In the past two days, teacher Zhang Xuefeng made another astonishing remark: "Don't be afraid when you go to college, if you want to seize the opportunity to hone your face and survive in society, you must be shameless." As soon as these words came out, they really stunned many college students in the ivory tower, why did this sound so harsh!
Indeed, in today's society, success does not depend solely on an individual's ability and efforts, but also largely on the individual's "cheekiness". Teacher Zhang Xuefeng's words, although they sound a little harsh, but they speak of a common phenomenon in social reality.
First, let's understand what it means to "hone your face." Here, "honing your face" does not refer to brazen or unprincipled compromises, but to be able to remain calm in the face of difficulties, setbacks, and criticism, not to give up easily, and to have the courage to accept challenges and pressures. It is a positive attitude and behavior that can help us cope better with various challenges in life.
So, why does teacher Zhang Xuefeng emphasize "don't be afraid when you are in college, seize the opportunity to practice your face more"?This is because college is an important stage for us to enter society, and it is also the best time for us to exercise ourselves and improve ourselves. During college, we need to learn to think independently and make decisions independently, but we also need to learn to face failures and setbacks. If we are too afraid of failure or too concerned about the evaluation of others at this stage, it will be difficult for us to realize our potential and gain a foothold in the future society. Moreover, in college, there are many clubs, competitions, and opportunities to exercise, and it is not terrible to fail, but it is terrible to lose the opportunity to compete.
However, what does the phrase "to survive in society, you must be shameless"?This is not to say that we need to be shameless or have no self-esteem, but that we need to learn to adapt and accept various challenges and pressures in society. In society, we will encounter all kinds of people and things, as well as all kinds of difficulties and setbacks. If we care too much about our face or self-esteem, then it will be difficult for us to cope with these challenges and pressures, and it will be difficult for us to survive in society.
Therefore, we need to correctly understand Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's words, not only dare to try and challenge ourselves, but also learn to adapt to society and accept setbacks and imperfections. Only in this way will we be able to gain a foothold and succeed in society.
So, how can you "practice your face more"?Here are some suggestions:
First, dare to try and challenge yourself. During college, don't be afraid to try new things, fail and be frustrated. Instead, embrace challenges and pressures to learn and grow. It is only by constantly trying and challenging ourselves that we can exercise our willpower and perseverance and improve our abilities and qualities.
Second, learn to adapt to society and accept setbacks and imperfections. In society, we will encounter all kinds of people and things, as well as all kinds of difficulties and setbacks. At this time, we need to learn to adapt to society, accept setbacks and imperfections, and learn and grow from them. At the same time, we also need to learn from the experience and lessons of others' evaluations and constantly improve ourselves.
Third, maintain a positive mindset and attitude. In the face of difficulties, setbacks, and criticism, we need to maintain a positive mindset and attitude. Don't give up on your dreams and goals easily, but persevere in pursuing your dreams and goals. Only in this way can we continuously improve our abilities and qualities.
In conclusion, "practicing more face" is a positive attitude and behavior that can help us gain a foothold and succeed in society. You must know that Liu Qiangdong once sold CDs, and I don't know how many eyes he suffered;When Jack Ma took the yellow pages to sell everywhere, how many setbacks did he encounter?Without a cold bone, how can the plum blossoms be fragrant!