Jin Ming was born in Beijing in 1980, her parents were both workers in a state-owned factory, although the family's economic conditions were average, but as an only child, she was cared for and pampered by her parents in an all-round way. This well-behaved and obedient little girl is deeply loved by her neighbors. Her parents seized the opportunity to spend the rest of their food and clothing on her. She signed up for various dance, vocal and other interest classes, and actively cultivated her artistic talent. 
The versatile Jin Ming soon became famous on campus, and her sweet voice and standard dancing posture often appeared in various theatrical performances at the school. In this way, Jin Ming's childhood was spent in the pampering of his parents and the love of his classmates, and everything went so smoothly. Until he was 9 years old, Jin Ming's life had a major turning point. At that time, Qiong Yao was preparing to adapt her ** "Wanjun" into a TV series, but she was unable to find a suitable actor to play the key role of "Little Wanjun". At the suggestion of the teacher, Jin Ming's parents took her to this interview. Jin Ming sat obediently on the side, staring intently at the other children performing. When the children were crying and reluctant to go on stage, her calm and calm appearance attracted Qiong Yao's attention. In this way, 9-year-old Jin Ming got this opportunity that countless children dreamed of. When "Wanjun" was broadcast on major TV stations, Jin Ming became popular, and countless fans went crazy for a while. She has played important roles in many Qiong Yao dramas, and has truly become a "national daughter". However, all this did not spark Jin Ming's persistent pursuit of future ideals. She chose to resolutely quit the entertainment industry when she was in high school and devoted herself to studying Xi. Her goal is to become a diplomat, which requires a strong academic and language skills. Jin Ming entered the School of International Relations of Peking University to study Xi after many hardships, and she tried her best to Xi learn English, French, Japanese and other Chinese languages, and buried herself in the library every day to read books, hoping to lay a solid foundation for becoming a diplomat in the future. But on the eve of graduation, Jin Ming's dream suffered a huge setback. In the fierce competition for employment, she finally failed to pass the *** assessment, which made her extremely frustrated and lost. 
I thought that my knowledge and language skills were good enough, but I didn't know that the reality was so cruel. Jin Ming had to accept the fact that her dream was shattered, she re-examined her life plan, and finally entered a literary and artistic work team. This was undoubtedly a huge blow to her ambitious at the beginning, and she had to drift away from her dream of becoming a diplomat. She began to feel a little confused and depressed, feeling that her efforts had been in vain in the end, and the future was blurred. But Jin Ming quickly adjusted his mentality. She realizes that failure and setbacks are the norm in life and that she should not be discouraged. So, she chose to be indifferent and began to understand and adapt to the real work. Although he was not very interested in the work of the art troupe at first, Jin Ming quickly integrated into the team. She found that although she could not be a diplomat, the work itself was quite interesting, and the atmosphere among her colleagues was good. 
In this way, Jin Ming slowly accepted the reality and learned to find joy in his work. She began to enjoy her current state of life and lived a simple and comfortable life. It is also an important step for her to build her inner independence. Jin Ming has experienced ups and downs emotionally, and her first love was with a boy during college. When they first dated, the two fell in love, but soon Jin Ming discovered each other's selfishness and unreasonableness. She remembers her boyfriend's first visit to her home complaining that she should have more items for the two of them in the house. Jin Ming was baffled by his self-assertion. What made her even more unacceptable was that when she had just returned from an overseas job and was exhausted, her boyfriend forced her to play billiards. Jin Ming realized that the two were really interested in it, and broke up decisively. 
After graduating from college, Jin Ming met his second boyfriend. At first, she was touched by the thoughtfulness of the other party, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and she thought that this was the prince charming of her dreams. But the good times didn't last long, and the boyfriend later showed a strong desire for control and exclusivity. Jin Ming found that all her friends were gradually cut off from her, and she was puzzled. Until a friend revealed in private that it was her boyfriend who asked them not to contact Jin Ming anymore, and criticized their various "shortcomings" in front of her. Only then did Jin Ming wake up to her boyfriend's bad nature. A person who wanted to control everything about her couldn't bear it anymore and chose to break up immediately. 
The failure of the two relationships made Jin Ming have a huge fear of married life, and she didn't dare to trust any man easily. So, Jin Ming chose to devote all her energy to her career, and she told herself that she could live well without a lover. Today's Jin Ming's career is smooth, and the TV series starring last year unexpectedly gained high ratings and was highly praised by the audience and critics, and she herself returned to the public eye because of this drama and became a popular fried chicken. Her career success brought Jin Ming ample financial income, and she bought a high-end suburban home and lived a luxurious life that was the envy of others. But Jin Ming herself doesn't care about these things outside her body, she still maintains a simple lifestyle. In Jin Ming's view, success or failure, praise or slander, is not the purpose of her rush. Because what really matters is inner independence and firmness to oneself. 
This is also an important reason why she can calmly face all kinds of criticism. We often aspire to the good life of others, but those are only superficial descriptions. The source of true happiness lies in knowing oneself, accepting oneself, and being kind to oneself. This is a life lesson that Jin Ming has taught us. Because of this, Jin Ming can continue to live his current life calmly. She was not carried away by the success of Vanity Fair, nor was she crushed by the criticism of **. Because she clearly realized that all this had nothing to do with her heart. I think this is the real sobriety of life, and it is also the sobriety of the world. The gains and losses of fame and fortune in the outside world are just clouds of smoke, and their own hearts are the foundation of their foothold. 
Jin Ming's attitude towards life is worth learning and thinking about Xi everyone. Jin Ming's life course is full of unsatisfactory and sudden turns, but she can finally face it strongly and actively adjust her mentality. It is this kind of sobriety and steadiness that has made her success so far. Her experience tells us that there will inevitably be failures and setbacks on the way to growth, but we can't be defeated by them. What really matters is to find your own direction in life and learn to enjoy life itself. Many people may use the so-called "success" standard to demand a person, but in fact, success is not the same as happiness. 
I believe that the most wonderful and happiest life is actually very simple, and that is to be true to yourself. Jin Ming's story tells us that you and I don't have to care about other people's eyes, stick to our hearts, and live in our own way, which is the happiest way to live. Therefore, when welcoming each stage of life, everyone must remember Jin Ming and her life journey of being firm in herself. Don't be swayed by the gains and losses in Vanity Fair, find the passion of life, feel the beauty of life, this is what a wonderful life is all about.