Have you ever been in a situation where you've been dating a guy for a while, but you always feel like he's not really interested in you?Hello everyone, I am a thinking n wisdom that loves to share. You want to find some signs that he is genuinely interested in you. Then the question is, how can you tell if a guy is really attracted to you?
There is a saying that "the heart can't help it", sometimes a guy may say something that makes you happy, but that doesn't mean that he is really interested in you. Some guys may come across as taciturn, but in fact they have deep feelings for you.
So, how do you judge?
1. Observe his behavior. A guy who is really attracted to you will unconsciously show his attention and care for you. For example, he will take the initiative to chat with you, ask you how you are doing, and pay attention to your feelings. He offers to help when you are in trouble and does his best to make you feel comfortable and safe.
2. Observe his eyes. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and a person's eyes can convey his inner emotions. If a guy is really attracted to you, his eyes will be full of warmth and kindness. When you communicate with him, his gaze will involuntarily stay on your face and look into your eyes, making you feel his sincerity and focus.
3. Understand his attitude through his friends and colleagues, etc. If a guy is really interested in you, he will mention you to his friends and colleagues, etc., follow your dynamics, and talk to them about you. These details can reveal his true attitude towards you.
Of course, the above are just some basic judging criteria, and everyone's situation is different. The most important thing is to trust your feelings and intuition. If you feel that a guy isn't really interested in you, then chances are your instincts right. Don't force yourself to associate with him, don't make excuses for him, trust your feelings and face reality bravely.
Love is not about finding the perfect person, but learning to appreciate the imperfect with a perfect eye. I hope that every girl can find the boy who is really attracted to her, and I also hope that every boy can cherish the girl who really walks into her heart.