The emotion between husband and wife is the foundation of marriage, and in the face of various changes in life, whether the original intention will remain unchanged is a test of the tacit understanding and trust between husband and wife. Then, what the husband and wife do when they meet first after a long absence, is a very interesting sign, which can provide us with some basis for judging whether the other party has changed their minds.
At the moment of reunion after a long absence, greeting and hugging each other between husband and wife is the most basic emotional expression. If the other person still maintains his passion and love for you, then it means that he or she is still full of love for you in her heart. On the other hand, if they are cold or indifferent after meeting, then you need to be wary of whether the other person has become tired or alienated from you.
The emotional bond between couples is often based on shared experiences and memories. If the other party is willing to reminisce with you about the good old times after a long absence, it means that he or she still cherishes this relationship and is willing to face the challenges of life with you. Conversely, if the other person is silent about you or reluctant to mention the good old days, it may mean that there is a change in his or her feelings for you.
After a long absence, if the other party is willing to plan the future with you, including family, career and life plans, it means that he or she is still full of confidence and expectation in you, and is willing to work hand in hand with you. On the contrary, if the other person shows a confused or indifferent attitude towards the future, or even begins to emphasize his or her personal goals and pursuits, it may mean that he or she has less attention and support for you.
Body language and tone of voice are important ways to express emotions. If you notice that the other person's body language has become cold or distant, or that the tone of voice has become stiff or impatient when communicating with you after a long absence, then you need to be wary of whether the other person has become tired or dissatisfied with you. On the other hand, if the other party can still maintain a warm and cordial tone and body language, it means that he or she still cherishes the relationship.
In addition to the obvious signs mentioned above, we can also tell if the other person has changed their mind by observing some changes in details. For example, whether the other person began to pay attention to their appearance and image, whether they began to pay attention to their career and personal development, whether they began to keep their distance from other members of the opposite sex, etc. Although these changes in details may seem small, they can reflect the changes in the other person's heart.
In short, what couples do when they meet first after a long absence, can indeed provide us with some basis for judging whether the other party has changed their minds. Through the analysis of the above five aspects, we can better understand the inner world of the other party, so as to find and solve problems in time. Of course, this is not an absolute standard, because everyone's emotional expression is different, and the specific situation needs to be analyzed and judged according to the actual situation. Finally, I wish all couples can cherish each other's feelings and go through every stage of life hand in hand.