Luo Xiang would rather spoil a wayward daughter than force out a sensible daughter

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-29

Article First Publication ChallengeI have seen a particularly unique quotation, it is said to come from Mr. Luo Xiang, the original words are like this: I would rather spoil a willful daughter, than force out a sensible daughter, every sensible person, there is a late rebellion, because she always suppresses her emotions, sensible is really sensible, but grievances are also really wronged!

After seeing this passage, many netizens broke their tears, we have been taught by our parents since we were young to be sensible, to let our younger brothers and sisters, listen to our brothers and sisters, and follow the wishes of our parents, but we have not been taught to be happy children.

My mother said that day that she regretted raising me to be so sensible, I said that you are not cultivated to be sensible, I was forced to be sensible, and then I hid myself and cried for a long time, today I am 30th birthday, and I am still very sensible, I order a cake by myself and book a restaurant by myself, and I don't have a happy birthday until now.

I've been very sensible since I was a child, and I've suffered a lot of grievances, but I can't feel it, and as I get older, I have become very indifferent since I was 26 years old, and even my relatives are shallow.

The boy praised me for being sensible and suitable for life, which made me more uncomfortable than slapping me.

I'm just too sensible, I give all the money I earn to my family, and I leave a few hundred yuan a month for food!My brother didn't give me a dime. Just like that, my parents still say that I am stingy and useless!It's so hard to be human!

When the obedient person is no longer obedient, everyone will blame her. They will say that you were not like this before, why are you so ignorant now.

has always been a well-behaved, sensible and obedient child in their eyes, who understands my belated rebellion in my twenties and thirties.

I show that I am a good girl, but I am rebellious in my heart, I am sensible because I am forced by life, not that I am a sensible good girl.

Sensible = concession, sacrifice, forbearance, repression. But don't forget, things must be reversed.

But they never feel that they are wrong, that kind of grievance, they don't understand, that kind of rebellion in their eyes is just that I am angry, and the kind of tears that fall because of grievances are not worth mentioning at all. They never ask me if I'm doing well or how I'm eating, only if I work overtime and how much I'm earning, and the mention of money scares me.

My childhood was very depressing, I didn't feel anything at the time, but as I grew up, I realized that I was different from everyone's childhood. I've been very irritable and rebellious in recent years, I hate to maintain any relationship, even if people misunderstand me, I don't explain anything, I don't want to waste saliva at all, because they have nothing to do with me.

I was also the sensible child who was born up, and I didn't dare to tell my family because I didn't take the first place in the exam once in elementary school, for fear of being scolded. It is said that a happy childhood is a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood needs a lifetime to go, and I vow not to be such a parent.

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