Come from to clear your sorrows.
In 2011, 23-year-old Wang Xiao graduated from Xi'an University of Technology and became a white-collar worker at Xi'an Huarong Company.
She is ready to fall in love and get married after two years of work, and everything in the future is full of light and hope.
At the beginning of 2012, Wang Xiao suddenly felt tired, unable to eat, and even shaky when walking.
When I went to the Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University, I found that I was suffering from uremia, and it was already in the advanced stage!
Regardless of the sadness, Wang Xiao was immediately hospitalized to receive **. The doctor said that if she didn't have a kidney replacement, she probably wouldn't last more than a year.
Wang Xiao's parents have chronic diseases and are not eligible for organ transplantsMy sister's conditions met, but my brother-in-law didn't agree to it.
Wang Xiao soaked in the QQ group of patients all day long, struggling to find life.
One day in April 2013, someone gave her an idea: "You can go to the cancer cluster and find a male patient to marry." When he passed away, he received a kidney transplant as his wife. As long as cancer patients do not have renal failure and blood group anastomosis, their kidneys are generally eligible for donation. ”
Under the recommendation of a patient, Wang Xiao joined the "It's Good to Be Alive" QQ group for cancer patients in Xi'an. Subsequently, she posted a marriage notice in the group.
In the notice, she wrote apprehensively and sincerely: "After marriage, I will give each other the best care!."In order to live, please forgive me for being humble and filthy!”
The post quickly caused a reaction in the group. Wandering on the edge of the cliff of death, no one could bear to blame her, and many people sighed.
On the evening of the third day, a group friend with the screen name "Like Sunflowers" asked Wang Xiao: "Are you a spoof?"”
Wang Xiao immediately sent his medical certificate and ID card to the other party**.
After a long while, the other party replied, "I am willing to marry you." My name is Yu Jianping, from Xi'an, 27 years old, suffering from myeloma for 3 years, blood type B, bone marrow transplant in 2012, **, no longer hopeful. ”
Wang Xiao was overjoyed and quickly exchanged mobile phone numbers with Yu Jianping.
Yu Jianping wanted to continue chatting, but Wang Xiao replied for a long time: "Dialysis!."The arm is fixed, and now it's a one-handed beast!”
A few seconds later, Wang Xiao sent a section of ***, Wang Xiao was lying on the side of the dialysis machine, and red blood was flowing in the infusion tube.
Her face was pale, but her smile was bright: "See?".After a while, my sister's old appearance changes to a new look, and it changes with each passing day!”
Yu Jianping was dumbfounded, this girl is so naughty!
In late June 2013, Wang Xiao was temporarily discharged from the hospital. The two made an appointment to meet in Xingqing Palace Park in Xi'an.
When they met, it was a hot day, but both of them were wearing masks. From afar, they "recognized" each other at a glance and hugged each other.
Wang Xiao laughed: "Is this a blind date?"How is it like a spy joint?Two wonders!”
Yu Jianping was amused by her, and also joked: "Come on!."Look at me, and you have hope in life!”
Yu Jianping took off his mask, and Wang Xiao found that his face was ugly. It turned out that as early as a year ago, he gave up hospitalization**, and the maintenance of his blood picture depended on medication.
Wang Xiao was very surprised: "How can this work?".You're so sloppy, something big can go wrong at any moment!”
Yu Jianping's expression was gloomy: "I don't care. I've had enough, you're waiting for my kidneys anyway!This is a heaviness that neither of them can get around, Wang Xiao was silent.
Yu Jianping only made one request to Wang Xiao: "You don't need to take care of me, but you have to take care of my father for me after I die." This request was poignant, and Wang Xiao nodded without hesitation.
Yu Jianping, who is two years older than Wang Xiao, graduated from Xi'an Jiaotong University and is a business manager of Xi'an Everbright Wealth Management Company. When he and his girlfriend were about to get married, they were suddenly diagnosed with leukemia. Soon, the girlfriend left.
His mother had died, and his father had sold the house to treat him. He had a bright future, but his life fell into a desperate situation.
In the beginning, he also hated the injustice of fate. After leukemia**, he despaired of himself and became more and more worried about his father: his mother is gone, the house is sold, the money is gone, if he leaves again, how can his father live alone?
This thought weighed heavily on Jianping's heart, and when he felt helpless, he unexpectedly saw Wang Xiao's marriage notice.
He knew very well that this agreement had no legal effect, but for him who was desperate, there was no "way", he could only try.
Wang Xiao actually had a similar idea. It is not easy to find a kidney source of the same blood type, so even if the operation is risky, she is not willing to give up this opportunity!
On July 16, 2013, the two went through registration procedures at the Civil Affairs Bureau of Beilin District, Xi'an.
At noon, the special couple celebrated their "marriage" in a small restaurant and signed a special agreement: in view of the physical condition of both parties, the two do not live together, are not public, and have independent property. If Yu Jianping voluntarily donated a kidney to her before Wang Xiao died, Yu Jianping would inform his father in the form of a suicide note. If the donation operation is successful, Wang Xiao will survive and need to take care of Yu Jianping's father until the old man dies. If Yu Jianping's kidneys cannot be used, Wang Xiao does not have to bear the responsibility of filial piety.
Although the purpose of "marriage" is not pure, after really "getting married", both of them can't help but worry about each other, after all, this is likely to be the only marriage in their lives.
They have to play a lot of ** every day, and they talk for a long time. Wang Xiao has insomnia, Yu Jianping took the initiative to say: "My storytelling is the most boring, I promise to let you fall asleep." I'll tell you a hypnotic story every night. ”
Wang Xiao said happily: "Okay!."In his gentle and magnetic voice, Wang Xiao quickly fell asleep.
At the beginning of September 2013, Wang Xiao's creatinine level suddenly rose sharply, exceeding the normal value by more than 30 times, and she was urgently hospitalized. Seeing that his calves were swollen and shiny, and recalling that a patient was like this before he died, Wang Xiao couldn't smile anymore.
Yu Jianping sent a message, but she didn't have the heart to reply;He called, but she didn't answer. Yu Jianping was afraid that she would have an accident, so he went to the Nephrology Department of the Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University, searched for it one by one, and finally found Wang Xiao.
Seeing Yu Jianping, Wang Xiao was startled. Seeing that Wang Xiao's parents were also in the ward, Yu Jianping hurriedly introduced himself: "Uncle and aunt, I am Wang Xiao's patient, come and see her." ”
When Wang Xiao's parents left the ward, Yu Jianping immediately lowered his face: "Why don't you say anything when you're sick?"”
Wang Xiao forced a happy face: "I'm sorry, I can't wait for the day of kidney replacement." ”
Seeing Wang Xiao, who was depressed, Yu Jianping felt very uncomfortable. At the same time, an idea came to him: "If I spend more time with her now, she may be able to remember me well in the future and be kind to my father......."Yu Jianping decided to go to the hospital every day to accompany Wang Xiao.
With the encouragement and companionship of Yu Jianping, after half a month of system**, Wang Xiao's indicators have been lowered, her leg swelling has disappeared, and she has returned to her past naughtiness.
Once, Yu Jianping was not in the ward, she used the beauty mode to take a photo of her calves and sent it to Yu Jianping: "Hey, the one who is a husband, share my ecstasy calves!."”
Yu Jianping laughed: "Amazing and dazzling!."If you're not sick, I'll chase you!”
Wang Xiao felt happy in her heart: "Then wait for me to get better!."After saying this, Yu Jianping fell silent for a while.
Wang Xiao's heart sank: if she wants to get better completely, she has to rely on Jianping's kidney. She quickly diverted the subject.
Yu Jianping is actually a humorous person, he wrote a lot of jokes when he was in college, and he can also act in sketches. It was only because of the torture of illness that his mood gradually became low.
After being with the lively Wang Xiao, his talent for humor was stimulated again. Whenever Wang Xiao was tortured by illness and lost her temper, he would send her a few original humorous jokes that made her laugh.
Yu Jianping, who is good at making soup, also learned to make medicinal food with his friends. According to the taboos of their respective conditions, he made two cans of soup every day and brought them to the ward to drink together.
Every time he drank, he made an exaggerated noise: "Oops!."This should be called the same disease soup!It's delicious, it's delicious!”
And Wang Xiao also cared about him very much, and asked him about his blood every day. After a long time, Yu Jianping formed a conditioned reflex, and as soon as he saw Wang Xiao, he automatically reported a large number of data, and then said: "The report is complete, please instruct!."”
Two people care for each other, warm each other, and the two hearts are getting closer and closer.
On the night of New Year's Day in 2014, Yu Jianping had dinner and specially brought a flower basket made by himself to visit Wang Xiao.
As soon as they met, Yu Jianping gave her a hug: "Happy New Year!."”
Wang Xiao hugged him tightly and said, "Happy New Year, husband." ”
Yu Jianping laughed: "You should say, Happy New Year, my kidneys!."”
Wang Xiao's eyes turned red instantly, Yu Jianping hugged her tightly and said, "I like you!."Silly girl!In the dimly lit streets, Wang Xiao closed her eyes happily.
However, after New Year's Day, Wang Xiao couldn't contact Yu Jianping again. On the morning of January 9, Wang Xiao took a taxi to Yu Jianping's house according to the address on her ID card, and it was Yu Jianping's aunt who opened the door.
Aunt Yu told her that Yu Jianping had stopped even taking oral chemotherapy drugs recently, and his blood was in a mess. His father urged him to go to the hospital, but he refused to go. A week ago, Yu's father called several relatives and forcibly sent him to Xijing Hospital.
In an instant, Wang Xiao's tears suddenly gushed out: Yu Jianping is deliberately speeding up her death, so as to fulfill her!
This fool, this madman!Wang Xiao quickly rushed to Xijing Hospital. On the way, she cried and scolded Yu Jianping.
However, it was in this "life and death" choice that Wang Xiao figured out one thing: she wanted to hold Yu Jianping's hand and cross the vast sea together, and they wanted to live together!
As soon as he appeared in front of Yu Jianping, Wang Xiao shouted loudly: "Yu Jianping, if you don't take medicine or treat your illness, you want to find death, right?"”
Yu Jianping was afraid that Wang Xiao would say the wrong thing, so he hurriedly signaled for his father to be there. Wang Xiao pulled the old man out of the ward and told him what had happened.
She solemnly said to her father: "Since Jianping and I are already husband and wife, we have to die together and live together!."”
Returning to the ward, she gave Yu Jianping another ultimatum: "You must be good **, otherwise, I will divorce you, and I don't want your kidney!."”
Yu Jianping emphasized to Wang Xiao: "I didn't give up just for you, I don't want to be offended, and I don't have any money." Death can still save you now, and when the kidneys are damaged later, it's too late!”
Wang Xiao couldn't suppress the anger in her heart anymore, and rushed up crying and slapped Yu Jianping: "You're not afraid of death, and I'm not afraid either!."We are not even afraid of death, are we still afraid of living?”
Yu Jianping was stunned by her, and asked over and over again with tears in his eyes: "Why are you suffering?"”
Wang Xiao also said with tears in her eyes: "I'm unwilling, I haven't been in love yet, you just be a sparring partner, can't you?"”
Yu Jianping muttered, "Can I do it?"”
You can do it, because we are on the same starting line, we are equal, and we are both backwards!Wang Xiao said loudly with tears in her eyes.
Yu Jianping laughed, but then cried again. This time, he clearly saw the hope of life.
That afternoon, after Wang Xiao went home, she put the marriage certificate in front of her parents: "I hid it from you...... got married."The stunned parents figured out the cause and effect, and wept with grief.
How can they bear to blame their daughter?For the "sick son-in-law" who suddenly appeared, they could only accept: "The marriage certificate has been obtained, that is, our children." ”
After that, Wang Xiao went to dialysis again, and also chose Xijing Hospital, so that she and Yu Jianping could take care of each other. The two families also rented a garage near the hospital to cook together and provide nutrition for their two children.
At the beginning of 2014, both of them were basically stable. Wang Xiao began to be busy raising money for Yu Jianping's medicine and performing a second bone marrow transplant.
Because of a bone marrow transplant, Yu's family is already surrounded by walls. Yu Jianping has not been working for a long time, and his income is only the basic subsidy of the unit.
Wang Xiao planned to borrow money from his parents and treat him first. However, Yu Jianping refused to accept it no matter what: "This is contrary to the agreement we made when we got married." What do you do if I fail to transplant again?”
Wang Xiao's parents also disagreed: "We only have less than 500,000 yuan in savings, this is your life-saving money!."What if you wait for the kidney source one day?No one can touch this money!”
This road didn't work, and Wang Xiao began to think of ways to make money again. However, as a patient with advanced uremia, she simply couldn't find a way to make money.
Just when she was helpless, a friend introduced her to a Taiwanese craftsman who would make beautiful "immortal flowers".
"Eternal Flowers" has a haunting and poignant story: during World War II, the war spread to Andorra la Vella in southern Europe, and a couple is about to part. The boy plucked the blooming rose from the garden and gave it to his girlfriend, saying, "When the last petal of the rose rots, you forget about me and start a new life." ”
However, after he left, his girlfriend dehydrated, dried, and dyed the petals, so that the flowers would never wither. Finally, the boy returned, and the two were never separated again.
And this flower that never withers is called "eternal flower".
Wang Xiao feels that the story of the immortal flower is simply a portrayal of her and Yu Jianping.
She immediately made an immortal flower under the guidance of the artist and brought it to Yu Jianping: "We are like this immortal flower, although it has been faded and dyed, it is just as gorgeous!."”
Seeing that the "immortal flower" was exactly the same as the real flower, Yu Jianping was amazed. What surprised him even more was Wang Xiao's decision that she would make a large number of immortal flowers to sell on the street to raise money for Yu Jianping's medicine.
She said confidently, "You wait for me!".”
Yu Jianping was deeply touched: "I also make flowers with you and accompany you to sell flowers." ”
Before the Spring Festival in 2014, Wang Xiao and Yu Jianping's "Eternal Flower" flower stall opened in a square. Wang Xiao wrote the stories of the two into cards and hung them in front of the flower stall.
She wrote: "This is the eternal flower that blooms in the ruins, the flower is eternal, and the love is eternal!”
In less than two hours, the more than 100 flowers they brought were sold out.
In just a few days, they earned more than 3,000 yuan.
After hearing their story, the owner of a flower shop not only purchased a large number of goods from Wang Xiao, but also called on everyone to find Wang Xiao to buy goods in the local floral group.
Soon, Wang Xiao got a fixed order of 10,000 boxes of eternal flowers every month, and the business became bigger and bigger. There is a kind-hearted person who bought 70,000 yuan of immortal flowers at a time to give away.
In less than two months, Wang Xiao raised 300,000 yuan for Yu Jianping's surgery.
In mid-April, Wang Xiao entrusted her sister to go to Shanghai to contact Shanghai Ruijin Hospital, the hospital where Yu Jianping had his first surgery. After examination, Yu Jianping's physical condition met the conditions for bone marrow transplantation.
On April 19, the hospital contacted the original donor, a 25-year-old Zhejiang ** year, through the bone marrow bank. The other party is willing to donate bone marrow again, and when she heard the news, Wang Xiao cried with joy!
Wang Xiao's parents took out 100,000 yuan, and the Yu family father and son raised another 100,000 yuan, making a total of 500,000 yuan.
On April 26, Yu Jianping completed a second bone marrow transplant at Shanghai Ruijin Hospital.
Before entering the cabin, Wang Xiao held a bouquet of red immortal flowers and kissed Yu Jianping's forehead with tears: "Husband, I'll wait for you to come out healthy!."”
Yu Jianping gave her a solid hug: "Wait for me." ”
Because this is the second transplant, the risks will increase indefinitely. After more than a month in the cabin, Yu Jianping struggled with life and death several times.
And Wang Xiao keeps making immortal flowers, and she believes that these flowers that have been reborn in Nirvana will emit the strongest fragrance in the world, and her husband will definitely be able to smell it!
At the same time, Wang Xiao is also desperately trying to save herself, she regularly does dialysis, runs, and takes traditional Chinese medicine.
At the end of May, Yu Jianping was successfully transferred to the general ward.
On June 20, his indicators were normal, and he returned to Xi'an with his father and Wang Xiao.
Watching his son's body gradually, Yu's father was both grateful and ashamed to Wang Xiao, and said to her: "Child, if it weren't for you, Jianping wouldn't be where it is today!."If my kidney is suitable for you, I will donate it to you immediately!”
Wang Xiao said with tears in her eyes: "You are so old that you can't have surgery. Don't worry, I'll take care of my body and wait for the kidneys slowly. ”
And love once again gave birth to a miracle of life: Wang Xiao's condition not only did not worsen, but improved. Dialysis has been changed from twice a week to once a month.
In January 2015, her creatinine level was further reduced. The doctor said that if she continued like this, she could live even if she did not have a kidney replaced.
On February 14, 2015, Wang Xiao and Yu Jianping held a wedding at the Peace Hotel in Xi'an.
And their love and life, like eternal flowers, have been reborn in Nirvana after all kinds of trials and conditions, and they will last forever.
This was once the most helpless, utilitarian, and ulterior marriage in the world: the purpose of her "marriage" with him was to wait for a kidney. Waiting for the kidneys is to hope that the "husband" will die soon, and the paradox of this life is tragic and tragic.
However, fate played a big joke on them, two men and women who couldn't live at all miraculously both **!
I wish them happiness, and I hope that normal people will cherish health, love, marriage, and family!