She is 47 years old, her daughter's salary is 4,000, and after spending 1.29 million yuan to buy a house for her daughter, let her daughter go out to live
Sun Qian, 47, works as a civil servant with a stable monthly salary of about 7,500 yuan. For her, such a life makes her feel quite satisfied.
One day when he came home from work, Sun Qian began to cook dinner for himself. She loves to cook and turns ordinary ingredients into delicious dishes, which is a delightful experience for her. There were only two people in the family, so she prepared a plate of crystal shrimp, a radish soup, and a small green vegetable, thinking that this was enough.
Daughter Luo Yun has not returned home yet, Sun Qian decided to call her: Xiao Yun, the meal is ready, why haven't you come back yet?Is it overtime?”
Xiao Yun replied: "Mom, Li Tian and I went to the movies, and we won't come back to eat at night, so you can eat by yourself." ”
Sun Qian looked at the dishes on the table and said with some displeasure: "Then why didn't you tell me earlier?"I don't have to do that much. ”
Xiao Yun said embarrassedly: "Alas, Mom, I forgot." I still have a little business, so I'll hang up first. ”
Sitting alone at the dining table, Sun Qian began to eat. In fact, she was a little angry in her heart, and felt that her daughter should at least pass ** if she didn't go home, which was the most basic respect. However, her daughter was a little sad that she could leave her family behind for a date.
Sun Qian tried to control his emotions, watching the TV series on his phone, while slowly enjoying dinner. She often eats alone, which may have long been Xi to it.
A few days later, it was nearly 10 o'clock when Luo Yun returned home. Sun Qian looked at her and said, "Xiao Yun, your results in the last exam were not satisfactory, how are you doing now Xi again?"”
Luo Yun looked a little impatient: "Mom, I'm very busy at work all day, and I have to go on a date with Li Tian at night, how can I have time to learn Xi?"”
Sun Qian looked at her and said in a serious tone: "Xiao Yun, are you not allowed to prepare for the exam?"Mom has analyzed it for you, and it's better to take the civil service exam and have a stable job. ”
Xiao Yun said helplessly: "Alas, Mom, you don't care, I know it in my heart." After saying that, she slammed the door and went back to the room, Sun Qian was stunned, and her daughter's attitude made her feel a little heartache. Perhaps, the way she thinks about her daughter is not right, but is she really wrong?Back in the bedroom, Sun Qian picked up a book, but found that she couldn't concentrate, and there seemed to be a slight crack in the mother-daughter relationship, she sighed.
More than ten years have passed since the divorce, and Sun Qian has never remarried in order to protect his daughter. Now that her daughter has graduated from college, she feels it's time to let go.
At noon the next day, Sun Qian called his daughter Xiaoyun, proposing to eat hot pot together in the evening, and said that he had something to discuss. Xiao Yun agreed, and also mentioned the squid and kelp she liked, and asked Sun Qian to buy more.
After work, Sun Qian went shopping at the supermarket with great interest. She chose a pork rib stew soup base and carefully prepared a variety of meats and dishes. After stewing the soup base, she carefully stir-fried the hot pot base, which was full of aroma and made her feel very satisfied.
After everything was ready, the table was full of various dishes, and the soup in the hot pot was boiling, and the time was close to half past seven. Sun Qian frowned, and began to worry about why his daughter hadn't come back yet.
She tried to call her daughter, but no one answered after several attempts. Anxiety grew, and although her daughter had obtained a driver's license, she was not good at driving. She started walking around the room, looking at the time from time to time, dialing ** again, but still no response.
Sun Qian decided to turn off the electric hot pot first, put on his coat, and planned to wait downstairs. Downstairs is bustling, people are dancing, children are playing, and several old people are playing chess. Despite the excitement of the environment, she still felt anxious inside.
After taking a few deep breaths, Sun Qian still couldn't eliminate the uneasiness in his heart. She walked back and forth downstairs, looking into the distance from time to time, hoping that her daughter would return safely.
It wasn't until nearly 9 o'clock that she got home. She once went to her daughter's unit, but there was no one in the office. She asked a ** and learned that her daughter had left work on time.
The daughter works as a treasurer in a small private hospital, with a salary of only 4,000 yuan per month, and does not pay the provident fund.
Sun Qian felt that his daughter's development space in this hospital was limited, so he proposed that his daughter take the civil service exam. However, her daughter's exam results last year were not satisfactory, which made Sun Qian feel anxious all the time.
Despite her anxiety, she also understands that there is nothing she can do if her daughter doesn't work hard.
On the other hand, there is an orthopedic surgeon named Li Qing, who is a dental Xi in the hospital, but she has not obtained the corresponding qualification certificate and cannot work on related projects.
In Sun Qian's view, her daughter should give priority to the civil service examination, get a stable job, and then consider personal problems, and it is best to find a job within the system.
She discussed these issues with her daughter in detail, and her daughter agreed on the surface, but it seems that her daughter did not seem to study Xi seriously, nor did she consider the affairs of civil servants, which made Sun Qian feel helpless.
The food on the table had long since cooled and didn't look very fresh.
The door opened, and Luo Yun walked in with a bouquet of flowers, humming a song in her mouth.
Seeing Sun Qian and the dishes on the table, Luo Yun suddenly remembered something, smiled awkwardly and said, "Mom, I'm really sorry, Li Tian took me to play when I got off work, and I forgot about going home." ”
Sun Qian asked, "Then why don't you pick up the **?"”
Luo Yuncai took out her mobile phone, saw more than 20 missed calls, and said, "Mom, why are you calling so many **?"I didn't come back, so you ate it yourself. ”
Seeing that Sun Qian's face was not good, Luo Yun was also a little unhappy, feeling that her mother was making too much of a fuss and getting angry at every turn, and she was not a child.
Sun Qian was really disappointed in her at this time, and obviously promised to go home for dinner, but it was normal for her to be worried if she didn't come back, right?How did it become her fault?
Forget it, the child is older, her own life, let her make her own decisions. She raised her for so many years, provided for her to go to college, and did everything she had to do.
She went into the house and took out a bunch of keys, and said to Luo Yun: "Xiao Yun, this is the key to your house, it has been renovated according to your request last time, you can move out tomorrow." ”
Luo Yun was shocked by her mother's words, she thought that her mother would only nag and was ready to refute it.
Sun Qian put the key on the coffee table casually and said, "Xiao Yun, you have graduated from college and are an adult." Since you're not satisfied with your mother's decision, for the sake of both of us, you might as well consider moving out. ”
Luo Yun was suddenly overjoyed: "Mom, are you serious?"Can I really move out on my own?”
Sun Qian looked at her daughter's joyful expression, and although she was a little reluctant in her heart, she still remained calm.
said lightly: "Xiao Yun, you are 23 years old, you can make your own decisions." But remember, when it comes to falling in love, you have to know how to be in a measured position. I don't want to see you get pregnant out of wedlock, that would have a big impact on your life. I hope you keep it in mind. ”
Luo Yun looked at her mother's serious expression and nodded solemnly: "Mom, I know what to do, don't worry." ”
Sun Qian nodded, pondered for a moment and then said, "Xiao Yun, your current work development space is limited, consider it." For girls, the salary is stable, the working environment is good, and the benefits are good. Think about it again. ”
After speaking, Sun Qian didn't say more, she had already said it many times, but her daughter always couldn't listen. After all, her daughter's life cannot be replaced.
Luo Yun raised her eyebrows and took the key to pack her luggage excitedly, and the idea of living alone made her feel extremely free.
Sun Qian walked to the table alone, and the soup base in the hot pot had begun to bubble, and the aroma was overflowing. She enjoyed the hot pot slowly.
Beef rolls, black hairy tripe, squid whiskers, and her favorite bitter chrysanthemum, all of them are her hobbies. She is not in a hurry to eat, and tastes all kinds of delicious foods as she likes.
Luo Yun knew in the room that her mother was eating hot pot alone, and she wanted to go over to accompany her or sit next to her to chat. However, she needed to share the good news of moving out with Lee, so she decided to wait until she told him before going to her mother.
The two exchanged messages with each other, talking and laughing. When she realized that she was going to look for her mother, when she opened the door, she found that the dining room had become dark, her mother had finished eating, and the table was in order.
Luo Yun felt a little guilty, and wanted to go to her mother's room to have a few words with her, but after hesitating, she finally returned to her room.
When the weekend came, Luo Yun organized manpower to clean the room thoroughly in advance and moved all the items he used daily. In the end, Sun Qian couldn't help but go to the ** event.
This house was purchased by her for Luo Yun, using her savings for many years, with a one-time payment of 1.29 million yuan, plus about 1.5 million yuan in decoration costs, which is all she can give to her daughter. For the life of his daughter in the future, Sun Qian can only hold expectations and wishes.
In order to raise his daughter and be able to buy a house for his daughter, Sun Qian has been living a thrifty life all these years. Now, she has decided to be kind to herself after her daughter becomes independent. You can go shopping with friends, enjoy a cup of milk tea, and go on excursions on weekends. It's also a fresh start in her personal life.
After returning home, Sun Qian felt that his home seemed empty. She couldn't help but think that people really adapt to some things easily. It has only been more than a year since her daughter graduated and returned home, but she has already become Xi to her daughter's company. Now that her daughter has moved away, she feels a little uncomfortable.
Sitting alone on the bay window, Sun Qian silently looked out the window, at a loss. She realized that her thoughts used to be on her daughter every day. Even in the years when her daughter was in college, she would keep in touch with her daughter and actively participate in her daughter's life.
Now that her daughter has really grown up and has an independent life, she feels that she should withdraw from her daughter's life. However, she began to wonder how her life should go on
At some point, it began to rain outside the window, and the whole sky was filled with mist. Sun Qian felt a little cold, so he lay down on the bed, thinking that it would be better to sleep. Maybe when she wakes up, she'll know what she's going to do next.
The days passed leisurely, and Sun Qian still felt a little trance. She asked several of her colleagues what they do after work.
It was then that she realized how wonderful it was to have a partner with her. At the very least, we can go shopping, go for a walk, watch TV, and even have the occasional little conflict. However, such a life did not appeal to her. The previous marriage had already made her fearful, and she didn't want to live like that again. It is often said that marriage is like reincarnation, full of uncertainty, and she does not want to try her luck again.
When they got married, they were still very young and were college classmates with their ex-husbands. Although they did not have a house after graduation, the two were full of longing and believed that as long as they worked hard, everything would be better. After the birth of their daughter, they used to live in a one-bedroom rental house, and even the toilets were communal. The troubles of pregnancy are deeply memorable to her.
However, during that time, the relationship between the two was very good, and although they only had a meager salary of 600 yuan, their lives were full of happiness.
Over time, the ex-husband lost interest in factory life and decided to start a business in partnership with others. Although Sun Qian advised him: "You are now a workshop technician, as long as you are promoted to workshop director, your salary will be greatly increased." However, the ex-husband fell into a quagmire that could not move forward, and the business was full of ups and downs, and there was some improvement at first, but the market changes brought everything back to square one.
At first, he was full of hard work, however, gradually, he fell into decadence, staying at home all day, indulging in alcohol, neither earning nor putting in the effort, indifferent to his children.
When his daughter was two years old, Sun Qian passed the exam to become a civil servant, and although the salary was not high, it was more stable than working in a company.
Subsequently, for her daughter's education, she borrowed 100,000 yuan from her family to buy a house. When her daughter approached 10 years old, she was forced to find a solution to buy a house due to the unsatisfactory school district in her original school.
The ex-husband continued to avoid work and fell into a state of alcoholism and decadence, which led to frequent arguments between the two. Despite Sun Qian's persuasion, he still refused to look for a job and was unwilling to share the housework.
In order to borrow the 100,000 yuan needed to buy a house, Sun Qian had to borrow from his father. She used her provident fund to take out a loan to buy the house she lives in now, but her ex-husband actually offered her to sell the house and use the money to "make a comeback".
However, Sun Qian insisted on not selling the house he bought for his daughter's schooling. In addition, she couldn't tolerate the uncertainty of renting for years that made her feel insecure, as if she might be evicted the next moment.
Faced with her ex-husband's strong request, she refused, only to be beaten by him. One was particularly severe, causing her ribs to break. With the emergency treatment of doctors, her life was saved. The daughter was frightened and cried when she saw her father. Sun Qian realized that she could no longer tolerate such a life, resolutely called the police, and filed for divorce in the hospital, determined to keep the mother and daughter completely away from this painful past.
After marriage, Sun Qian raised his daughter alone and was full of fear of men. When she was only 35 years old, people around her introduced her to people, however, she hesitated for fear of falling into an unhappy marriage again, and rejected many good offers.
She knows that it is difficult for her to gain insight into the true face of a person, just like her ex-husband, who was a campus figure and a member of the student union, was even more diligent and serious at the beginning of his work, and was quickly promoted to workshop technician. However, he eventually became an alcoholic, waved and hit people, and became unrecognizable.
In his dreams, Sun Qian often woke up crying and recalled that depressing time. Whenever this happens, she laments her vulnerability, as if the pain of the past has not really dissipated, but is buried deep in her heart.
After my daughter moved out, contact became scarce and gradually stopped. She told herself not to disturb her daughter's life anymore, although there were always some concerns in her heart.
Sun Qian has always loved reading and realized that he couldn't go on like this forever. Except for work, she felt like she had nothing to do all day and was lost in the fog of life.
Eventually, she decided to change, picked up her notebook, made a cup of coffee in front of the bay window, and started trying to write. This became her way of venting her emotions and finding herself. Writing ** brings her full of passion, and every day is full of ideas about plot ideas and plot flips.
Colleagues curiously asked her what happened and whether she ushered in the second spring of her life. She laughed and replied that there was indeed a new beginning, but the meaning was completely different.
Of course, writing ** is not an easy task. Especially after signing a contract, the need for updates every day forced her to keep typing down until it was done. This kind of life gives her no time to indulge in self-pity, and she does not have too much time to miss her daughter's life.
After Luo Yun moved out, she was relieved of the responsibility of going home to report, and she felt that life had become easier and freer. Her boyfriend offered to live together, but she politely declined. She understands her mother's expectations, but she also knows that she is young and still has a fear of men. She remembers the scenes of her father's alcoholism and violence, and those experiences woke her up in the middle of the night with lingering palpitations.
Li Tian was silent, but said lightly: "Xiao Yun, my parents know about us, they said that we will have a meal together this week." ”
Luo Yun's heart jumped, and she asked with some surprise: "So fast?."We weren't together for long. ”
Li Tian was silent for a moment and then said: "Xiao Yun, people often say that you start a family first and then start a business. I plan to concentrate on my professional qualifications after I get married, so I won't have much time for a relationship. That's what my mom and dad mean, that's why they want to meet us for dinner this week. ”
Luo Yun hesitated and said, "I have to ask my mother, and then I will reply to you." ”
That night, Luo Yun called her mother through **: "Mom, have you eaten?"What have you been busy with lately?”
Mom was at work and was busy typing on the keyboard: "Well, at work, what's wrong?".”
Luo Yun felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, her mother used to care about her all the time, but now she seemed estranged. She understands that it is because she broke her mother's heart before moving, but the coldness at the moment makes her feel sad.
Luo Yun endured her heartache and asked, "Mom, Li Tian said that his parents are going to eat with us this week, what should I do?"Isn't it too fast?”
Mom paused and said, "Xiao Yun, it's okay to see them, just so you can observe them and see what they really think." I always felt like something wasn't right. ”
Luo Yun nodded: "Well, okay, I feel the same way." ”
In the private room of the restaurant, Luo Yun met Li Qian and his parents. She greeted politely and sat across from Li Tilt.
After eating for a while, Li Qing's mother said: "You are Xiao Yun, I heard Qing'er say that you work in his Xi Hospital and are in charge of finance, right?"And you know his father, he's the head of the department. ”
Luo Yun glanced at Li Tian and replied, "Yes, Auntie, I know." Li once told me that my uncle was very famous for his medical skills, and many patients came to him. ”
After hearing this, Li Tian's mother smiled with satisfaction and said, "I opened a medical device company, although it is not big, but the business is not bad. ”
Luo Yun nodded, still not figuring out the true intentions of Li Tian's parents. Li Tian's mother continued: "Xiao Yun, I heard that you are from a single-parent family, and it is really not easy for your mother to buy you a house. But don't worry, my family has already bought two houses for Qian'er, and as long as he gets married, we will give him 20,000 yuan a month for living expenses. ”
Luo Yun remained silent, quietly listening to Li Tian's family.
Li Tian's mother spoke: "What Tian'er said is right, Xiao Yun is an obedient girl. To be honest, we have a plan to wholeheartedly pursue a professional qualification as a dentist and then take over a clinic. Considering that your current job prospects are uncertain, perhaps you may want to consider taking a break from your job and focusing on taking care of him at home. We can provide 20,000 per month for living expenses, and you two don't have to worry too much. ”
Luo Yun frowned slightly: "Auntie, do you mean to let me resign and take care of him full-time so that he can concentrate on his studies?"”
Li Tian's mother smiled and said, "Yes, think about it, it's good for both of you." Once his clinic opens, the days will get better and better. ”
Luo Yun smiled and said, "Auntie, I've been listening to it for a long time, and I feel that you are looking for a nanny for Li Tian." ”
Xiao Yun, we are here for the good. After all, your work is not very good, and if you concentrate at home, he will be able to focus better on his studies. Li Tian's mother emphasized.
Luo Yun smiled: "Auntie, my mother worked hard for me to go to college, and I won't quit my job to be a nanny." ”
Li Tian's mother was a little displeased: "Xiao Yun, we were originally against you being together, and it was not right for our two families to be together." And your job, to be honest, has little future. In addition, if you are from a single-parent family, most people may not be willing to accept you. ”
Xiao Yun, in fact, we can't help it, he really likes you. You have to know that in this society, the right person is also very important. We do this for your own good. Li's mother explained.
Luo Yun looked at them in surprise, and then stared at Li Tian: "Li Tian, do you think so too?"”
Li Tian smiled and said: "Xiao Yun, although my mother said it badly, but think about it, as long as you take good care of me, I have obtained the qualification certificate and opened a clinic, and our life will get better and better." ”
Xiao Yun, you only get that salary every month, in this society, what is this money enough for?Wouldn't it be better to take care of me at home?Li's mother added.
Luo Yun stood up: "Li Tian, let's break up." Although I don't get paid much, I work hard every day. Although I am a single parent, my mother gave me all the love and didn't let me be a babysitter for you. ”
With that, she resolutely left. She was glad that she didn't live with Li Tian, and even more glad that nothing happened. Back at home, her mother was not there, and she thought that her mother might be watching TV on the couch because she could smell her mother's scent.
Luo Yun reflected on today's experience and found that she had been too naïve. It turns out that love is like this when she can't see it. Li Tian is usually so good to her, but she has such expectations in her heart, which makes her feel unacceptable. She remembered her mother's counsel and was glad she hadn't blindly invested in the relationship.
Sun Qian had just come back from shopping and was planning to enjoy hot pot alone, but her ** actually achieved a small explosion, and the data was exceptionally good. There was no doubt that she must have earned a lot of money every day, which made her so happy that she decided to celebrate alone.
Suddenly seeing Luo Yun, she said in surprise: "Xiao Yun, why are you back?."What happened?”
Luo Yun said with a hurt expression: "Mom, you don't love me anymore, woo." ”
Sun Qian looked at her funny appearance, couldn't help laughing, and said, "Get up, let's make hot pot and eat together." Didn't you go to see Li Tian's parents today?How's it going?”
Luo Yun said depressedly: "Alas, we broke up. They didn't want him to find a wife, but a babysitter, and they wanted me to quit my job and focus on taking care of him. ”
Sun Qian also felt a little stunned, he didn't expect things to be like this, he felt that it was too much. If there is really a girl who does this, when Li Tian's clinic develops in a few years and has an outside heart, won't everything be in vain for that girl. Luo Yun and her mother started making hot pot together, and their mood gradually calmed down. During the meal, Luo Yun said, "Mom, I'll move back tomorrow and live with you." I'm going to study hard Xi, and I'm going to be admitted to the civil service this year. Sun Qian was really happy to see that her daughter finally understood. Luo Yun became more mature in this experience. After moving home, she went home on time every day, bought vegetables and cooked, and took care of Sun Qian. After dinner, Sun Qian buried his head in typing on the keyboard and wrote **, while Luo Yun worked hard to learn Xi. The mother and daughter work hard, sometimes smile at each other, and both like this kind of life.
Final Summary:
Time will always leave the best person for you last. After all, love is a short-lived wind, while love is a long stream.
In the various twists and turns of the times and individuals, everyone can finally find a little happiness in life. After all, the sweet and sour are the taste of food, and the joys and sorrows are the true portrayal of life.