Li Ping is a young man who failed in the exam. In his life, two important elements play a major role: career and love. However, there are no winners for these two in his story, only tragic endings. His story sparked public attention and discussion, and people began to think about the truth and meaning in it.
However, we might as well start with a mediation agreement released by Li Ping's alma mater, the High Court. The mediation agreement details what happened and what the parties claimed, allowing for more details of the incident. According to the agreement, Li Ping and a girl were once a pair of lovers, but for some reason they eventually broke up. When the girl broke up, she promised that as long as Li Ping could pass the career preparation exam, they would be able to get back together. However, the career preparation exam was very difficult, and Li Ping failed to pass it successfully. Despite this, Li Ping still maintained his feelings for the girl and took the initiative to contact her. However, the girl rejected him, much to Li Ping's disappointment.
This refusal triggered an emotional breakdown for Li Ping, which eventually led to him jumping from the upstairs of the girl's house, ending his own painful life. Afterwards, Li Ping's parents decided to sue the girl, demanding compensation of 350,000 yuan. They believe that the girl bears a heavy responsibility in the incident because when they were together, she had encouraged Li Ping to leave her family and live alone. And now that they have broken up, the girl did not take into account Li Ping's feelings, causing him to lose support in his career and love, and finally had to choose to die. For this reason, Li Ping's family demanded that the girl's family pay 350,000 yuan in compensation.
However, the ** and controversy of this incident are far more terrifying than the real situation. For a while, netizens expressed their opinions and comments. Some people believe that girls have the right to choose whether to reconcile or not, and that no matter how intense the boys' emotions are, the responsibility should not be shifted to girls. For example, if a person has liked a celebrity for many years, but the other party has never responded, can they also claim compensation?Such logic is obviously untenable. However, the girl's family still agreed to pay 50,000 yuan as a consolation for the old man's loneliness.
Details disclosed in the mediation agreement show that Li Ping and the girl had not communicated positively before they met. It wasn't until much later that they had the opportunity to meet face-to-face. However, what is surprising is that the atmosphere after the meeting between the two parties was not as tense and hostile as previously imagined, on the contrary, both released their emotions and understood each other's hardships and difficulties. The girl admitted frankly that when Li Ping left, the hurdle in her heart had not yet been crossed. Li Ping's parents also said that because the girl was still young, they had not gone to make trouble, but they always felt uneasy in their hearts and hoped to get some comfort. Eventually, the parties reached a settlement agreement that ended the dispute.
However, despite the fact that the matter has been resolved satisfactorily, the focus on the incident has not stopped. The girl has become the focus of **, and her career and life have been greatly impacted. She had to leave her hometown to work in other places, and her life became even more difficult. On the other hand, Li Ping's family has been criticized as unreasonable blackmailers who only admit money. At the same time, Li Ping, who passed away, was also criticized, considered incapable and responsible, and couldn't even bear such a small matter. In fact, no one in this incident left with dignity, but no one deserved it either. It is understandable that Li Ping lost his career and love. It's understandable that girls choose not to reconcile. The old man lost his only son, and their pain is understandable.
In conclusion, there are no winners in this incident, and everyone deserves to be understood. Everyone should start their lives all over again. For Li Ping, although he has lost the opportunity, his family and important people should share the good future with him. As a bystander, I felt very sad when I saw this case. We should pay attention to family education and intervene in the psychological state of candidates in a timely manner. A person can be vulnerable, he can't take too much pressure, and we can't blame him. Parents should give their children the right values and concepts, if the other person asks you to have a certain wealth and status to be together, although this statement is not wrong, but if the other person does not love you, then you should learn to let go. Career establishment is not the only way out of the future, and we cannot pin all our hopes on it. No matter what kind of work you do, you should live your life well, find the source of happiness, discover more possibilities and directions, and don't give up on yourself easily. In times of sadness, we can only rely on those closest to us for comfort and support.
Recently, a mediation case has attracted widespread attention under the release of the Fujian High Court. The protagonist in this case is a boy named Li Ping, who finally chose to commit suicide by jumping off the building because he failed to take the exam and failed to reunite. Li Ping's parents then sued his ex-girlfriend and demanded 350,000 yuan in damages. This case has caused a lot of controversy, some people think that the girl is not responsible, and some people think that the girl should be held responsible.
According to the description of the mediation agreement in the case, Li Ping and the girl were originally a couple, and when they broke up, the girl promised that as long as Li Ping could pass the career preparation exam, they would be able to get back together. However, Li Ping failed in the exam, and he went to the girl in the hope of getting a chance to reunite, but the girl refused. Subsequently, the girl announced the news of her new relationship on social **, which made Li Ping very sad. Li Ping contacted the girl in the hope of meeting, but the girl refused. The next day, Li Ping committed suicide by jumping from the upstairs of the girl's house.
Li Ping's parents believe that the girl is responsible for the incident, because the girl had encouraged Li Ping to leave his family and live alone when they were together, and now they have broken up without taking into account Li Ping's emotions, causing him to choose to die. So, they sued the girl and demanded 350,000 yuan in damages.
The case sparked a wide range of discussions. Some people think that girls have the right to choose not to reconcile, and no matter how sad Li Ping is, he can't put the blame on the girls. On the other hand, there are also people who believe that the girl does have a certain responsibility in this matter and should bear a certain amount of liability for compensation.
Eventually, the parties reached an agreement through mediation and the case was resolved. However, the interest in this case has not stopped. The girl was greatly affected by this incident, and even left her hometown to work in other places. And Li Ping's parents were criticized for being unreasonable and blackmailing girls. Throughout the incident, no one was a winner, and everyone experienced pain and hurt. This case also reminds us that it is very important to protect the mental health of young people, and parents should be concerned about their children's emotional and psychological state. At the same time, we should also make it clear that everyone has the right to choose their own life, even emotionally. Whether we are pursuing a career or a relationship, we should respect each other's choices and not pursue things that do not belong to us. The most important thing is that we should care for and support the people around us and help them through difficult times, instead of criticizing and blaming them.