Yao Yun was very disapproving of Miao Yiyi and Qidao's relationship back then, and said unceremoniously: "You two are not suitable, I will definitely not support you to be together." ”
In order to protect his love, Miao Yiyi stole the family's household registration book and Qidao registered marriage, and even gave birth to a daughter. Yao Yun changed his attitude and even said: "I almost ruined a beautiful marriage." ”
How did Miao Yiyi's mother experience such a huge psychological change that she finally forgave her daughter for marrying without permission and stealing the household registration book?
Miao Yiyi, who was in the aftermath of Qidao, withdrew from the entertainment industry due to facial paralysis caused by a car accident. So how did Qidao react to this?How are they living today?
Born in 1975, Zhejiang-born Miao Yiyi was born to a businessman father and a screenwriter who directed works such as "Border City" and "Shallow Net".
Since Miao Yiyi was born, her parents have attached great importance to her education. In order for her to receive a better education, they sent her to Australia to study when she was in junior high school.
After she went to college, in order to exercise her abilities, her parents no longer provided her with tuition, but encouraged her to work and study on her own.
In order to earn tuition, Miao Yiyi did a lot of work during that time, and she worked as a worker on the assembly line of a garment factory.
Her salary is meagre and her work is so heavy that she has to work late into the night to get home every day.
She was penniless at the time and couldn't afford to buy fast food outside, so she had to prepare food by herself and take it to the factory every day to barely solve the problem of food and clothing.
Being in this strange country, Miao Yiyi has no sense of security at all, and every time she travels at night, she will carry self-defense tools to ensure her own safety.
Before graduating from university, she began to get involved in the entertainment industry, and participated in works such as "Tears in Taipei" and "Wu Zetian", and formed a fate with the entertainment industry.
She later also participated in "Smiling Proud Jianghu", playing the smart and cute little sister Yue Linshan in the film, so she won a large number of fans.
After graduating from university, Miao Yiyi still made good progress in the entertainment industry, and she has participated in many works, such as "Prime Minister Xiao Ganluo" with Cao Jun and Xie Miao, and the Hollywood movie "Angel in the Castle".
At the same time, everyone is also concerned about Miao Yiyi's emotional status. In the eyes of many, she has a gentle personality and is good at housework, and it seems that she should choose the right person. However, surprisingly, she fell in love with Qidao.
Qidao's original name was Qi (qí) Liang, and he was born in an ordinary family in Anhui. As a child, he developed a strong interest in literature and art, and also learned Xi fighting and dancing.
He joined the art troupe at the age of 18 and showed his dancing talent here. Due to his experience as a Xi as a child, he made rapid progress in learning Xi dance, and soon became the lead dancer in the troupe.
Although the leader said that he would consider giving him a promotion, his work in the art troupe could not meet his needs, so he still chose to retire from the army and apply for a professional art college.
With his unremitting struggle, he was successfully admitted to the ** Drama Academy and started his career in the entertainment industry.
Four years of college have passed, and the classmates around him have devoted themselves to various activities, but he chose to concentrate on his studies and Xi in solitude and constantly improve his strength.
It wasn't until he graduated that he entered the Beijing People's Art Theater and starred in the drama "Impermanence: The Hanging Girl".
He spent four years honing his acting skills, and as a result, he won the acting award for his first time in a play.
This situation has also aroused the attention of many directors about this promising new actor, and they have approached Qidao to participate. However, at that time, his unit stipulated that newcomers were not allowed to take over filming without permission for two years before joining the unit.
Odd has seen many of his colleagues eventually forced to leave the unit because of their private roles, and he is determined not to suffer the same fate, so he resolutely refuses them.
Qidao's career ushered in a turning point in 2004, when he was invited by Lu Chuan to participate in the movie "Ke Ke Xili".
In order to ensure the success of the film, he did his best to take off his trousers in the harsh conditions of more than minus 40 degrees, trek through the glacier, and insisted on starring in the scene where he was buried alive in the sand.
As a result of this performance, his leg was affected a bit, and he felt extremely uncomfortable as soon as the weather turned cold.
Fortunately, their efforts were not in vain, and after its launch, "Ke Ke Xili" won the Golden Horse Award and the Tokyo Film Festival Award, and also won the love of many audiences, and Qidao even won the Best Supporting Actor Award.
At the same time, Miao Yiyi became famous for her role as Yue Linshan in "Smiling Proud Jianghu", and she and another actor met in "The Secret of Guanzhong".
They played the male and female protagonists respectively at the time, and as time went on, they gradually discovered that they had a lot in common when talking to each other.
As time passed, their tacit understanding in acting gradually increased, and this tacit understanding was quietly integrated into daily life.
After the play was completed, the window paper between the two young people was also pierced, and they finally came together, but this relationship was not blessed.
Miao Yiyi's family is well-off, on the contrary, Qidao's family conditions are average. Yao Yun, her mother, is not optimistic about their feelings, and does not believe that Qidao can bring happiness to her daughter.
Although Miao Yiyi repeatedly told her mother that the other party was really good to her, her mother never mentioned the marriage between them.
Miao Yiyi fell into extreme pain, she didn't want to hurt her mother, and she couldn't bear to hurt her beloved lover.
Miao Yiyi finally made a decision, she planned to steal the household registration book and marry Qidao.
Qidao was worried that his mother would be more angry at first, but Miao Yiyi firmly said that as long as they were together, her mother would slowly forgive her. After hearing this, Qi Dao agreed to get married.
Yao Yun found out that her daughter was pregnant shortly after she got married, and he didn't know that her daughter was married at the time.
It wasn't until the child was three months old that Yao Yun found that her daughter's belly was bulging, so she immediately inquired and learned that her daughter had already married the man.
Yao Yun felt very angry at the time, and even said in an angry tone: "I will never accept the strange way." ”
Even though Qidao later came to the door with a gift to apologize, she still didn't show a friendly expression to the other party.
Qidao couldn't ignore it, so he had to take his wife home to take care of it. In order to ensure that Miao Yiyi had a better life during pregnancy, he was busy filming while taking care of his wife.
In 2005, Miao Yiyi gave birth to a daughter. After Yao Yun learned about this, although he was still angry, he still couldn't bear to watch his daughter who had been doted on for many years suffer, so he decided to go and take care of her.
She found that her son-in-law's family was average, but he loved his daughter very much, not only making soup for his daughter, but also often massaging his daughter, all of which was discovered after the two arrived at the residence.
She gradually let go of the mind in her heart that the other party took such careful care of her daughter and looked at him.
Since the birth of the child, Miao Yiyi has re-invested in his acting career, while Yao Yunping is busy with work and has no time to take care of the child.
At the right time, Qidao's parents took the initiative to help take care of the child, so that the son and daughter-in-law could have no worries.
Miao Yiyi won an excellent script "Golden Wedding" in 2006, and although she did not have many roles in the play, she left a deep impression on the audience.
Miao Yiyi is very engaged in acting, so he feels extremely happy. However, she never imagined that starring in this drama would have such a devastating impact on her acting career.
She was on her way to the set to shoot when she was suddenly involved in a car accident, resulting in serious facial injuries. Even after treatment, the wound did not heal.
Miao Yiyi's face has returned to normal after repair, but it has left a phenomenon of "facial paralysis", which makes it difficult for her to show various micro-expressions on her face.
For an actor, expression is the basis for improving their acting, and if they can't use micro-expressions, they are undoubtedly ruining their acting career.
At first, Miao Yiyi didn't believe in fate. She has successively acted in works such as "The Daughter Under the Archway" and "Bloodline", but after the performance, she found that her acting skills were affected.
She was deeply saddened and had to choose to gradually withdraw from the entertainment industry and devote all her energy to her family.
Miao Yiyi, a person who loves acting deeply, how can he give up easily?Whenever she recalls her acting experience at home, she can't help but burst into tears.
Qi Dao looked at his wife's sad appearance, and felt very painful in his heart: "Please don't be sad, I have always been by your side, and you will always be the best heroine in my heart." ”
Miao Yiyi gradually came out of her grief, and her husband's comfort played a great role. Yao Yun saw that her daughter's mood improved, and she couldn't help but say with emotion: "Fortunately, I didn't let you separate at that time, and I almost ruined a marriage." ”
After she was unable to continue acting, she turned her attention to behind-the-scenes work, began a career as a professional producer, and started her own company, becoming a strong supporter of her husband.
Qidao has been working together with his wife to act, and over the years, he has starred in well-known works such as "The War Behind the Smoke", "Civilian Heroes", and "The King's Feast", and his reputation has become more and more famous.
He did not forget to take his wife to the hospital for a check-up when his career was booming, hoping to restore the function of his wife's facial nerves.
The doctor regretfully gave a negative answer, which made Qidao feel very helpless. But fortunately, now Miao Yiyi has a new career and has not fallen into excessive sadness.
Miao Yiyi and her husband have been married for 18 years, and they are both now 47 years old. Over the years, their relationship has been very good, and their daughter has gradually grown up and become a well-behaved and sensible little girl.
Perhaps for most people, Qidao was seen as a worthless poor boy who did not deserve to be compared to Miao Yiyi at that time.
Although Miao Yiyi's decision to marry him despite his parents' objections may have been the wrong choice, they have now used their 18-year marriage to prove to the world that they can still enjoy a happy marriage despite the imbalance in family and career.
After the two got married, even if Qidao did not disappoint her, when his wife suffered from paralysis, he spared no effort to take care of her, alleviate her grief, and wholeheartedly fulfill the responsibility of being a really good husband.
He was also very good to his mother-in-law Yao Yun, who had disliked him back then, and treated her as filial piety as his own mother, and didn't care about her disgust at the time.
They take care of the most beautiful love flowers with their hearts, respond to doubts in silence, and prove through practical actions that the two of them are truly destined to be together.