The rebellious period is a period that is necessary for children to go through when they are growing up. Even girls can become irritable, impatient, and talk back to their parents during the rebellious period. Girls in the rebellious period are sensitive and fragile in their hearts, eager to be independent and dependent on their parents. Therefore, during this period, it is very important for parents to provide correct guidance and education.
How to persuade a child who suddenly gets tired of school in his third year of high school?
How to guide the education of girls during the rebellious period
1. Pay attention to your child's mood changes. Facing a child who has entered the rebellious period, parents should investigate and pay attention to the child's mood change, after finding that the child has a bad mood, do not show impatience, try to receive the child's mood, encourage the child to express his mood change, promise the child to have space to vent his mood, but do not unconditionally meet the child's needs, after the child is in a cathartic mood, give him appropriate comfort, and tell her some small truths.
2. Respect children and listen to their hearts. Respect is important for communication between parents and children, and listening itself is a form of respect for children. This method is more conducive to equal communication with children and more conducive to understanding children's voices, while preaching is often only done on the outside, and it is difficult to penetrate into the hearts of girls. Therefore, parents should learn more about the girl's independent understanding through useful listening, so as to give more useful guidance to the girl.
3. Give children a sense of satisfaction. Girls will have contradictions and anxieties during the rebellious period, and the uneasiness caused by contradictions and anxieties will be quickly amplified. Therefore, parents need to give their children a sense of satisfaction and share more interesting things with their children. Let children have a sense of participation, communicate and interact with children more, don't be stingy to recognize children, encourage children, enhance children's self-confidence, and be sure, recognized, and trusted are all ways to help children establish a sense of security.
4. Stand in the perspective of children, respect and understand them. Parents should not always be preconceived of by themselves, nor should they be in a hurry to indoctrinate their own ideas. In life, try to empathize, listen more, preach less, and listen patiently to the child's ideas. Let go of parenthood, don't be arrogant, consult their opinions and opinions, and make them voluntarily accept the right ideas. On the premise of adhering to principles, parents should know how to be tolerant.
How girls behave in the rebellious period?
1. Unstable mood: The general mood control is relatively poor, and it is very simple to be excited. Yelling at mom and dad over trivial things and losing your temper. Sometimes I always feel that my parents are very nagging, and I can't even listen to my parents' opinions and opinions.
2. Rebellious thoughts: I always feel that the teacher is unfair to me, or maybe my parents always restrain me, so I will try to oppose my prestige, such as quarreling with my parents and opposing the teacher.
3. Strong vanity: For example, if you like to buy brand-name things, you may dress yourself up, and even some girls dress themselves up very sophisticated**. It is recommended that parents care more about their children and establish correct values and a sense of right and wrong. Give appropriate companionship, communicate more and enhance feelings.