What is the pattern?Through the analysis of Chinese characters, we will find that the grid refers to the degree of cognition of things within the cognitive range, and the bureau refers to the things done and the results of the things within the cognitive range, and the two words together are called patterns. And different people, because the scope of cognition of things is different, so different people have different patterns.
So who has a bigger pattern?What are the characteristics of them?In fact, to understand the meaning of this word, it is actually not as lofty as we think, as long as we are willing to change, we can make our pattern bigger and bigger.
1.Ability to help others in their troubles
When others are in trouble, have the ability to pull and help, and your life may gain a lot because of such kindness.
People with high emotional intelligence will know how to give people a step down when they are a person and do things, and they can be reasonable and forgiving. I'd rather have one more friend than one more enemy, why?It is because, sow melons and get melons, and sow beans and get beans.
Many times, the good fortune in our lives is nothing more than the kindness that we accumulate on a daily basis, and if you can be kind to others, they will often be kind to you.
The pattern determines the height, and the height determines the life.
What your life will be like has a lot to do with how you behave in the world.
2.Read books often
The books you read determine the depth of your thoughts. Reading has been highly prized since ancient times, because knowledge can change destiny and make people show their ambitions. Many people often think that "even though you read a lot of books, you forget most of them over time, and it doesn't seem to be of much use." ”
However, for a person who reads a lot, the content of the book has long been deeply rooted in the bone marrow, melted into his blood and soul, and finally precipitated into a person's cultivation and wisdom. When you read more, your face will naturally change. Many times, I may think that many of the books I have read have become a cloud of smoke and I will not remember them anymore, but in fact, they are still potential. In temperament, in conversation, in the boundlessness of mind. Of course, it can also be revealed in life and writing.
Every book you read, it will quietly change you at some point in the future. People who like to read are emotionally rich, their thoughts are active, and their conversation is intelligent, and their pattern is naturally much larger than those who don't like to read.
3.The bigger the pattern, the less it will be entangled in bad people and bad things
No matter what is good or bad, people always have to work ahead of time, there is an old saying that there is no regret medicine in the world, think about it carefully, and that's it.
I have always believed that people's mentality determines people's fate, and if you keep dwelling on the past, you may miss all the scenery that follows.
Life in the world is nothing more than a look at the flowers, you only stop the loss in time, in order to make fewer mistakes, more good experience, bad people and bad things are rotten, is because these things have no reason to talk, blindly entangled will only waste time.
Don't be dragged down by these things, it's the best thing you should do well.
A person who really has a pattern knows what he wants in his heart and what path he should take, and he will work hard to correct his mistakes and improve his self-cultivation.
If a person does not have a pattern, he will only see the immediate gains and losses, but not the long-term benefits.
If you want to have a good development, you must first improve your own pattern. When you don't know how to improve the pattern, the first thing to do is to read more books, how to add your knowledge in the books, will improve your pattern. 
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Strategy》Knowing strategy will allow you to do more with less. This book tells you that in order to achieve one of your goals, you need to make corresponding plans according to the situations you encounter in advance, and finally achieve your goals, open up your life pattern, and move towards a brilliant life.
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