Some people like to compare love to spring rain, but I prefer to think of love as a gust of fresh wind. The breeze is always pleasant. At the same time, the feeling of being separated is as unpredictable as the breeze blowing on the face, as if it is obtained, but it is not so certain. In a relationship, this kind of inaccuracy is most likely to make women panic, for fear that they will not have the initiative in their feelings. 
In fact, if you want to take down a man, it is very simple, just do these three things well. 1. "Intentions" to meet the needs of menMy husband and I had a very bumpy relationship experience, we didn't agree with each other at the beginning, and finally decided that the other party was the person we were looking for, and we got married immediately. I asked my husband why he chose me in the end, and he said that my presence could make his dreams come true – I could help him do many things that he couldn't. For example, when we first met, he wanted to shoot a short **, and he tried several times but didn't succeed, but after being with me, I helped him successfully shoot three. 
I've seen such a sentence:Love is not about taking, but about attracting each other. When two people meet each other's emotional needs at the same time, love naturally arises. If you want to tie a man to her side, a smart woman will choose to be attentive to perceive and meet the needs of men. Love is overflowing, if you want to get someone's love, you have to make yourself worthy of love, and you also have to give each other enough love. 
2. "Rest assured" and give men the freedom they wantWhen I was working in the unit before, the son of my colleague's eldest sister had a girlfriend who had been talking for nearly 6 years. The long-distance love marathon seems to usher in a more perfect ending, but I didn't expect that when my girlfriend offered to get married, the eldest sister's son refused to respond and chose to break up. The eldest sister looked at the prospective daughter-in-law, packed all the luggage, and finally couldn't help but ask her son, why he didn't want to marry the girl he had been talking about for 6 years?In front of his mother, the eldest sister's son told the truth. 
It turned out that he felt a lot of pressure to be with the girl, because the girl always made all kinds of demands for him, checked the post from time to time, and retreated at the thought of facing such a day after getting married. Many women don't understand that even if they are married, two people are independent individuals, and the so-called love is just for us to find the other half that suits us, not to merge two people into one. Those women who can win the hearts of men know how to respect the freedom that men yearn for, do not put too much pressure on their lovers, get along comfortably, and it is easier to tie each other to their side. 
3. "Sincerely", working together with menReader Xiaomei told me that she and her boyfriend had already begun to discuss marriage when they met their parents, but the other party suddenly repented. Not only was he reluctant to get married, but he even began to avoid Xiaomei and wanted to break up completely. Under Xiaomei's questioning, her boyfriend told the reason. Dislike Xiaomei's original family is too poor, and having a pair of parents who are often sick will undoubtedly add a burden to her future life;In addition, Xiaomei does not have a stable job, nor does he have excellent money-making skills, and he is unwilling to move forward with a heavy burden as soon as he gets married. 
It is said that women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, in fact, men will also be cautious when choosing a partner, after all, choosing a partner means choosing the rest of their lives. If you want to win a man's heart, not only do you want the man to feel loved, but you also have to rely on your own strength to tell the man that you are worthy of love. Although you are together to comfort each other emotionally, when you run your life, you will not drag each other down. Giving a man a better partner, a more reliable partner, is also a proposition that women need to complete. 
Tu Youyou said:
Never chase a horse, spend the time chasing horses to plant grass.If you want to take down a man, in addition to giving the other person the love you want, you should also give the other person a worthy lover.
So, it doesn't really matter if a man loves it or not. If you want to get a man's love, it is very simple, you must first learn to love yourself, love yourself first and then love others. When you become a blooming flower, there will naturally be people who will come from far and wide.