The reason why love is fascinating is mostly due to the heartbeat of the first sight.
But in a relationship, love often does not run throughout.
Because, as time goes by, the passion will always fade, and life will merge into the ordinary fireworks of the world.
Therefore, some people can't bear the gap between before and after, and gradually get tired of it in their hearts, and finally choose to quit.
But there are also some people, even if they have lived together for a long time, they are still very satisfied with their current state, and their hearts are full of happiness and attachment.
In fact, two people have been together for a long time, and love is no longer the theme of life, but the warmth of the heart is.
People's hearts are very delicate, and only sincere dedication and care can move it.
A person who only knows how to do superficial articles is naturally difficult to keep the footsteps of the people around him.
If a woman gives a man these two feelings, he will never be willing to leave.
A sense of belonging to the heart
Zhu Xi said: The two most important things in life are to seek a foothold, and the other is to seek a place of peace of mind.If you just talk about foothold, it is not difficult to understand, and it is not difficult to do.
Where you can shelter from the wind and rain, you can temporarily settle down.
The hard thing is the peace of mind.
How many people live a luxurious life and live in a high-end house, but their hearts are still difficult to find peace.
It's like crying in a BMW, or laughing on a bicycle.
Happiness, in fact, is not absolutely related to materiality, but depends on who is with you.
If the two can't understand each other, if the people around them can't understand their own spiritual world, it's like there are thousands of rivers and mountains in the middle, no matter how good the material enjoyment is, it can't stop the soul from wandering around.
Only with the people who know each other can we be comfortable, life will be happy and peaceful, full of fun, and the soul can be completely placed and returned.
A woman who gives a man a soul is the home in the man's heart, and the love in his eyes is the eternal warmth and touching in their heart.
As long as she is always there, he will always love and will never be willing to leave.
Genuine companionship
Companionship is the most affectionate confession.
But in life, how many people are not alone, but they clearly interpret life into a one-man show.
They are under the same roof, but they have never shared, the gentleness of the night, the beauty of the morning glow.
Even, on the night when the wind and rain returned, no one asked with concern, can the porridge be warm?
Without the companionship of love, they are just in the same space, but they lack the dance of the soul.
True companionship is spiritual inseparability and soul dependence.
It's you by my side, and even if I don't say a word, I can still feel your friendship.
Although you are not by my side, you can accompany me through the gloomy times with warm pen and ink in the days of disappointment in life.
The woman who accompanies a man with her heart is the light of the dark night, the indicator light when he is confused, and the gentle power that inspires a man to get out of decadence in his depressed years.
Because of her, the world is worth it, and loving her is the most important thing in his life.
Sakura message
It is happy to be loved, but one-sided love is easy to make people tired.
If you know each other, you can understand without words;If you are in love, you will pity it if you don't say anything.Only two-way love is both tacit and comfortable.
It can make love stronger, can give people happiness, and also make people feel at ease, so that love can go further.
May all encounters be at the right time, there is love in the world, and the three winters are warm.