A woman in love is unpredictable, looking forward to her boyfriend's little surprise and romance, but some men are careless and do not understand the woman's mind, even if they receive hints, it is difficult to understand, and even misinterpret them to cause embarrassment, which eventually leads to a breakup.
Mr. Zhu did not expect that he and his girlfriend were in love, thinking that they could go to the end, but because of a misunderstanding, his girlfriend was angry and directly announced their breakup.
At noon, Mr. Zhu received a text message from his girlfriend, saying that her menstrual period had ended and that he wanted him to accompany her. Mr. Zhu was very surprised, and immediately sent a WeChat message to ask: "So suddenly?".”
The girlfriend may feel that Mr. Zhu did not understand what she meant, so she emphasized again that she hoped that he would accompany her at night. Mr. Zhu thought that although his girlfriend's aunt was only about 40 years old, her physical condition was not good.
After confirming the relationship with his girlfriend, his girlfriend accompanied him to his aunt's house twice, and the aunt was amiable and admired the loyal and honest Mr. Zhu very much, thinking that his niece had found the right boyfriend.
Therefore, Mr. Zhu is very grateful for the help of his aunt.
Mr. Zhu received a wreath shop **, and when he learned of the sudden death of his aunt, he decided to customize a wreath to express his nostalgia for his aunt. He told the wreath shop the name and address of the great aunt and asked them to deliver it to the great aunt's house as soon as possible.
Originally, he planned to go to his aunt's house to mourn in person after work, but he didn't expect his girlfriend's ** to call, and his voice was almost hoarse: "You have a sick brain!."Why are you sending a wreath to my aunt?
Mr. Zhu was very puzzled, he asked his girlfriend: "It's not what you said, my aunt is gone, why can't I send a wreath to mourn her"?The girlfriend said angrily: "I have nothing to say to people like you, let's break up, that's it!."Hurry up to my aunt's house and dispose of the wreath you sent. ”
Mr. Zhu was confused by his girlfriend's sudden breakup and his aunt's beating, and he didn't understand what he had done wrong. In order to win back his girlfriend's heart, he turned to his friend for help.
When his friend heard his story, he couldn't help but laugh out loud and told him that "big aunt" refers to a woman's menstruation, and "big aunt is gone" means that a woman's menstrual period is over.
This made Mr. Zhu suddenly realize that the timing of his wreath was wrong, which angered his girlfriend and aunt. He decided to apologize to his girlfriend again and had planned to send a bigger wreath to show his sincerity.
Mr. Zhu finally understood his mistake, he realized that he was too lonely, and in order to save his girlfriend, he decided to seek help from **. When he met his girlfriend again, Mr. Zhu explained to her what had happened and apologized for his mistake.
However, his girlfriend saw his "straight steel" nature from this incident, and she thought that he didn't understand the thoughts of girls and wouldn't figure out their minds. If you marry such a person and live together for a long time, you will definitely feel depressed, and even cause "turmoil" again and again.
In general, Mr. Zhu is indeed a "straight man of steel" who lives in his own world. Even a child knows the difference between "the big aunt is here" and "the big aunt is gone", but he naively thinks that "the big aunt is gone" is the passing away, which is both shocking and speechless.
His emotional worldview refuses to accept any information and feedback from the outside world, and he is immersed in his world. Although his friend explained to him the true meaning of "the big aunt is gone", when he faced his girlfriend and reporters, he still insisted that it was his girlfriend's message that caused him to misunderstand, but he did not really realize his mistake from the bottom of his heart.
Originally, his girlfriend coquettished him in order to enhance their relationship, but instead of understanding the amorous feelings, he created a "big oolong" that hurt people, and was finally dumped by his girlfriend, and he had to pay for his low emotional intelligence.
Originally, "eldest aunt" referred to the mother's sister and was an honorific title for the elders. So, since when did "big aunt" become synonymous with women's menstruation?
It is said that as early as the Han Dynasty, there was a legend that allowed the title "great aunt" to replace "menstruation". The main character of this story is a girl named Jia'er, who lives with her aunt after both her parents died.
Later, the eldest aunt introduced Jia'er to a man named Li Shusheng and set them up. One day, Li Shusheng secretly came to Jia'er's room and wanted to get close to her, but Jia'er was very alert and heard the footsteps of the eldest aunt, so he hurriedly pushed Li Shusheng away and said, "The eldest aunt is here, you hide quickly." ”
On the day of the wedding, Jia'er happened to have her period, and when the candle night was spent in the cave room, she was very shy, so she could only shirk and say that the eldest aunt was coming tonight.
From then on, whenever Jia'er came during her menstrual period, she would say "Aunt Big is here", and after the menstrual period ended, it was "Aunt Big Aunt is gone".
Nowadays, more and more modern women tend to use the term "big aunt" to refer to menstruation. In some cases, using the word can avoid unnecessary embarrassment and at the same time make the other person understand what you mean.
As a result, the pronoun "Great Aunt", which had already appeared in the Han Dynasty, began to gradually become popular.