The issue of student education has always attracted much attention, especially with the continuous advancement of quality education, parents are paying more and more attention to their children's education. However, education comes at a cost, and despite the nine-year compulsory education policy, raising a student is still a significant expense. In recent years, the birth rate of newborns has been declining, while the problem of an aging population is on the rise, which has worried many people. **In order to increase the fertility rate, policies such as opening up the second child, encouraging the third child and introducing multi-child subsidies have been adopted, but for some young people, living food and clothing is the primary problem, and if it is difficult to even support themselves, how can they afford to raise children?In this case, some suggestions have been made, for example, Professor Cheng Bingwen suggested that young people could turn to relatives to help raise a baby, but this suggestion was criticized as unrealistic.
Professor Cheng believes that young people are facing pressures on education, healthcare, the economy and pensions, which are the main reasons for the decline in fertility. He believes that by solving these problems, young people will be able to have more courage to have children. However, his suggestion was called "Gone with the Wind", and many people did not agree with him. This is because it is impractical to blame the difficulties of raising a child entirely on relatives. Young people can't afford to raise their children themselves, so can their relatives be able to afford them?Moreover, many relatives have children to raise themselves, and they are also facing financial pressure. In addition, the relationship between relatives in society is becoming more and more estranged, and many times relatives do not even see each other, and the idea of "asking relatives for help" is actually not realistic. In the face of the changes in young people's attitudes towards old-age care in the past, many post-00 young people have received a higher level of education, and they pay more attention to their own personal space and are not interested in meaningless kinship. They think that instead of maintaining kinship, it is better to make more sincere friends. This phenomenon of "severing relatives" is very common among young people and reflects the reality of society.
However, we should also understand young people's independent thinking and individualized life planning. Neither the urging of elders nor the advice of experts can easily change their decision. Everyone has their own clear perception, a clear plan for their own life, and they will firmly follow their own path without being influenced by others. Parents should also change their way of thinking, not interfere too much in their children's lives, and respect their fate even if they are not able to provide them with too much help and resources. Excessive interference in the lives of children will only affect the relationship between the two. Therefore, it is important for young people to respect the decisions and fates of others, let go of the helping complex, and maintain better relationships with neighbors and friends.
In general, the issue of student education is a complex issue that cannot be solved simply by seeking help from relatives. Young people's decision-making should be respected and understood, and parents should change their mindset to maintain a good relationship with their children and give them more support and understanding. Only in this way can young people be put on a better trajectory of development, in line with their own wishes, and in line with the changes of the times. Let's work together for a better educational environment!