Children who grow up in the same environment are not much different at first. They share similar backgrounds, early education, and opportunities.
However, over time, they can make huge differences in their standard of living, personal achievement, family happiness, and so on.
This outcome is not determined by their intelligence, but by their upbringing.
Growth first depends on the environment, and among the environmental factors, the family environment and the circle of friends are particularly important. They are important factors in shaping our values and outlook on life.
At the same time, our own principles and methods are also the key factors that determine our growth. Taking risks and avoiding challenges can lead to the cost of failure, while Xi failure can hinder our growth.
Instead, seeking challenges outside of our comfort zone is what really drives us to grow.
Everyone's growth is ultimately about doing things as well as possible within the boundaries.
In the pursuit of personal growth, we cannot ignore the importance of quality education.
Quality education is not for utilitarian purposes, but to cultivate our aesthetics, leadership, social responsibility, etc.
Reading the classics is a way to improve our personal qualities, and it can help us understand human nature, society, and history so that we can better face the challenges of life.
In addition, finding a good lifelong partner is also a big challenge in life. A person with good economic conditions wants to get married when he reaches the age.
However, people who do not study and lack cultivation may face difficulties in the process of finding a partner.
Skillful reading, long knowledge, and self-cultivation are of great help to both starting a family and establishing a career.
Sometimes fate is fair, when our children only focus on the shortcut of the college entrance examination, when we think that as long as we are good at work, we will have a great future, we may sacrifice the comprehensive cultivation of our own qualities, including the insight into people.
Compared with society, the change in human nature is actually very small. In fact, the human characteristics of the Chinese are all written in the book "Dream of the Red Chamber".
For example, Xue Baochai: "Don't look at her in Jiafu like a fish in water, everyone loves her, and Lin Daiyu doesn't dare to say a word or take one more step, but in fact, Xue Baochai is much more tired than Lin Daiyu."
She has to take care of all kinds of relationships, and even unreasonable people like Aunt Zhao say that she is good, which shows that she has worked hard. But in life, such people actually need the love and encouragement of others the most. ”
The best girls are a little bit of fun, not that boys can be impressed by their own hardware conditions.
Smart girls are not only greedy for appearance, education, money and family background, they have an understanding of happiness and the pursuit of the future. A boy who can perceive people's hearts always has a bit of an advantage in this regard.
Personal growth