I'm clear skies. watched "Returning the Pearl" before, and felt that the combination of crape myrtle and Er Kang was an unexpected accident.
Ziwei made a big fuss about the parade because Xiaoyanzi "robbed" her Gege identity;
Er Kang brought the crape myrtle who "shouted grievances" to his home**, so he gradually became acquainted with each other and fell in love.
Later, Qing'er appeared, Er Kang was unmoved, and always "loved Ziwei as one", I really felt that Er Kang was a person worthy of trust.
However, recently re-watched "Returning the Pearl", I watched the things of Er Kang and Ziwei, Er Kang and Qing'er back and forth several times, only to find that Er Kang is not a frank gentleman.
He not only deceived Qing'er, but also deceived Ziwei!
If you don't believe me, I'll take you to see it.
In the second part, Qing'er returned from Wutai Mountain with Lafayette, and Ziwei learned that Er Kang originally had an "ex-girlfriend".
Er Kang confessed to Ziwei that the emperor and Lafayette had intended to "point" Qing'er to Er Kang.
But that's just a casual remark, and everyone doesn't take it seriously.
But Ziwei's reaction was great, and the woman's sixth sense made her feel that this Qing'er was not simple, and Er Kang must have a "past" with her.
Er Kang began to refuse to admit it, and then Ziwei was in a hurry, so Er Kang said lightly
Three years ago, he went to Wutai Mountain to deliver things to Lafayette, watched the snow and the moon in the corridor with Qing'er, talked about the philosophy of life from poetry and songs, and the two talked all night, and nothing happened.
I didn't take this matter to heart before.
Recently, when I rewatched "Returning the Pearl", I began to notice that Erkang actually lied.
Er Kang and Qing'er were "affectionate" at the beginning.
As for how deep this "love" is, I'm afraid it is"If there was no crape myrtle, Er Kang would have married Qing'er."
Why?
Here are 3 details::
First,When Lafayette and Qing'er returned, she was unhappy when she learned that Er Kang and Ziwei had been "married" by the emperor.
Because she wanted to leave Erkang to Qing'er, she must have seen that Qing'er had a "heart" for Erkang.
Second,Er Kang and Ziwei said that what happened to him and Qing'er three years ago was full of loopholes.
Think about it carefully, the royal family has strict rules, if the two are not interested in each other, what is there to talk about, they can talk all night regardless of the difference between men and women?
Besides, it was winter in Beijing, and the two of them could stay overnight under the windy porch on all sides?Aren't they afraid of the cold?
It doesn't stand up to scrutiny here.
Third,Qing'er told Lafayette that she didn't want Erkang anymore.
That shows that Qing'er is "proud", she is not "moved" or "retreated" as I once imagined, she saw Er Kang's change of heart, and she "disdain" to fight with Ziwei.
If Lafayette's power is used, she may not be able to compete for a blessing or a side blessing.
But she "disdain", she wants a single-minded man, she saw Erkang's calculations, and she was determined to hide away.
What did Qing'er find?
In terms of appearance, talent, and status, Qing'er and Ziwei are comparable.
Why did Er Kang abandon Qing'er after he met Ziwei?
There are three reasons for this:
First,There is a difference in status.
Although Qing'er and Ziwei are both Gege, Qing'er is the daughter of Prince Yu, and Ziwei is the real Gege.
Therefore, when the genuine "forehead attached" is higher than being the son-in-law of the prince's family, the status must be higher.
And in the future, the children they will give birth to, the children born to Ziwei, will also have a more noble status than the children born to Qing'er.
Second,The backers behind the two are different.
Qing'er has the support of the emperor and Lafayette, while Ziwei only has the emperor, because Lafayette favors Qing'er the most.
But the emperor's favorite is Xiaoyanzi, in the emperor's heart, Ziwei is the most polite and sensible.
So if you marry Qing'er, once the two have a little friction after marriage, or feel that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't get along well, if you come back and complain to Lafayette, then Lafayette will definitely make decisions for Qing'er.
Because Qing'er was raised by her side since she was a child, she has a deep relationship, and she is also a woman, Lafayette can understand Qing'er better.
But if she marries Ziwei, if things don't make a big fuss, she is embarrassed to go back to her parents' house and say it.
Because the queen doesn't like her, and she doesn't have a good relationship with the Fu family, it's inconvenient to interfere;
The emperor is a big man, and he has no patience to manage trivial matters between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Ziwei didn't want the emperor to know about her bad feelings.
If Ziwei complains to Concubine Ling, then Concubine Ling is Er Kang's aunt, who do you think she will talk to?
In the end, there are only little swallows left. But Xiaoyanzi himself is difficult to protect, and it is not easy to meddle in the affairs of the Fu family, besides, Er Kang has never heard of Xiaoyanzi.
So here are the facts:
Compared with marrying Qing'er, marrying crape myrtle is more cost-effective, and there is less trouble "after marriage".
If you don't have crape myrtle, Qing'er is undoubtedly the best choice. But when comparing Ziwei, the smart Er Kang has a balance in his heart.
Third,Add a little more emotional component:
In addition to the calculation part, Er Kang still has true love for Ziwei.
On the day of Ziwei's big parade and Erkang's first meeting, Ziwei had obviously been stopped by the guards, and she was desperately trying to break free, even if she was beaten and bruised all over her body, she had to shout injustice.
That's why there was a scene of falling down and grabbing the corner of Er Kang's clothes.
At that moment, crape myrtle was both brave and weak. He was deeply impressed.
Later, Er Kang also said that at that moment, he "fell in love at first sight" with Ziwei.
Therefore, emotional matters should not be forced. Only by seeing clearly early can we turn around in time and find true happiness.
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Clear Sky, a post-90s freelancer, is committed to self-cultivation and self-writing, and pays to read and study Xi every year.
The road is long and the line is coming. I hope to meet you who like writing as much as I do, and let us stick to this matter together and leave no regrets for ourselves.