Odie's words convey several important messages.
First of all, Odie and his ex-wife maintained a friendly and peaceful relationship after their divorce, and they communicated smoothly.
Secondly, his ex-wife Zheng Yuncan did not return to Sichuan, but chose to continue to stay in Taipei, because the custody of her daughter belongs to Oudi.
Combining these two points, it can be seen that both Oudi and his ex-wife have made compromises for the benefit of their children.
This shows that Odie is a responsible and good father.
He fully considered the position of his daughters, so he hoped that there would be no boys when his daughters were at home.
He believes that doing so will have a great impact on the child's perception of mate choice.
Zheng Yuncan also accepted Oudi's suggestion, and together they maintained a healthy living environment for the children.
In contrast, Odie seems to care more about children, not only giving material conditions, but also paying more attention to building a healthy and warm family and love.
On the contrary, Da S let 54-year-old Gu Junye live in the house less than 3 months after the divorce.
Daughter Xiao Yue'er is 9 years old and is in a sensitive adolescence, and she will be resistant to men other than her father.
And the stepfather is still bald, walks around the house without clothes, and goes to the toilet with his mother.
This creates a bad example for her daughter.
The mother has a deep influence on her daughter, so Xiao Yue'er is now very inferior.
She used to be a confident and cheerful girl, but now she has become sensitive and inferior, and even her shoulders are lowered.
She can only get emotional sustenance from the nanny.
She hardly received love from her mother, because her mother was busy in love, her food, drink, and Lazar were taken care of by the nanny, and she also depended on her father for money.
Da S did not let the two children go back to Beijing to see their grandparents and father during the summer vacation, and Zhang Lan and Wang Xiaofei could only choose to accompany their grandchildren abroad on vacation.
When the nanny was about to resign, Zhang Lan's first concern was that her grandchildren would find it difficult to accept.
This is sad.
If Da S really loves the child, he should reconcile with Wang Xiaofei, so that the child can get complete love.
Wang Xiaofei has a bigger mind, and for the sake of the child, she talked to her ex-mother-in-law, and called her "mother", in order to make the child happy.
In contrast, the living conditions of the children of the Odie family are much better.
I don't know if Da S considered when he was in love, and the desperate pursuit of love would cause a shadow on the child's psychology.
Children are the most innocent.
As a parent, you should not let your child's childhood be burdened with a shadow and only pursue your own happiness.
A good childhood has a positive effect on a lifetime, while a bad childhood takes a lifetime.
mentioned Yi Nengjing's son Harry, if his parents hadn't divorced, maybe he wouldn't be gay now.
So, being a parent is also a course, and not all parents are good parents.