Growing up, I have always been an independent and strong girl. The hardships of my family have taught me to take responsibility on my own and not depend on anyone. However, when I met him, my life changed drastically.
He was the first real boyfriend in my life. We met in the university library, a chance and beautiful encounter. He was smart, humorous, and gentlemanly, and I was as caught up in him as a moth to him.
In the beginning, I thought I could continue to maintain my usual independent and dependent-free character. However, as time went by, I gradually understood a truth, no matter how strong I am, I am still a woman, and I have emotions and needs.
The first emotion is the feeling of being loved. He was always able to make me feel his affection for me in his unique way. Sometimes, I don't need him to buy more gifts or give me more money, just a simple hug and care can make me feel the warmth of being loved.
The second emotion is a sense of security. Whenever I was in a difficult or confused situation, he was always there for me to support and help. He never laughed at my weakness, but encouraged me to face it. Knowing that I have a partner I can rely on and trust gives me a tremendous sense of relief.
Finally, the third emotion is the feeling of being understood. Sometimes, I get annoyed and unhappy because of trivial things. However, when I told him how I felt, he was always able to give me a listening and understanding and give me a space to vent my emotions. He didn't try to solve my problems, he just stayed with me silently, and this feeling of being understood warmed me.
It is precisely because he understands these three women's emotions that I can truly face my inner needs calmly. I am no longer afraid to tell him what I need, because I trust him to understand and be satisfied.
So, for men, don't be afraid to get to know the inner world of women. They need to be loved, they need to be protected, they need to be understood. Only when you really understand these things can you build a deep emotional relationship with them. Remember, women need to be cared for and cared for, and their needs are just as important.