things, he felt that he had done a good job.
There will be gifts for her wedding anniversary, and there will be a romantic candlelit dinner for her birthday.
Cooking and housework are naturally left to meditation, because he is busy with work and generally can't take care of it.
He doesn't ask much for meditation, he doesn't need her to dress up every day, and he doesn't need her to give birth to children for herself.
But he didn't allow Jingxin to get too close to other male colleagues, she didn't allow Jingxin to add the WeChat of male colleagues in private, and she didn't allow her to stay outside after work and not go home.
He only asked Jing Xin to be loyal to him, so that she had no problem with the matter of paying her wages to her mother-in-law.
But now, as soon as his mother came, Jingxin filed for divorce and exposed his defects in front of his mother, which damaged his self-esteem.
He couldn't take it.
Looking at the dishes on the table, Fang Yong deliberately changed the topic: "Meditation, didn't I say that my mother came back today and asked you to buy a few more dishes that my mother likes to eat?"You actually only bought salt-baked chicken, are you looking down on my mother?"I was already calming down with anger, but I was told so by my husband again.
When I came back from work, the market was closed and I had to go to the supermarket.
I went to the supermarket and only sold this one, so I bought it back.
That's enough for your mother, right?You don't have to be picky all the time.
Fang Yong, I'm already enough to give you face.
Actually, I wanted to get a divorce a long time ago, but my parents kept persuading me, saying that you are very good.
In fact, the bitterness in my heart, they will know.
There is no salary to hand in, there is no husband and wife, there is no emotional value, and you actually have to support your sister.
Now that your mother is here, you still want me to serve her.
Sorry, I'm really not a virgin.
You can eat this dish if you like, and if you don't eat it, you won't eat it, I won't force it.
If we can't get by, we'll get a divorce.
I'm a normal woman, and if you don't go to the doctor, then it's better for us to be separated.
Because I can't give up the opportunity to be a mom because of you. ”
She always thought that her son had been married for 3 years and had not yet had a child because of her uncooperative meditation, but today, her daughter-in-law was in front of her and said so bluntly about her son's physical defects.
She couldn't take it a bit.
So, she said, "Meditation, if what you say is true, then it is true that I misunderstood you before.
He is sorry for you only for this matter, and as for the matter of his salary handing over, I don't think there is any problem.
Because Fang Qi and I are his closest relatives, he should give us money to spend.
Xiao Yong, if you really have something wrong with your body, go to the doctor.
You can't keep dragging it out like this, otherwise when you get older, it will be even more difficult to have children. ”
Mother-in-law persuaded Fang Yong.
Fang Yong saw that now even his mother persuaded him to go to the doctor, and he was even more disgusted: "Mom, why are you the same as her?"They told me to go to the doctor.
I don't want to go, there are no children without children, what does it matter?When two people are together, the relationship is good, why do you have to have a child?You see that so many families are reluctant to have children now, and it's good to be a dink, and you don't have to endure the hard work and fatigue of having children.
Meditation, why can't you figure it out so much?Mom, you want to open it too.
Anyway, if you are alive, you can live happily for a day, and don't think about so many troublesome things.
If you don't have children, it won't affect your figure, meditate, can you relax your mind?Jing Xin felt even more speechless.
This Fang Yong always thinks about things from his point of view.
Does he love himself?He used to be so good to herself, so generous, she felt that her husband really loved her.
But later, she became suspicious of this love.
She felt that her husband was cheating on marriage, and he deliberately concealed the hidden illness of his body, which caused her to be in a dilemma now.
She shouted at Fang Yong, "Did you really love me?"If you really love me, you should know that it is very important to live in harmony between husband and wife, but when I live with you, I am a widow.
I want to be a mom, and just because you don't want it doesn't mean I don't want to.
You still have to give all your salary to your mother, have I ever thought about my feelings, have you really regarded me as your wife?Forget it, I've got it clear today.
You didn't, you never loved me, you just thought I was fit to get married.
Let's separate. ”
When her mother-in-law heard that she was going to divorce, she didn't want to, because she wanted to have a child.
The mother-in-law said, "Meditation, if you want to have a child, there are ways, not just this way."
Well, I'll take the money out and make test tubes for you.
Anyway, it's the children of the two of you when the time comes.
In this way, you can be a mother again, and you don't have to divorce, Fang Yong will not be sad. ”
As long as you promise not to divorce, in the future, I don't want Xiaoyong to pay me so much salary, as long as I give me 10,000 yuan every month, and let you do the rest freely, okay?"Of course meditation is not happy.
My husband has 20,000 yuan a month, and he has to hand over 10,000 yuan, and if he wants to do a test tube, then there will be more places to spend money in the future.
Her own 8,000 yuan can't support her family at all, let alone her children.
She was really confused.
If she really accepted her mother-in-law's suggestion and went to do a test tube, then she would have to suffer more crimes, not to mention, would she really be able to live her life like this in the future?
He has been widowed until he is old.
But if she objected and had to divorce, this house was not her own, and she had no property, so it would be equivalent to leaving the house at that time.
also left the name of a second marriage.
What the hell is she going to do?So in the end, will Jing Meditation accept her mother-in-law's advice?Will they get divorced?Or do you want to endure it like this for the rest of your life?Is Fang Yong willing to give up this marriage?(To be continued).