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My monthly pension of 3,500 yuan after retirement is not high, but it is more than enough to live with my wife in the countryside. Our days are full of nourishment.
My healthy wife got cancer and died when I was 63 years old. When my wife was alive, she did all the housework, and I never interfered. When she died, I felt like I had broken my arms, and my life suddenly lost its luster.
My son, who works in the city, was filial and took me to live at their house, I didn't want to go, I was worried that there would be conflicts together after a long time, but my son and daughter-in-law insisted on me going, saying that I was not worried that I was alone at home.
My daughter from the countryside also said that her brother was kind and that living there would make my quality of life better.
In this way, under the persuasion of my children, I went to my son's house to care for the elderly. My son and daughter-in-law are very good to me, and I feel very comfortable in life.
My mother-in-law came to the city to see a doctor and stayed at her son's house. Because my son and daughter-in-law are busy with work, my mother-in-law's illness is not a serious illness, so sometimes I accompany my mother-in-law to the hospital.
I went out to buy groceries every day, and under the guidance of my mother-in-law, I cooked some simple meals, and we both ate them at home. I treated her like a relative, and I took care of her as the master of the house.
After her mother recovered from her illness, she did not return to her hometown and continued to live at her son's house. Every day I buy groceries, my mother-in-law cooks the family's meals, helps my daughter-in-law clean up the house, and does the laundry. The son and daughter-in-law are a lot more relaxed.
After the death of her father-in-law, her mother-in-law has been single for several years. I found several blind dates without success.
I got along well with my mother-in-law, and my son and daughter-in-law seemed to be very good, so I arranged for the two of us to live together.
They say that if the two of us are combined: first, there is a mutual care in life;The second is that for them, a lot of burden is relieved, and those who live old and young will not be distracted.
This kind of kissing and kissing thing is good to say and not good, and I don't agree with it. can't stand the constant mention of my son and daughter-in-law, and my mother-in-law seems to be interested in me. Always care about me in life.
I also want to have a woman around me and my quality of life will be better. always lives under the same roof with his son, and it is inevitable to bump and bump.
I have a wife, the two of us are free, I have a pension, and my life will be very good. The second wife is looking for anyone, as long as the temper is good, the two of them can get by. So I agreed.
Unexpectedly, the days after marriage made me miserable.
My mother-in-law said that she should have a sense of security in her marriage, and that my monthly pension should be completely handed over to her, so that she is steady, which is a manifestation of my love for her.
I think the two of them really live their lives, both for daily expenses, so she can take it.
Unexpectedly, a contradiction appeared.
The two of us moved out of our son's house and lived independently. My son and daughter-in-law often come to our place for dinner, which is understandable. We don't have much to do, and it's okay to cook for our children.
The point is that sometimes my daughter comes to see me from the countryside, and my mother-in-law behaves very coldly, and I have to cook the food, she either has a headache and a backache, or she has something to go out to do, and there is always a reason to shirk anyway.
I cooked a few more dishes, and she always said afterwards that I was partial to my daughter. When my son and daughter-in-law come, I can't do that much.
My son and daughter-in-law come to eat almost every day, and basically whatever we eat, they follow what we eat. My daughter comes once in a while, can I not be lavish?She usually lives at home, and she is reluctant to eat.
Besides, every time my daughter comes to improve the food, my son's family is also here.
My mother-in-law was not happy when she saw it, saying that my bowl of water was not leveled. She always politely told my daughter that we were both physically tough, and we didn't need our daughter to run all the time.
Actually, my daughter cares about me. But in the eyes of my mother-in-law, it is that my daughter's living conditions in the countryside are not good, and I have a monthly pension, and my daughter comes to me to make up for something.
I said that my son and daughter, the palms and backs of my hands are full of meat, and I treat them the same. She said that I want the leaves to return to my roots, and I rely on my son to support my old age, and my daughter is the water that is spilled.
My mother-in-law favored my daughter, and I was a little dissatisfied with it.
The news that I got married to my mother-in-law was known to the neighbors. They have all sorts of things to say about us. Some say that this approach is inappropriate, who can't find an elderly twilight love, why look for this kind of relationship?Unclear.
When we go out, there are always whispers behind our backs. I was a little embarrassed about this, and I didn't want to go out with her. But she wanted to take my arm and go out, saying that we were legally husband and wife, what were we afraid of.
The mother-in-law has a hot temper, and when she hears someone talking about it, she goes directly to someone else to theorize. The neighbors kept talking. It's a shame for me.
There are also small frictions between the two of us in life. The two of us don't have a good temperament, she is violent, and she always thinks that I don't help her with housework at home.
For so many years, I have been used to being served by my ex-wife, even if the oil bottle at home is poured, I don't need to help me, I just have to earn money outside.
Now that I am united with my mother-in-law, I feel that I have done a lot of housework, but my mother-in-law is still not satisfied. It is said that now men and women are equal, and housework must be divided equally. It is even said that young people are busy with work, and we have to try to help our son and daughter-in-law with something.
I have a pension, and she, an old lady in the countryside, doesn't have a pension, so why don't you say that?
She said that my pension is to maintain our daily life, and secondly, it is given to my son and daughter-in-law, she did not take advantage, but just supervised for her daughter, I don't want to spend money blindly, in the final analysis, my money is still my son's, which reassures me.
When my mother-in-law said this, I felt even more uncomfortable, and I felt that my twilight love, the most wronged was my daughter, and I lived in it, and it was also very painful.
It's over, I don't have the courage to do it, I'm afraid of affecting the feelings of my son and daughter-in-law, and now I'm really conflicted, and I'm living with my fingers broken every day.
So elderly friends, sunset love is not impossible, but you must be cautious, consider all aspects of the situation, don't settle, otherwise like me, you will be in a dilemma, and you will suffer yourself.