After I divorced Zhao Yu, my mother-in-law moved out with Zhao Yu, but my daughter Xiaocao pointed at me and said: It's all your fault, if you weren't busy ignoring my dad every day, could he go out and find other women?I was in a bad mood, my husband cheated, and my daughter blamed me, so I slapped Xiaocao with my hand: What's the use of me raising you, get out of me. This slap brought our relationship to a freezing point.
I was born in a rural village in northern Jiangsu, and I had a younger brother and a younger sister, and my family was too poor to go to school, so my father refused to let me go to school after graduating from primary school, and asked me to stay at home to take care of my younger brother, who was only three years old at that time.
A teacher at school saw that I had good grades and couldn't bear to let me give up my studies at such a young age, so he came to my house and persuaded my dad to let me continue my school. At that time, my sister was in the fourth grade, and when she saw that my father had been refusing to agree, she turned to my father and said: My sister's grades are better than mine, and I will come back to take care of my brother after I stop going to school, so you can let her go to school. That's how my dad agreed to let me go to school.
Later, when I was admitted to high school, my dad didn't let me go, but my sister knelt at the door with me and kowtowed to my dad for a long time, and my dad relented and agreed. So I've been thankful for my sister all my life, and if it weren't for her, my life might have been different.
However, in the end, I still failed to go to university, and even if I did well in the college entrance examination, my family really couldn't afford me. I took my high Chinese certificate to work in an electronics factory in the city, and compared to other people in the factory, my high Chinese certificate was good, so I quickly became a reserve cadre in the factory.
That's where I met Zhao Yu. Zhao Yu is a local, working in an auto repair shop, I rented a house next to his house at that time, often meet his mother and I will ask me to go to his house for dinner, in fact, I want to connect me with Zhao Yu, and then I married Zhao Yu.
Zhao Yu's father died very early, his mother raised him alone, Zhao Yu entered the auto repair factory after graduating from junior high school, he made very little money, but I still chose to marry him, because his family is in the city, and I can marry a girl from the countryside to the city, which is improved in the eyes of many people.
In the second year after marriage, our daughter was born, named Xiaocao, my mother-in-law did not favor sons, and raised Xiaocao as a treasure, but my mother-in-law, who came to see me once in the month, told me to hurry up and have another boy.
When I was at home with my children, I took the self-examination and was admitted to the undergraduate program, and my life has changed a lot since then. A colleague of mine who works in a factory took me to a real estate agency, and his own shop became bigger and bigger, and later opened to the provincial capital, and I helped him take a lot of orders because of my good English, and he wanted me to manage the branch in the provincial city.
At that time, my mother-in-law and Zhao Yu knew that I was going to the provincial city to manage the branch and were very supportive, because I went there to earn a lot, and at that time, most people's salaries were still hovering at one or two thousand, and I was already able to get seven or eight thousand wages.
After arriving in the provincial capital, I miss my child every day, at that time I can only play **, I heard the child's cry, and I wanted to give up my career here several times, and finally my master persuaded me, he said that I can stay to earn more money to give the child a better life.
The master's words reminded me of my childhood, those poor days were unbearable, and the days when I couldn't go to high school because I didn't have money are also vivid, and finally I chose to stay and continue to struggle.
My income increased exponentially, and then I bought my first house in the provincial capital and took Zhao Yu, my mother-in-law, and my daughter over. At that time, Xiaocao was already in the third grade, and it was difficult to transfer classes, so I found her a private school, and my mother-in-law was also very happy.
As the days got better, I began to repay those who had helped me, such as the teacher who came to my house to persuade my father, and my sister. My sister didn't marry well, she gave birth to two children, and her brother-in-law was too lazy to do it, so I would send her a sum of money every month, and my mother-in-law and Zhao Yu also knew about it, but they couldn't control me, because I earned all the money in the family, and Zhao Yu's money didn't have to be handed over, so it was left for his own use.
What gave me a headache was my daughter Xiaocao, who was at the bottom of the class in her exam results, and the teacher said that she was not socially appropriate during the parent-teacher conference. After I went back, I asked Xiaocao: What the hell is going on, I paid you to go to such a good school, and you repay me like this?Xiaocao was annoyed by my question and shouted: You know me now, why did you go earlier?Didn't I say I worked so hard just to give you a better life?Then Xiaocao stopped talking.
Later, Xiaocao told her mother-in-law that someone was bullying her at school and that she didn't want to continue studying in this school. I was a little angry when my mother-in-law told me this, but Xiaocao was my daughter but refused to tell me anything, but was closer to my mother-in-law.
Sometimes I feel that it is very difficult, and I work so hard for my daughter to have a better life, but in the end, my daughter still doesn't understand. But in the end, I managed to transfer her. After transferring to a public school, Xiaocao got better for a while, but a year later, she said that the teacher excluded her, and I said why didn't the teacher exclude others and just squeeze out you, saying that we quarreled again, and Xiaocao was crying there.
I went to the school to find out the situation, and the head teacher said that there was no such situation, and when I went back, I scolded Xiaocao again. I had a heart-to-heart talk with Xiaocao, and when I talked about my sister's two children, Xiaocao said to me with an indifferent attitude: Or you will send me to my aunt's house and exchange my aunt's daughter for you as a daughter. Her attitude stung me, but in the end, she didn't talk about transferring.
Once I had a lot of red spots on my body, and when I went to the hospital, the doctor said that it was caused by allergies, and said that I should find out what I was allergic to. Later, I remembered that I was allergic to a skin care product, but I hadn't used it for a long time, and I thought that this allergy was related to Zhao Yu.
Zhao Yu doesn't use skin care products, but if he has been with other women and then comes home and makes love to me, it may cause me allergies. It was this little suspicion that made me check Zhao Yu's mobile phone, and then found out that he cheated on a clerk in their company, and that clerk was using that skin care product.
Zhao Yu knelt down and confessed his mistake to me, saying that he was confused for a while, and his mother-in-law also scolded him, I thought he would change, so I forgave him. But within a month, I had several more allergies, and I filed for divorce from Zhao Yu. When Zhao Yu got divorced, he didn't know why I could accurately say the date of his cheating, and thought that I installed surveillance on him.
When we were about to go through the divorce procedures, we told Xiaocao that I had several suites under my name at that time, all of which I had worked hard over the years, and when I divorced, I did not give one suite to Zhao Yu, but one to my mother-in-law. Over the years, I am really grateful to my mother-in-law for helping me bring Xiaocao, I said to my mother-in-law that Zhao Yu is sorry for me, but you didn't, I originally wanted to provide for you for the elderly, but now I can't, I can only give you a house. The mother-in-law cried very sadly.
What I didn't expect was that I was cheated on, but in the end, Xiaocao put the blame on me, so I slapped Xiaocao, and then Xiaocao ran to live with his dad. I slapped my daughter away, she went to live with her father for half a month, I was thinking about whether to pick her up, but I didn't expect her to come back by herself.
It turned out that Xiaocao's father's junior moved over, and Xiaosan didn't like Xiaocao, and quarreled with Zhao Yu every day, and finally Zhao Yu begged Xiaocao to move away, and Xiaocao came back to me.
Of course I was very happy, Xiaocao made a lot of delicious food for her on the day she came back, and I spoke first when I ate: I know who is good to you this time, and I thought that everyone would treat you like me. Xiaocao said: I'm sorry, Mom, I just found out that you are really good.
I was so moved to tears that I was about to come out of my eyes with this sentence, but the junior snatched her husband away, but sent my daughter back.
Since then, Xiaocao has stopped working against me, and I hired a female college student for her as a tutor, and this excellent tutor helped Xiaocao successfully enter high school, and the two became good friends. My mother-in-law often comes to see Xiaocao, and sometimes helps me cook, my mother-in-law's three views have always been very positive, and she has never accepted Xiaosan, and she also helped me scold her son.
Later, my mother-in-law had a serious illness, at that time Zhao Yu and Xiao San also broke up, the first time I officially met Zhao Yu after the divorce was in the hospital, I told Zhao Yu that my mother-in-law's illness must be treated, let him pay first, not enough I filled it all, no matter how much it was treated. It's a pity that in the end, the mother-in-law left.
When my mother-in-law was leaving, she told me that the reason why Xiaocao asked to transfer to another school at that time was that she was almost violated by the teacher, and I said why she refused to tell me, and my mother-in-law said that she told you, would you believe her except scolding her?
After my mother-in-law left, I talked to Xiaocao once, I said that I was going to find the scum back then to avenge her and was stopped by her, she said that it would be enough for so many years. Xiaocao's incident also made me understand that no matter how busy parents are, they should also give their children warmth when they are young, so as to establish a parent-child relationship and gain their children's trust and dependence.