Qin Ziyue is the childhood goddess in the memories of many post-90s generations, and she became popular with the role of the jade-faced fox in "Journey to the West". However, she later gave up her acting career and married the divorced senior Nie Yuan, becoming his "little family jasper". This shift has left countless people in the dark. Qin Ziyue made this choice, was it out of true love, or did he have fantasies about celebrities?Is her life happy now?This article will go through this question by combing through her love story.
Qin Ziyue has been a loyal fan of Nie Yuan since she was a child, and the first time she saw the corner of Zhao Xizhu played by Nie Yuan on TV, she was deeply attracted by this man's handsome appearance. Since then, she has been determined to become Nie Yuan's girlfriend.
In order to realize his dream, Qin Zigao did not choose a design major after graduating from high school, but was admitted to the Department of Chinese Opera Performance. During her time at school, she practiced diligently, looking forward to one day playing with her idol Nie Yuan. She will post Nie Yuan's posters in the dormitory, and watch the dramas Nie Yuan participated in in her spare time. Friends laughed at her as "Nie Yuan's brainless fan", but she could only laugh happily and continue to immerse herself in her love for idols.
In 2011, Qin Ziyue heard that Nie Yuan would play the role of Tang Seng in the new version of "Journey to the West", she joined the crew without saying a word, and asked the director to give her a goblin role that she could have contact with Tang Seng.
Director, as long as you give me a goblin role that plays against Tang Seng, even if it's only one game, I'll perform well!Qin Ziyue clasped his hands together and asked expectantly.
The director was infected by her enthusiasm and said with a smile: "Okay, then arrange a small role for you, I hope you can seize the opportunity." ”
The director agreed, but the role assigned to her was the jade-faced fox fox, the concubine of the Bull Demon King, and there was basically no plot exchange with Tang Seng. Qin Ziyue was disappointed, but he still took the initiative to chat with Nie Yuan for advice during the shooting, hoping to get closer to the idol.
Hello Mr. Nie, can I disturb you for a while?Qin Ziyue walked up to Nie Yuan more shyly, "Can I ask you to give me some acting experience?"”
Nie Yuan looked at the shy little girl in front of him, nodded and said, "You are a newcomer, the most important thing in acting is to integrate into the role, empathize, and not stay on the surface." ”
Thank you, Mr. Nie!I will remember your teachings!Qin Ziyue said happily.
At that time, Nie Yuan was having marital conflicts with his wife Wang Hui, and his mental state was not good. And Qin Ziyue always cared about Nie Yuan, and his words were gentle, so Nie Yuan confided everything in his heart to her. The relationship between the two became closer.
Whenever there was a gap between shooting, Qin Ziyue always leaned over shyly, holding the prepared snacks and drinks in his hands, and greeted Nie Yuan's body carefully.
Teacher Nie doesn't seem to be in a good mood lately, is there anything bothering?Just tell me and I'll keep it a secret for you. Qin Ziyue said to Nie Yuan with a smile.
Nie Yuan had some scruples at first, for fear that others would see his marital problems. But gradually, he couldn't suppress the unhappiness in his heart: "There was a crack in my relationship with my wife, and she always said that I didn't care about her, but I was also working hard for my career."
Qin Ziyue comforted softly: "It's normal for you to have problems in your relationship, as long as both parties understand each other." Don't worry, it will be solved, Mr. Nie!”
Her words were like a clear spring, moistening Nie Yuan's long-dried heart. Nie Yuan was warmly and thoughtfully cared for by Qin Ziyue, and he relied on her very much in his heart. Two lonely hearts are close together, and they are out of control.
Finally, not long after "Journey to the West" was completed, Nie Yuan divorced Wang Hui and confessed to Qin Ziyue. Qin Ziyue was so excited that she burst into tears, she knew too well what it meant - a story of fans and idols kicked off.
The joy of being with her idol overwhelmed Qin Ziyue's mind, she couldn't care about anything else, she just wanted to marry Nie Yuan as soon as possible. Even if she knew that Nie Yuan was in the name of divorce, she didn't care.
They all said that I was a junior in Teacher Nie, but I didn't care what they thought of me. Qin Ziyue said to himself, "As long as I can be with Teacher Nie, I don't care what others say." ”
What made Qin's mother even more worried was that her daughter was soon pregnant with Nie Yuan, and Nie Yuan had not yet married her. She advised Qin Ziyue to think twice, but Qin Ziyue showed a strong spirit of sacrifice.
Mom, don't talk about it, I've made up my mind. If Mr. Nie doesn't marry me, I can give birth to a child and raise it alone, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice for him!Qin Ziyue said stubbornly.
Qin's mother felt sorry for her daughter's blindness, but at this point, she could only let her daughter live the happy life she thought she had. She was always worried that the status of the two was very different, and Nie Yuan would treat her daughter like a toy, and the consequences would be unimaginable.
In order to present the best state at the wedding, Qin Ziyue worked hard to shape himself. She only eats some vegetables and fruits every day, and runs and exercises at night, for fear that her figure will affect Nie Yuan's opinion of her.
Finally, she married Nie Yuan as she wished and became his little family Jasper. The joy of marrying her idol overwhelmed her, and she didn't think about whether such sacrifices and efforts were worth it. In her heart, marrying Nie Yuan is the whole meaning of her life.
Life after marriage proves that Qin's mother's worries are justified. Qin Ziyue not only gave up his career, but also became Nie Yuan's nanny and servant.
She gets up early every day and does housework at night, and the so-called "home" is actually just to take care of Nie Yuan's daily life. Nie Yuan can stay in bed and do nothing, and she has to reheat the dishes over and over again, for fear of affecting the mood of her uncle-like husband.
Husband, get up and eat, it's almost ten o'clock!Qin Ziyue leaned into the bedroom with a smile on his face and shouted.
Got it, got it, don't bother me!Nie Yuan rolled over and continued to sleep. He didn't care if the meal was hot or not, anyway, Qin Ziyue would serve him.
What's even more exaggerated is that Nie Yuan even asked Qin Ziyue to serve himself in clothes and shoes, as if she was the servant he hired. Every morning, Qin Ziyue had to carefully choose clothes for Nie Yuan, and he had to put them on for him with his own hands.
Husband, do you think this shirt is suitable?Qin Ziyue picked up a shirt and looked in front of Nie Yuan.
You're going to get these useless things, how many times have I said it, this dress doesn't fit!Nie Yuan said impatiently.
I'm sorry husband, I'll change it!Qin Zi apologized more and more hurriedly.
What's even more eye-popping is that Qin Ziyue is still willing to take on all the housework and child-rearing tasks, and Nie Yuan never helps. Her energy was all focused on serving Nie Yuan, and she had no time to take care of herself.
It's okay, my husband works hard outside, and I should serve him. Qin Ziyue said.
seems to have a humble life, but Qin Ziyue himself said that he was very happy. Because she loves Nie Yuan deeply, she has always regarded serving Nie Yuan as her vocation.
But we should also reflect on whether the unspoken rules and dark side of Vanity Fair are eroding her dignity and worth as an independent womanIs she overly idealizing love and ignoring the importance of equality and autonomy?
Perhaps only she knows the answer. We should not jump to conclusions, but we should also remind ourselves that we need reason and bottom line in love, and we should not be trapped by love;And women's independent spirit is the cornerstone of happiness.
For example, Qin Ziyue can continue to develop in the entertainment industry and enrich his life. She can also establish herself in her relationship, instead of completely dedicating herself to Nie Yuan. Whether she will regret her choice today in the future is difficult to say.
But we should at least realize that loving someone should not mean sacrificing ourselves. Only two separate individuals can create a happy relationship. This is also a belief that the women of our generation should have.
Love and ideals often blind people, but we should still keep ourselves. May Qin Ziyue find his own path to happiness. Perhaps, the story is not over yet, and there are many more possibilities ahead. But what remains unchanged is that every woman should fight for her own dignity and status and become an independent individual.