In the eyes of the audience, he is the most respected senior artist, that is, the famous Chinese first-generation actor Zhong Xinghuo.
However, such an excellent person could not escape the torture of family life, and he still had regrets when he died.
In the eyes of his three daughters, he is a scumbag, "Chen Shimei", he is not a competent father.
They evicted him from his home, leaving him in a state of instability and displacement in his later years, and almost losing his peaceful days.
None of them were willing to attend his funeral before his death, which is enough to show that the three daughters harbored a deep hatred for him.
So, what happened to the father-daughter relationship between them?
Eight years after Zhong Xinghuo's death, his widow stood up and said something to him that made his daughters' eyes red.
What kind of history and stories are hidden behind this veteran artist, which is really curious?
A source of conflict.
Zhong Xinghuo was born in 1924, and most marriages in that era were decided by parents and arranged by matchmakers.
When he was very young, his parents had already booked a baby kiss for him.
Therefore, this is how his first relationship with Chen Qian unfolded, and he entered the palace of marriage with Chen Qian when he was only a teenager.
In those days, this was quite common.
Their married life was similar to that of many couples of that era, without too many intense emotional entanglements.
In the years following their marriage, they welcomed three daughters one after another and lived a very stable life.
It wasn't until 1946 that he was offered an excellent opportunity to advance his career.
In fact, he has always had a desire for literature and art in his heart, but he has never been able to find the right time.
This time, he had the opportunity to go to the Linyi Liberated Area in Lunan and possibly enter Shandong University for Xi.
He hesitated to face his wife and daughter at home, but out of consideration for his dreams and family, he finally decided to leave.
His choice was deeply understood by his wife, who never harbored a grudge against him.
After several years of hard work and Xi, he finally got the opportunity to step onto the stage and participated in many drama performances.
For him, this period was the most unforgettable and further strengthened his strong belief in his dreams.
In order to get on the big screen as soon as possible, he arrived in Shanghai through various difficulties and joined the Shanghai Film Studio, embarking on a creative journey of film and television.
When his job became stable, his first thoughts were his wife and daughter.
He planned to bring his family to Shanghai to live together, but before that, he had already returned home.
Before returning home, he always dreamed of a reunion with his family, but the reality was quite different.
After a long period of face-to-face contact, the three daughters completely lost the memory of their father.
When they faced the unfamiliar father, they all showed a high degree of alertness.
Although they learned the ins and outs of the matter through their mother's introduction, they were still reluctant to get close to their father.
Over the years, he has failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a father and husband.
In the impression of the daughters, it seems that only the mother exists.
In order to raise her three daughters, Chen Qian worked hard every day, causing her face to become more haggard.
They witnessed all the efforts of their mothers, and as a result, they harbored a deep hatred for their fathers.
When he saw the attitude of his daughters towards him, he felt extremely uncomfortable inside, and he wanted to make up for his own shortcomings over the years.
Although he didn't stay long in his hometown, he didn't have much free time, so he chose to return to work.
A few days later, his wife and daughter boarded the train to Shanghai, and the family finally won the chance to reunite.
However, the happy days did not last a few days, and an accident came.
In the eyes of his daughter, he became a "bad person".
In 1976, Zhong Xinghuo learned the shocking news that he was busy with work at that time.
Chen Qian has been in poor health for the past few years, and finally unfortunately suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and passed away as a result.
When he heard the news, he was in a heavy mood and immediately rushed back to his home.
As soon as he reached the door of the house, he heard the cries of his daughters, which filled his heart with mixed emotions and his eyes filled with irrepressible tears.
When his eyes fell on his wife, tears instantly welled up, and he felt deeply guilty in his heart.
It was you who harmed my mother, and if it weren't for you, my mother wouldn't have worked so hard and wouldn't have suddenly fallen ill. ”
His heart was deeply hurt by what his daughter said, but he didn't refute it, just chose to remain silent.
He was well aware that he had failed to fulfill his duties as a husband, but the death of his wife was also a heart-wrenching event for him.
When his wife left, his daughters also harbored a deep hatred for him.
The mutation in his family caused him great psychological trauma, and soon after, he suffered from a serious illness.
When he was sick, none of his daughters came to visit him.
It was at this special moment that Zhu Yunyi came into his life and brought him deep warmth.
A glimmer of light in times of crisis.
During the time that Zhong Xinghuo was hospitalized, only a few old friends came to visit him.
When everyone saw his condition, they were very worried, but there was really nothing that could be done.
A close friend of his hired a ** for him, and she is rumored to be very skilled at caring for others.
This ** is Zhong Xinghuo's second spouse Zhu Yunyi.
At first, Zhong Xinghuo didn't particularly want to deal with her, and he was alone in a daze every day.
However, as time goes by, the conversations between the two gradually increase, and they inadvertently develop deep feelings for each other.
Their experiences are similar to each other's and they are able to understand each other's hearts deeply.
So, they established a relationship with each other and planned to enter the palace of marriage together.
The news of Zhong Xinghuo's remarriage quickly spread to his daughters, and he actually had no intention of hiding it.
When the daughters learned of the news, they did not hesitate to "rush" back home.
They could not bear the fact that two years after their mother's death, their father chose to re-enter the palace of marriage, and they regretted their mother's decision.
As a result, they were furious and made many harsh statements.
Zhong Xinghuo remained silent all the time, just silently enduring the dissatisfaction of his daughters.
After a period of time, he and Zhu Yunyi still held their wedding.
None of his three daughters attended his wedding, and he had no objection to that.
He never expected that he would be evicted from the house by his own daughter.
You are not allowed to take her to live in your mother's house, you are not allowed to go out and not here. ”
Zhong Xinghuo still chose to back down, he left home with his wife and moved to another place.
Despite this, they did not stop there, and often rushed to their father's place to cause disturbances, causing them to move several times.
As a public figure, such incidents had a profound impact on him.
Despite this, he never got angry with his daughters, but just silently endured their unreasonable demands.
Zhong Xinghuo did not enjoy a stable life in his later years, but fortunately, his wife always accompanied and cared for him.
Until Zhong Xinghuo's death, the father-daughter feud between them had not been alleviated in any way.
The widow's words are distressing.
In 2014, Zhong Xinghuo passed away at the age of 91.
It stands to reason that he is already fortunate to live to this age, but he left with regrets.
Before leaving, he was eager to see his children one last time, but unfortunately he never got his wish.
It was extremely disappointing that only his youngest daughter was present at his funeral, and the other two daughters were never in his sight.
In fact, as a father, he always cared about his daughters.
He is very aware of his debt to them, and has always wanted to make up for it, but he has never had a chance.
He was unable to share certain words with them in time, and it was not until 8 years after his death that his widow spoke up for him.
When your father left, he couldn't let go of you, and he always missed you. ””
After hearing this, their eyes instantly turned red.
As they grow older, they can already understand their father's difficulties, but they have never been able to let go of their resentment towards him.
Unexpectedly, they turned out to be the ones who did the most harm to their father.
In the past years, the family had a difficult life, and Zhong Xinghuo decided to go out and work hard in order to ensure their quality of life.
When he was out alone, he also thought about giving up, but he couldn't.
He has the responsibility to shoulder the burden of his family, and only through unremitting efforts can he create a better living environment for his family.
Many people don't know that during this time, there was a distance from their children and they didn't find more time to spend with their wives.
It was precisely because of the indebtedness in his heart that he did not show any rebuttal or dissatisfaction in the face of their unreasonable demands.
Epilogue. Every family has its own hidden secrets", and in any harmonious family environment, quarrels are inevitable.
But no matter what, family is always the closest person in the world, and there is no excuse for us to hurt our family.