Parents are considered to be the most outstanding mentors for their children. The upbringing of parents plays an extremely important role in a person's growth journey.
Many modern parents spoil their children and neglect to educate them. In this way, children do not have the correct development of the three views from an early age, and it is easy to go astray when they grow up.
Li Qiming's shouting "My dad is Li Gang" 13 years ago is a vivid proof that because of his own hubris and ignorance, he caused an irreparable tragedy and had to endure six years in prison.
Now that Li Qiming has completed his sentence and been released, what is his current state of life?As for his father Li Gang, how is he doing now?
When night fell, on October 16, 2010, the campus of a university in Hebei Province was filled with laughter and laughter, and students enjoyed the cool breeze of the autumn night.
Suddenly, there was a loud "bang" that broke the silence of the campus.
A black sedan with license plate number "冀FWE420" hit two female students on the road.
One person was knocked 10 meters away, his head was bleeding, and he fell unconscious and fell in a pool of bloodThe other was knocked into a tree on the side of the road, with a pained look on his face.
The campus instantly became chaotic, with screams and cries for help filling the air.
It was Li Qiming who knocked two people away, but he didn't realize what happened at the time. He just saw the crowd around him, so he turned the steering wheel to get around them.
The security guards immediately stepped forward to stop his car, and the surrounding students also quickly rushed over to form an encirclement of his car.
Li Qiming stopped the car, his body swayed, he looked drunk, and kept muttering: "Are you sick, why stop my car?"”
You dare to be so arrogant when you hit someone, you are really asking for yourself. A bystander said in the crowd.
These words made Li Qiming realize that the sound he heard just now was the sound of hitting someone, but he didn't show any apologies, but said impatiently: "Look at what my car has been blown into." ”
As soon as the words came out, it immediately aroused everyone's anger, and some people began to take out their mobile phones to call the police.
After Li Qiming heard someone call the police, he didn't panic, but sneered and said, "My dad is Li Gang." ”
Ambulances and police cars quickly arrived at the location, and after taking the two girls to the hospital, they immediately took a blood test on Li Qiming. The results showed that Li Qiming's blood alcohol content was as high as 151 milliliters, which is an extremely serious drunk driving behavior.
Early the next morning, sad news came from the hospital. Chen Xiaofeng, who was seriously injured, has passed away because he failed to accept rescue in time, while Zhang Jingjing is not in danger of life, but needs to be in the hospital for a period of time.
The two girls who had just entered the university, Chen Xiaofeng didn't even have time to enjoy the fun of college life, so they encountered such a misfortune.
This incident quickly caused a sensation in society, and everyone was confused about it, and they all speculated about where Li Gang was sacredAnd why is his son so flamboyant.
Netizens spontaneously launched an investigation into Li Gang's identity, and surprisingly found a lot of relevant information.
Li Qiming can be called an authentic second-generation official, because his father is the deputy director of the Public Security Bureau, and his mother is a high-level intellectual.
This kind of family environment is supposed to produce humble, courteous and knowledgeable children.
His parents only had one child, so they doted on him since he was a child, and it can be said that they were overwhelmingly pampered. This kind of favor made Li Qiming gradually form an indulgent and willful character.
When he was a child, as long as he got into trouble, his parents solved it for him, and when he grew up, Li Qiming was Xi to relying on his parents to help him solve problems.
This time, however, the situation is far beyond the reach of the parents.
When they heard that their son had fallen into such a catastrophe, they couldn't accept this fact at all, and regretted that they didn't discipline Li Qiming well, thus putting him on this road of no return.
Seeing the continuous expansion of the situation, Li Gang felt flustered, so he had no choice but to stand up and take responsibility.
He showed a grief-stricken look in front of the camera, tearfully admitting that it was his connivance that caused Li Qiming to make such a serious mistake. He righteously stated that he would never interfere in Li Qiming's case, insisting that the law should punish him according to law.
Soon after, Li Qiming also made a public apology in front of the camera.
In the picture, he changed his previous behavior, wept bitterly to admit his mistakes, and expressed his willingness to take responsibility for this and accept the punishment of the law.
Whether he really recognized his mistake, or was just pressured to take a stand, only he knows.
Chen Xiaofeng's family said that they did not accept an apology, and they only hoped that the law would make a fair ruling, so that they could give an explanation to the deceased.
After several months of continuous evidence collection, the case was finally decided in January 2011.
The judge held Lee solely responsible for his drunk driving, which resulted in one death and one injury.
Li Qiming also admitted his crime in court without concealment.
He was eventually sentenced to six years in prison, with compensation to the families of the deceased and the injured.
This incident has come to an end, and Li Qiming has also paid the price for his actions.
Due to the pressure, his father decided to leave the police station, so he also took on the responsibilities of his father. This tragedy ultimately stems from his doting on his children, and he will have to bear the consequences of his own suffering alone.
Ten years have passed in a hurry, and Li Qiming has spent this time in prison.
After his release from prison, he had started his life anew, in stark contrast to the enthusiastic celebration of his parents when Li Tianyi, the son of Li Shuangjiang, was released from prison.
When he was released from prison, no one came to pick him up and take him home, and some even claimed that he had not been visited by his family in six years in prison.
He used to be the pride of the sky, but now he has fallen to the bottom, and he has to rely on self-reliance to make ends meet.
In the beginning, he thought about submitting his resume to a large company, and then working his way up from the bottom. But as soon as people saw his work history, they rejected him outright. Subsequently, he had to rely on all kinds of odd jobs to make ends meet, such as washing cars, washing dishes, etc., and he tried almost all the jobs that could make money, and he had completely lost his previous self-esteem.
In an interview with reporters, he said that he has truly realized his mistakes and hopes to be able to be a new person. He longed for his father's forgiveness so that the family could return to the happy life they had before.
According to rumors, Li Gang is said to have taken the initiative to find Li Qiming, and then the father and son had a frank conversation. However, we have no way of knowing whether the family is living happily ever after.
Fortunately, Li Qiming deeply realized his previous absurd behavior, and realized that he had to start making money with his own hands, and it looked like a prodigal son had turned back.
It is often said that no one is perfect, and who can be without faultAs long as you're willing to start over, it's still too late.
However, he was also rated as the "Four Famous Fathers" by netizens, and Li Gang's behavior was much better than Li Shuangjiang's, which is unknown.
The younger generation may not be familiar with Li Shuangjiang, but in the minds of the older generation, he is regarded as an artist who is "both virtuous and artistic".
Over the years, he has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times in a row, and with a song "Ode to Beijing", he has become popular all over the country, and even won the title of "People's Favorite Artist".
Although he was a highly respected artist, he was ridiculed for his son's discredit, and eventually became a counterexample to many people for teaching their children.
What exactly happened is a mystery.
In 2013, a ** case that shocked the whole country happened.
On February 19, a woman in a bar in Beijing lost consciousness due to excessive drinking and was helped by four men to a hotel.
There, the four took turns committing atrocities against her, and although the girl struggled to resist, to no avail. The next day, the woman decisively called the police. **The results of the investigation revealed that surprisingly, one of them turned out to be Li Shuangjiang's son, Li Tianyi.
After the incident, it soon attracted widespread public attention, and for a while, Li Shuangjiang and his wife immediately became the focus of attention.
The old couple couldn't believe their son's behavior, they didn't expect him to do such a thing. Li Shuangjiang couldn't accept this reality, so he was directly admitted to the hospital in anger, but Mengge tried his best to help his son get rid of the crime.
She specifically asked someone to remind her son in prison to be cautious in his words and deeds, and at the same time told him that he insisted on his innocence whenever the police asked.
She then asked a lawyer to appear in court to defend her son, claiming that he had acted under the guidance of others, but knew that it was all in vain before the law.
* After an investigation, it was concluded that Li Tianyi was the mastermind behind the incident, and the court finally sentenced him to 10 years in prison.
It wasn't until their son ** was imprisoned that Li Shuangjiang and his wife realized that it was their excessive doting that led to their son's despair.
Li Tianyi was born when Li Shuangjiang was 57 years old, and it can be said that he was a belated child.
Parents often say that it is their luck to have children in old age, but it is unfortunate for their children, and this sentence is indeed not an exaggeration.
This hard-won son made the old couple love him immensely, and they did their best to meet what Li Tianyi wanted to get and what he wanted to fulfill, and took care of him meticulously.
Li Tianyi grew up in this kind of family environment, and naturally formed a daring character. Whenever something doesn't go his way, he gets furious, not caring about the consequences.
When he was a child, he just quarreled with children and scared small animals, and Li Shuangjiang and his wife thought that the child was a little naughty but it was normal, so they didn't deliberately restrain him.
As he grew older, Li Tian's behavior became more and more intolerable.
When he was in elementary school, he had a conflict with his classmates and pushed each other down the stairs, but Li Shuangjiang and his wife did not blame him, but handled the matter properly in private and did not let Li Tianyi receive any punishment.
After Li Tianyi started this incident, he became even more arrogant, he thought that no matter how excessive he did, his parents would help him deal with it.
After junior high school, he even went so far as to beat the teacher, and the school had to persuade him to quit when he learned about it.
Mengge didn't want to see his son continue to sink, so he spent a lot of money to send him to study abroad.
Abroad, however, Li Tianyi is just as worrisome, often having quarrels with classmates and even pouring laundry detergent into other people's milk. Instead of expelling him immediately, the school asked him to go home and reflect for a few months.
This reflection almost made things worse, and it's good not to reflect.
When Li Tianyi was 15 years old, he drove his mother's car and knocked down a couple on the road. After knocking them to the ground, he did not apologize, instead blaming them for crashing into his car and hitting each other.
* The report caused quite a stir, and in order to express his apology, Li Shuangjiang personally went to the hospital to visit the injured, which minimized the impact of the incident. The other party also forgave Li Tianyi because of this, saying that he took care of his face.
The victim's abandonment of the prosecution does not mean that the law will also give up.
He deserves a fine and imprisonment for driving under the influence of alcohol without a driver's licence and intentionally injuring others. However, since he was not yet a minor, ** chose to send him to a juvenile education center for a year of educational reform.
He thought that he would become sensible in a year, but who would have thought that he would be involved in a ** case shortly after he was released from prison.
The old couple has regretted it, but there is no way to recover the situation. After their son was imprisoned, not only did it have a huge impact on their careers, their reputation plummeted, and they were even invited to few programs. Before that, they were the best in the singing world.
If my son had been properly educated, this would not have happened, so I would have been responsible for the consequences.
Li Tianyi was imprisoned in 2013**, and now exactly 10 years have passed.
According to rumors, Li Tianyi was released in February. On the same day, he and his wife also invited a large group of friends to celebrate.
The red carpet is rolled out, the flower baskets are neatly arranged, and the uninformed may mistakenly think that there is something festive at home.
According to people familiar with the matter, Li Shuangjiang and his wife have not only prepared a new identity for their son abroad, but also plan to take him abroad to start a new life after a while.
Netizens expressed their doubts in the message area about whether they really planned to raise Li Tianyi into a waste who would only rely on his parents.
After being released from prison, he was supposed to make a living on his own and start his life anew, just like Li Qiming. However, Li Shuangjiang and his wife directly arranged his future path and did not give him this opportunity at all.
From another point of view, if the old couple is still there, then if one day they both leave, what kind of disaster will Li Tianyi do? What if there is simply not enough money left? What should Li Tianyi do at that time?
The current approach may seem like it's for the good of the son, but in the long run, it's actually hurting him.
A parent's love for their children is often considered to be incomparably deep. By "deep", it means thinking about long-term interests. However, some couples only focus on the present, lack consideration for the future, and appear to have a narrow vision.
I hope that the rest of Li Tianyi's life can be spent smoothly and unhindered as they wish, but who can predict the world for sure?