Nowadays, post-90s parents are significantly different from their predecessors in the issue of naming their children, and they strive to find ways to make their children's names attract the attention of others. SomeParent-teacher conferencesGive their children the same name and surname as the star, and some parents like to give them some ingenious names. In the past, some parents gave their children names with the same surname as celebrities in order to pursue integration with celebrities, hoping to make their children shine. Eventually, however, the child's name became the object of ridicule. Nowadays, a new way of naming is becoming popular, and parents think that this way is very high-end, very classy, and can even reflect the love between husband and wife, but in fact it brings trouble to children.
One mom shared a story online and gave a piece of advice to other parents. After she gave birth to a son, she thought hard about naming the child, plus she and her husband are the only children in their respective families, and her husband's family will never allow the child to have his mother's surname. But she also wants her child's name to have her own surname in it. When she looked up how to name her name on the Internet, she found the popular way of naming her husband's surname, that is, combining her husband's surname with her own surname, and then deciding to give the child a third character according to the degree of beauty. Bao Ma's eyes lit up when she saw this naming method, and she felt that this was exactly the effect she wanted. So, after discussing with her husband, she agreed to adopt this method of naming, and finally named her son Liu Bi. At the time, the mother and her husband didn't realize that there might be anything wrong with naming their child. However, as the child grows up, he is often teased by his classmates when he enters elementary school. Because Liu Bi's homonym is very similar to "Niu B", the children are reluctant to go to school. Therefore, this mother regrets very much the name she gave her child before, and now it is too late to change the name.
At present, many post-90s parents will choose "pseudo-compound surnames" when naming their children, they think that such a name can reflect the warmth of the family, and in the eyes of outsiders, they will also feel that such a name is advanced. However, the "pseudo-compound surname" can only show the grade if it gets up well, and once it doesn't get up well, it will harm the child. Here are some of the reasons:
1. The name "pseudo-compound surname" is tongue-twisting
The surnames between husband and wife are generally unrelated, such as the father's surname is Liu, and the mother's surname is Li, so if you want to give the child a "pseudo-compound surname" name, it will become very tongue-twisting, and this tongue-twisting name will affect the child when he grows uplifeand socializing.
Expansion: Tongue-twisting names can cause a lifetime of trouble for a child. Children often need to introduce their names at school and in social situations, and if the name is too tongue-twisting, children may not be able to speak fluently, which can make them feel embarrassed and unconfident in communication. In contrast, a concise and clear name is easier to remember and accept, helping children build self-confidence and good conditionRelationships
2. The name of "pseudo-compound surname" is easy to produce homophony
The aforementioned ".Pressure cookerAnd "Han Zhu" is an example of the homonym of the name "pseudo-compound surname". It is very difficult to come up with a "pseudo-compound surname" name, and if it is not done well, it may appear similar to the bad meaning or cause jokes. In this way, the child can easily become the object of ridicule and ridicule from his peers, and he will be psychologically hurt.
Expansion: The production of homophony can have unintended negative effects. Children's peers are often very sensitive to differences in things like names or appearances, and at this stage, they can damage a child's self-esteem and confidence. They will unconsciously tease their children's names, bothering and embarrassing them. This will have a negative impact on children's growth and Xi.
3. The name of "pseudo-compound surname" is difficult to accept by the elders
Although the "pseudo-compound surname" method of naming is now popular, in the eyes of the elders, this kind of name is still difficult to accept, and even considered such a name irresponsible. Therefore, if a child faces his elders with a "pseudo-compound surname" name, it is difficult to get their recognition and affirmation.
Expanding: Elders often have traditional ideas and values, and are always conservative about emerging things. If a child's name goes against the norms and Xi of traditional names, elders may consider it irresponsible and impolite and cannot accept such a name. This will lead to:Parent-child relationshiptension and disharmony.
As a responsible editor, I would like to advise all parents, if not very sure, to try not to give their children "pseudo-compound surnames". Such a name is not good for the child's development, and it is also a very difficult task to choose a name, once the name is not right, the child may become a laughing stock among his peers.
1.Concise and clear names are easier to accept and remember. Choosing a simple and personal name can help your child fit in better as they growSocialto build self-confidence and goodRelationships
2.The problem of homophony needs to be paid enough attention. Make sure that your child's name is not close to a bad homonym to avoid embarrassment and distress. Doing a good job of homophony research in advance is an important part of naming a name.
3.Respect the opinions and traditions of elders. Elders have their own perceptions and norms for names, and their support and recognition are crucial to a child's development. Try to avoid giving your child a name that is unacceptable to the elders in order to maintain itParent-child relationshipof harmony.
In conclusion, I hope that parents will think carefully when naming their children and not be carried away by the trendy way of naming them. Don't follow the trend and blindly choose a "pseudo-compound surname", because such names are often tongue-twisting, easy to produce homophony, and difficult for elders to accept. Choosing a name that is concise, clear, and personal, and respects the opinions and traditions of the elders can give your child a better environment to grow up in.