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We are often bothered or worried by the words and actions of others, and our own emotions change with them.
In fact, really smart people tend to be those who live humble, self-controlled, and are rarely disturbed by external things.
Because they know that life is not lived by tolerance, but by understanding.
Some people say that when you are alive, you must learn to be less greedy and content. However, lust and greed are human instincts.
The more capable a person is, the more likely he is to use his strengths and abilities to satisfy his selfish desires.
Too many people around us are Xi to bragging and comparing themselves. They don't do this to motivate themselves to work hard, but to satisfy their vanity. Eventually, he lost his way and embarked on the path of crime.
Sometimes life is complicated and you have to be sober and disciplined.
In fact, the more capable a person is, the more he can control his desires. It's not easy to do, but it has to be done.
1.If you have nothing to say, shut up.
Be careful when you speak and don't talk nonsense. Don't be afraid to talk about it. Because the words that come out are like water, and when they are sprayed out, they cannot be taken back.
Whether you're talking to a friend or foe, think carefully and avoid saying things you shouldn't say.
It's not just a form of discipline, it's also a way to protect yourself.
It's human nature to be talkative, but talking too much can be boring.
What it means: Sweet words are appealing on the surface, but they can easily lead to trouble. Words you rarely hear aren't worth your time.
Always keep this in mind when interacting with others. If you have nothing to say, just shut up.
2.If you have the ability, don't show off.
A lot of people always want to talk about their abilities and show off their talents. They feel that since others know what they are capable of, they should know as well.
Actually, this is a very wrong idea.
Many times, the more capable a person is, the less he likes to show off his strength. Because they know that the more they flaunt themselves, the more likely they are to become the object of envy and ridicule from others.
No one likes to be belittled in front of others. No matter how successful you are, you can't possibly put yourself in front of others.
Even if you are a talented person, don't expose your talent easily because no one will be interested in your abilities.
When others find out that you are talented, they will criticize you and say that you are a useless person who can't do anything.
That's why really talented people try to keep a low profile.
If you want to be successful, don't go around showing off your talents. If you want to get ahead, don't go around showing off your strength.
3.Be cautious and do things carefully.
Life is like sailing against the current. If we don't move forward, we will go backwards.
If you want to reach the pinnacle of life in the shortest possible time, you must learn to be humble and do things modestly.
Whether at work or in life, you have to learn to be humble in what you do.
Acting with humility can reduce unnecessary troubles and frustrations. At the same time, while we do high-level activities, we also aim to better serve others and help them get more help.
Enjoying life requires a good mindset. Being humble and prudent is our way of life.
In daily life, this phrase is often used to describe a person who does not know how to be a human being. We tend to associate a person's ability to be a good person with their status or wealth.
But in reality, a person's performance depends not only on his status, but also on his attitude towards things and whether he can really "do things in the spotlight".
After all, if a person is unable to do even the most basic ways of life, then his achievements will be very limited.
In fact, life is like a game. There are no shortcuts in life.
4. Don't be greedy for small profits.
If you want something, you have to pay the right price.
When people receive something, they forget to be grateful and always take it for granted.
As a result, they lost a lot.
Only by not being greedy for small profits can we keep our blessings.
Everyone must have principles and end goals. Only then can you give meaning to your life.
This is the meaning of "a gentleman loves money and takes it carefully".
Really smart people will definitely protect their bottom line and avoid unnecessary losses.
5. Don't blindly compare.
The most important thing in life is to nourish your soul. Don't make blind comparisons.
There is an idiom "self-seeking trouble", which refers to the fact that people are not psychologically healthy enough, always want to compare with others, and even annoy others.
In life, some people like to compare themselves to others and think that they are not better than others. In fact, it's a bad idea.
The more people have low self-esteem, the more likely they are to have desires because they can't see their own shortcomings.
If you start making blind comparisons, your mind will fall into misunderstandings.
No matter how good a person is, there will always be people who are noisy, and no matter how bad a person is, there will always be people who like it.
Often, when we envy someone else's life, it's a joke for them;When we envy someone else's achievement, it's actually the result of someone else's struggle.
As a human being, don't make blind comparisons. Because no one among the people you are comparing is better than you.
Love yourself because you will spend money for the rest of your life.