Introduction.
A teacher is a role model for his time, a person with a lot of responsibility, and he wants to create a safe and comfortable learning environment for children Xi. However, a middle school teacher in Hunan Province used sexual harassment to seriously damage the reputation of the teaching profession and caused irreparable psychological trauma to the students who were violated. Although the headmaster has been sentenced to death, the crimes he committed have brought a long time to the students he has harmed. This incident has caused heated discussions among netizens, why don't these children communicate with their parents?At the same time, parents are also concerned about the quality and safety of the school. This paper analyzes the above problems and gives corresponding countermeasures.
Parental concerns: Why don't children communicate with their parents?
First of all, children in rural primary schools do not receive enough attention because they grow up at home, and there is also a lack of effective supervision for them. Long Peizhu used his position to break into the female student's dormitory several times, causing great psychological trauma. Although the teacher's criminal career is over, what he did is not just a teacher's personal image, but a red line of human nature.
Second, in some rural areas, especially women, parents do not pay enough attention to sexual knowledge. Parents always want boys to show their masculinity, while girls' needs are ignored. Such a pedagogical philosophy leads to confusion between right and wrong. They feel that they are "dirty", and they don't think there is anything wrong with the teachers, but they feel dirty.
In addition, China's cultural ecology has created a huge sense of shame among women, and even the mistakes of male teachers can cause them to criticize and ridicule. So many parents will choose to cover up these truths. In China, sexuality education is still scarce, with little knowledge in rural areas and far less coverage in urban and secondary schools. In such an environment, many parents can only use their own knowledge of sexuality to enable their children to understand their own biological meaning, and to develop the concept of self-defense and respect for others.
How can we improve communication between teachers and students?
To prevent children from being lured or injured, parents must be frank and frank about sex education for their children. Parents should explain every part of the human body to their children and tell them not to put up with the aggression of others. At home, parents can create a warm atmosphere for their children, so that they have a sense of security and trust. On this basis, through targeted publicity for college students, the awareness of sexual behavior among college students is raised and their awareness of themselves is raised.
As far as colleges and universities themselves are concerned, they should also further strengthen and improve their own moral cultivation and management methods. In order to ensure the healthy growth of college students, it is necessary to adopt stricter supervision measures. On this basis, it is necessary to strengthen the construction of the teaching staff, enhance the professional quality of the teaching staff, and enhance the sense of responsibility of the contingent.
Conclusion. Education is the foundation of a country's development, and teachers are a major component of the country. Those teachers who abuse their power and harm their students not only violate the original intention of teaching, but also cause students to be deeply harmed. In order to protect the legitimate rights of children and adolescents, it is necessary for parents and the whole society to work together to create a good atmosphere for learning and Xi, and at the same time, it is also necessary to intensify publicity. Only in this way can every child grow up healthily and safely.