Written by Rouran.
Wong Kar-wai said in "Chongqing Forest":
The saury will expire, the canned pineapple will expire, even the plastic wrap will expire, what else in this world will not expire?”
When we are young, we always think that love is eternal, but we all underestimate the fickleness of the human heart and the fragility of feelings.
Later, I found out that love also has a shelf life, and when the passion and novelty fade, the man's feelings for the woman began to slowly fade until they were greasy.
When a man sleeps enough with you, there will be these four manifestations, and women must see clearly.
Some people say that the relationship between two people, from intimacy to estrangement, mostly starts with no contact.
Someone who truly loves you, no matter how busy they are, will find time to contact you and can't wait to send a dozen messages a day.
I want to know what you're doing, whether you've eaten, whether you're dressed warmly, and I want to see you through ** and take the initiative to ask you to meet.
People who don't love you, even if they are free, can't find time to spend with you.
When a man is tired of you, he will lose interest and enthusiasm, and you will be like a grain of rice sticky on his clothes.
He used to be very clingy to you, but now he blatantly hangs you aside and becomes his dispensable.
I no longer take the initiative to greet you, and the message replies mostly end with "oh" and "um", for fear that if you say one more word, you will start a new round of topics.
is becoming more and more cold to you, but finds all kinds of excuses to avoid getting along with you.
Rather than spending time with people he doesn't love, he prefers to make dinner and drink with friends, play games, and watch football games.
Orange Tree writes in "The Luxury Man": "He was very kind to me, accommodating me in everything, and never being impatient.
He was very attentive and remembered all the things I liked, he would listen intently to me, a quiet smile and sparkling eyes. ”
When you get along with the person who loves you, he will especially spoil you, tolerate you, and accommodate you.
If a man loses patience with you, it means that he has lost interest in you.
That day, Xingyao told me that her boyfriend was always absent-minded when he was with her, and the expression on his face was as if he was being punished.
The two quarreled that day, and her boyfriend said: "Why are you always angry, angry at every turn, I really don't have the patience to coax you, so be it." ”
If it had been placed in the past, Xing Yao frowned, and her boyfriend would have been distressed and comforted her;
Now even if she cries with red eyes and cries until she convulses, he won't look at her more, but thinks she is doing it.
The reason why Xing Yao was angry was because he couldn't feel that he cared, but no matter how much he tried to redeem this relationship that had deteriorated, it would be useless.
Because now no matter what she says or does, she bores people who don't love her, and his love for her is gone.
What does it look like to love someone deeply?
Someone said: "It is to fall asleep with each other's hands at night, to be entangled in the bottom of the nest when the love is strong, to be a good morning kiss before going out, and to be a warm hug ...... when meeting."
Men love you or not, the body is the most honest. As long as the people who love you are with you, they will involuntarily get close to you, and they will have you in their eyes and hearts.
This body language of wanting to be close to you is the best way to tell about love.
When a man is tired of you, he will resist your body and refuse to have intimate contact with you.
even has a rejection and disgust for your proximity, which means that you are no longer the person he likes.
That day, Shiqing told me that her boyfriend began to dislike her at some point, either because she didn't have a good figure, or because her clothes were tasteless.
Once, after Shiqing got off work at night, she lay on the bed and played ** with her boyfriend, and the other party didn't look at her the whole time, but looked in the mirror on her mobile phone.
When I hung up **, I said to her, "Why don't you wear makeup, you are sloppy and don't know how to clean up yourself." ”
This made Shiqing very puzzled, she used to fight with each other, and she didn't wear makeup, but now she began to dislike her, and it wasn't until soon after that her boyfriend proposed to her to break up, and Shiqing suddenly realized.
Yishu said in "The Death of Love": "When a man no longer loves his woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe, and it is still wrong to die." ”
What the person who loves you thinks of you and how he likes it, you are the loveliest person in his eyes.
When he changes his mind, one of the most obvious changes is that he looks at you unpleasantly and begins to pick on your thorns frequently.
As the saying goes: see people's hearts over time, and see the truth in details.
When a man has slept enough with you, it will definitely show in these four aspects.
When you begin to feel his attitude of not caring, not caring, and not caring, you must withdraw and leave, instead of deceiving yourself and staying in the relationship that has already deteriorated.
The rest of your life is long, and you want to be happy with the people who love you, year after year.
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