The happiest and loving couples in the world have at least 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 thoughts of strangling each other in their lifetime. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps in life, and quarrels often occur, and a husband who will quarrel will do these things when the husband and wife quarrel to make the marriage sweeter.
1. Be willing to listen to you
Patient listening is a sign of respect and understanding, as well as a sign of love. Even in the midst of an argument, he can calm down and listen to your thoughts and opinions, and although he may not fully agree with you, he is still willing to give you a chance to speak and provide a space to express his feelings. There is an old saying that "silence is golden", and here it can be understood that he is willing to put down his voice and listen to your calmness and reason.
2. Be willing to admit mistakes
No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes sometimes. A wise man will realize his mistakes and have the courage to admit them. He will not deny his mistakes for the sake of face or self-esteem, but will be honest, which shows that he values your relationship more than insisting on himself.
3. Resolve anger
It is said that lovers are like raising flowers, and what kind of mentality can be used to raise what kind of woman. It turns out that this is true, and the more women are nourished with love, the more docile their character becomes. Women themselves are emotional animals, their temper comes and goes quickly, and the key is to know how to resolve it. Smart men are able to defuse emotions with humor, and a few simple witticisms can make women happy.
Don't compare yourself to others
Some men usually seem to be honest and very good to their wives, but when they quarrel, they will suddenly turn their faces and expose all their inner thoughts at once. They will compare their wives with other women, and even criticize and abuse their wives. You must know that no one is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings. A man who truly loves his wife will not compare his wife to other women.
5. Don't turn over old accounts
Many men will turn over old accounts when they quarrel, and they will turn over all the wrong things that their previous partners have done and tell them all over again. In this way, it will appear to make more sense and have facts to back it up. But the man who does this is very cautious, and he doesn't know how to understand his partner's feelings at all. You must know that everyone has done something wrong, they will remember it in their own hearts, and they don't need to be repeated over and over again. If it is mentioned often, it will make them live in a haze for a long time, until finally they can't bear to leave.
6. Apologize to you
Sometimes, you don't fight because you're wrong or he's wrong, but because you don't agree on an issue. At such a time, a man who is willing to bow his head and apologize first for the sake of your relationship is a sign of genuine love for you. Because he knows that only in this way can peace be restored between you and you can move on. It's like a "fast break" in tennis, where you lose a point but you can build up for the next match.
A husband who loves you will let you when you quarrel, let you dissipate your anger first, and then say it well if you have something to say. Sometimes a woman's unreasonableness is just an expression of love, and she wants to make the other party accommodate and coax to prove that the original love is still there.
The most rare thing in marriage is not the sweet words when you are happy, but when you quarrel, he still puts you in his heart, at that time, people's words and deeds are instinctive, and your husband who can still hurt you and spoil you when quarreling is really love you. Remember, as the saying goes, "Love is an action," then his actions are the most direct proof that he loves you.