Nowadays, more and more parents let their children participate in various interest classes, hoping that their children can have a skill in addition to learning. After all, today's society has very high requirements for talents. If you can be versatile, there will naturally be better room for development. Therefore, when children are only two or three years old, they already begin to try to develop their own interests and hobbies under the arrangement of their parents, and they may continue to do so. 
Duoduo has been very fond of graffiti since he was one and a half years old. When she is not working, she often scribbles on paper with a pen. Her mother was keenly aware of her daughter's hobbies, so when she was three years old, I enrolled in a painting class with Duoduo. The children in the class are all the same age as Duoduo. Duoduo quickly integrated into the new environment, and after half a year of study, her painting level did improve a lot. Recently, a children's painting competition was held in the Duoduo area. Duoduo and her friends happily signed up, too. As a result, the snake Duoduo who was drawn actually won the quota. This made Duoduo's mother happy. She would show a lot of paintings to people and let them admire. Of course, all she received was praise, because for a child who was only 4 years old, the painting was indeed full of aura. 
Until one of Duoduo's mother's best friends.
1. After the child psychology teacher saw this painting, she realized the seriousness of the problem and quickly pulled Duoduo's mother to call the police. Duoduo's mother was puzzled by this. Later, through her best friend's explanation, she learned that Duoduo's paintings were full of violence and resentment. It can be seen that she has suffered some bad things on weekdays. In the end, with the intervention of **, the matter finally came to light. My best friend's hunch was absolutely right. Fortunately, I found it early, otherwise I don't know how much shadow it would have left in Duoduo's heart. In addition to seeing the progress of their children's grades, parents should also observe their children's words and deeds at all times to avoid harm to their children. 
What should parents pay attention to in their children? 1.Observe if the child has abnormal behavior Due to age, children do not yet have the ability to distinguish right from wrong in many things, but when they encounter something bad, they will instinctively behave differently than usual. For example, if you are absent-minded, parents should pay attention to observation and take the initiative to communicate with their children. Talk to avoid getting to the bottom of things as soon as possible. 
2。Observe if there are changes in your child's mood Most of the time, your child should be carefree and happy every day. It's only when they're hurt that the mood gets low. Because when a child is bullied, they do not know how to cope and only show great worry and fear, so their joy disappears and they appear worried. If parents notice that their child's smile has decreased, it is likely that something bad has happened to the child. 
3。Pay attention to every detail of your childChildren sometimes don't know how to verbalize their feelings, but they will convey them to their parents through some unconscious body language. Very useful information. It's just that many parents ignore the observation of their children, so they miss many small details in their children's daily life, and these small details may represent what kind of things the children encountered when they left their parents. As long as parents pay attention, they can quickly recognize the meaning. 
4. Pay attention to children's interpersonal skills There are more and more children with autism, or children with language communication difficulties. If parents find that their child does not like to communicate with other children after the age of two and has difficulty speaking coherently sentences, then it is important to pay attention to whether the child has a language barrier. After the exclusion of **, it is necessary to consider whether the child has psychological problems. Most likely, autism. Early detection can be early**.