My name is Lin Wan, I am 28 years old, and I am a staff member in the human resources department of a large enterprise. I have lived in a harmonious family since I was a child, my parents are ordinary office workers, they care for me in their own way, and I have always cherished this family affection.
Recently, my boyfriend Zhao Xuan for a year, he is a man with great taste and usually likes to collect all kinds of wine. In order to celebrate the first anniversary of our acquaintance, Zhao Xuan specially gave me two bottles of wine, saying that it was a famous wine that he had treasured for a long time. I am very happy and feel that this is Zhao Xuan's heart for me.
When I got home, I couldn't wait to take out these two bottles of wine and show them to my mother. Mom took the wine and looked at it, and said lightly: "These two bottles of wine are not worth 100 yuan." I froze, a little unable to believe my ears. The two bottles of wine that Zhao Xuan gave me, although they didn't look gorgeous on the outside, I knew that they were famous wines and were definitely worth a lot of money.
Mom, how can you say that?I said with some dissatisfaction, "This is a special gift from Zhao Xuan, and he said that it is a famous wine that he has treasured for a long time." ”
Hmph, I think it's just two bottles of ordinary wine. Mom said dismissively, "If you want to drink good wine, I have it at home." ”
I was so angry that I couldn't speak, so I turned around and left. At this time, my father came over and saw that my mother and I were angry, so he asked what was going on. I told my dad truthfully, and my dad picked up the two bottles of wine and looked at them carefully, and then said to my mother, "Wife, when did you become blind?"”
Mom was stunned, and so was I. Dad continued, "These two bottles of wine are famous wines, and they are not something that can be bought casually. You see, although the packaging is ordinary, the label on the bottle says it all. This wine sells for thousands of dollars a bottle in the market. ”
When my mother heard this, she was dumbfounded, she took the wine and checked it again, and then said in surprise: "Oh, it's really a famous wine!."Why didn't I notice it before?”
Hmph, you only value the outward appearance and ignore the inner value. Dad said lightly, "Zhao Xuan sent these two bottles of wine to Wan'er to express his feelings and hearts for Wan'er." You should respect the hearts of others and not just look at the surface. ”
Mom listened to Dad's words and felt very ashamed. She came over and hugged me: "Wan'er, I'm sorry, my mother just blamed you and Zhao Xuan." I should have focused more on the inner value rather than just looking at the outside. ”
I listened to my mother's words and was very moved. I knew that she didn't really value the value of those two bottles of wine, but saw Zhao Xuan's sincerity and love for me. At the same time, I also understood my father's words: learn to appreciate other people's minds, not just look at the surface.
A few days later, Zhao Xuan and I tasted these two bottles of famous wine. We slowly savor the mellow and sweetness of the wine, and feel the emotions and stories it contains. At that moment, I deeply felt the beauty and sincerity of love.
This experience made me cherish my love with Zhao Xuan even more, and it also made me know how to appreciate other people's hearts more. I know that in the trivialities of life, we must learn to feel each other's emotions and dedication with our hearts, so that love can bloom with the most beautiful brilliance in the ordinary. At the same time, I also learned that we should respect the choices and intentions of others, and not easily deny the value and dedication of others, so as to establish a more harmonious and beautiful interpersonal relationship.