The female university is not in the middle!In today's era, there is no distinction between men and women, and everyone should strive to pursue their own values and dreams. Whether male or female, social pressures and responsibilities gradually increase as we become adults, and we need to plan for our future. Of course, starting a family is something that everyone will consider, but that doesn't mean there is no point in being single. Individual choices are important and should not be constrained by society's perceptions.
Some people feel that they are still young and do not want to start a family so early, which is a manifestation of personal values. They have their own dreams and pursuits, and they want to achieve something in their careers. But this does not mean that they are immature, just that they have a clear vision of what they want in life.
Men marry women, this is the traditional concept, that it is the best choice to find a person who is the right person to marry. However, this view does not apply to everyone. Love is based on shared values and interests, not on the matching of material conditions. Sometimes, the disparity in two people's family backgrounds does not affect their happiness.
Let's hear the story of a woman. When she got home, she didn't want to go out to work. Her family is not well-off, and her living environment is very shabby. When her mother saw her sleeping lazily on the kang, she was angry and picked up a broom and beat her. After her daughter was woken up, she angrily wanted to get angry, but when she saw that her mother was urging her to get up, she didn't dare to get angry anymore. The woman is in her 30s, but she has not yet found the right person to marry, and she still relies on her parents to live.
Stories like this may make us think about some questions. The woman felt that she was still young and did not want to get married so early, and she wanted to spend more time with her parents at home. However, her mother did not agree with her idea, believing that she was too lazy to eat and that no man would look up to her. The woman felt that her mother had hit her and thought that her mother should encourage her. And netizens believe that women should lower their mate selection standards and marry themselves off as soon as possible to appease their parents.
Everyone has their own values and life plans, and we should respect individual choices. Marriage is not the only choice in life, and being single does not mean that there is no value. When a woman decides whether to start a family or not, her parents can only give their opinions, but they cannot influence their children's decisions.
Of course, for some specific age groups, starting a family is something to consider. After all, time will slip away quietly, and waiting until middle age to find love may face more difficulties. Starting a family early will not only reassure your parents, but also plan for your future.
Finally, let us remember that everyone has the right to pursue happiness and should not be limited by the ideas of society. Whether you start a family or not does not determine a person's worth and happiness. The important thing is that we should pursue our dreams and live the life we want. Whether you are single or married, it is for your own happiness.