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In 2023, there are 22 days left in the countdown.
Looking back on this year, I believe many people will sigh that time flies so fast, and they are a year older after doing nothing;But there are also some people who are very satisfied with the past 2023 and feel that they have gained a lot.
If you were to rate your 2023 and the full score is 10, how many would you rate?Do you feel like you don't have anything to gain?Or do you feel like you're having a great time?
If it were me, I would give myself an 8. In 2023, everyone is shouting difficulties, whether it is the economic environment or the social environment, it is simply difficult to see the direction and have no clue.
I also only did one action,Dive and polish yourself.
Because I had no distractions, when I did the year-end review in December, I found that in 2023, my annual small goal was 80. I was very happy in my heart, and it was really not in vain.
If I were to sum up my 2023 in just one sentence:Those who help themselves, God helps.
2023 is very busy, and I have quickly completed 2 major things: the first thing is that from a novice lecturer, I have become more and more able to control the podium, and I have unconsciously become a person who can both write and speak.
This year, I have done 3 trainings in the company, held 5 salons offline, developed 3 courses "Workplace Communication", "Super Expressiveness: You Win as soon as you open your mouth", "Super Individual", and an ongoing course "New ** Writing", which is planned to be completed during the Spring Festival holiday.
The second thing is to push my *** writing on the right track. Since the National Day, I have made up my mind to do *** seriouslyWake up at 6 a.m. every morning to writeand stick to it every week in the midst of busyness.
The second, fourth, and sixth articles are updated regularly, and a total of 37 original articles have been completed so far. Relying on article recommendations alone, in just 2 months, my followers have risen by nearly 1000.
Among them, "The eldest man is 6 years old and marries into a wealthy family, why can 34-year-old Xi Mengyao get such a good marriage, the truth is all here!".The number of views of this article has exceeded 380 thousand.
In 2023, I will continue to read, and I have successively read Kazuo Inamori's "Living Method", "Learning Law" and "Dry Law", Zhou Ling's "Cognitive Drive" and "Cognitive Awakening", and Jack Welch and other books on cognition, methods and business.
But this year, I didn't read a lot of books, only 15 books. After all, writing and the exploration of short ** occupy a large part of the time, but the overall harvest is full: not only has completed a new upgrade for myself, but also taken a big step forward in knowledge reserve, Xi cultivation and experience precipitation, and formed a sustainable closed loop of development.
Let's not talk about how much of a achievement. Truth be told, it takes absolute self-discipline to be able to accomplish these things without a high bonus**. And I myself am getting better and better in self-discipline.
In 2024, it will be a new year, and I will also start to make a layout for the new year. If you want to make a difference in 2024, I'd love to help you plan better. At the same time, I will also share my experience of making achievements step by step.
If you also want to change, in 2024, you must work hard in these 3 directions.
Think independently and be yourself
Be yourselfIt's actually quite difficult.
There are always people around each of us who want to influence you, if you want to be recognized by others, you have to say what others say, it doesn't matter what you think in your heart, but you can't resist with your mouth. Otherwise, either others will make you up, or they will point to Sang and scold Huai to you.
In order to be recognized by others, how many people are constantly hiding themselves?I once observed a friend's circle of friends, and most of the time, her circle of friends was the company's news, the company's welfare to thank the company, and the words of thanksgiving to the leader.
But suddenly one day, the style of the things she sent changed greatly, it was **, food, and the crooked theory of very spicy eyes. I was curious about what happened to her, so I greeted her on WeChat and asked her what she had been busy with lately, and she replied to me with a very cool expression and a few eye-catching big words:I'm leaving!Hahahaha.
You see, this is the true self, and most of us,But they are all losing themselves in order to get the short-term recognition of others.
Why do you say that you must insist on being yourself?
Because, most of the time others recognize you because what you do is in their interests. But we are dealing with all kinds of people, their interests are not the same, if you are busy meeting everyone's needs all your life, dealing with one trivial thing after another, listening to one right and wrong after another, then you will only be busy, and you will not be able to live your own value.
And the core of personal value is by no means to obtain the temporary recognition of others, let alone the recognition of everyone. It's about finding your expertise and strengthsStick to long-termism, find that part of the people who especially look up to you, and provide value to them.
It was with this in mind that I focused on training and writing, and I did achieve good results in this field. So, it really doesn't matter what other people say about me, because people in this field recognize me, and they are the high-net-worth clients I want to maintain.
In 2024, I also hope that everyone can find their goalsDirection + Attitude + Method = Success, Determined to Become Who You Want to Be.
Invest in health and have a good body
Over the years, there have been too many stories that inspire you to run and make you work hard, and everyone has slowly become the "king of volumes". Open the circle of friends: either this one is on a business trip, or that one is working overtime. Everyone, without exception, is on the road for life.
Everyone tells you that you have to work hard, but no one tells youYou must pay attention to your body, and physical health is the foundation of everything.
In the past, I was also the king of rolls, a typical Xi + workaholic, I didn't drive for 12 hours after work, sometimes I went to bed at 12 a.m. and got up at 6 a.m. the next day.
Until one day, when I saw a girl's story, I was so scared that I broke out in a cold sweat, and immediately adjusted my routine, adjusted my sleep time to 10 o'clock at night, and insisted on exercising 3 times a week.
The girl who alerted me was Yu Juan, a female doctor from Fudan University who died of breast cancer 12 years ago.
That's also a good inspirational girl. When she was young, she had been struggling for her career: first she was admitted to Shanghai Jiao Tong University in the college entrance examination, which has left many people behind, but she was not satisfied, and was admitted to Fudan University as a graduate student, and then studied for a doctorate, stayed in school to teach, and evaluated professional titles.
Even at the moment before the child was born, what she was thinking about was to look at the subject and **. Until one day, Yu Juan was in pain in the corridor of the classroom and was sent to the hospital for rescueDiagnosed with advanced breast cancer, the cancer has spread throughout the body.
Despite experiencing a difficult fight against cancer, Yu Juan was still taken away by the disease, and a young life withered.
What caused this young girl to develop cancer?It's because she's working hard enough that her life never stops running: working during the day, studying Xi at night, in her wordsIn the past 0 years, I have basically not slept before 12 o'clock, and every time I take an exam, the fighting time starts with 20 hours.
All her aura was obtained by overdrawing her body and taking her life in exchange.
And we are not like this, human energy is limited. The biggest regret in life is to devote the whole life to the pursuit of material things, until the health is lost a little bit, and the critical point of death will wake up.
In 2024, I hope that we will work less overtime, stay up late, exercise diligently, and have a good body, which is the capital for us to work hard to get to the second half.
Deep Xi and have stronger action
If there is an investment in the world that spends the least money and has the highest returns, the answer must be Xi.
Of course, learning Xi is not about letting you learn without a purpose, but according to your personal growth goalsShort-term learning to apply + long-term dimension improvement, in-depth learning Xi, knowledge and action integration.
In terms of learning Xi, many people are prone to fall into a misunderstanding, thinking that if they have seen it and know it, they will know it. This is very wrong, from knowledge to action, in fact, there is still a big distance, you have to practice 100 times, so that the melon is ripe, to really do it.
If you don't take action and practice repeatedly, what you learn is just scratching the surface.
I'm a big fan of Xi, and even if I encounter a bad course, I can dig into what I wantBecause, I will use actual combat to verify. Just like when I walked to the podium, I didn't think about it and became a lecturer, but because I mastered enough methods** and practiced countless times on stage at the same time, I finally walked to the podium.
In 2014, I hope that everyone will continue to learn Xi and apply what they have learned. Thinking about all problems, really doing it, and constantly solving and improving yourself through repeated trial and error, can you truly enjoy the benefits brought by learning Xi.
And learning Xi will definitely let you see the bigger world, help you get rid of narrow-mindedness, no longer worry about the small things in front of you, and keep moving forward.
In 2024, may you be determined to be yourself, have a good body, let Xi continue to upgrade for yourself, and everything you want can come true, come on!
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