Author: Wen Qiusheng.
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated.
If people's emotions are out of control, they will be like a train that is on a rampage and has no sense of direction.
Whether a person lives a decent life is directly related to his personality and ability to control emotions.
In today's society, the circle of friends has become a person's window and a person's private territory.
If you want to know a person, you only need to look at what he posted in the circle of friends.
If a person often sends something bursting with negative energy, it will make people disgusted, and it will also affect his level and pattern.
Whether a person lives cheaply or not can be seen. People who like to post four kinds of moments of friends are very cheap
Before, I had a colleague who was particularly obnoxious.
He always posted some specious ** in the circle of friends, implying that a colleague and leader of the company were ambiguous, and accompanied by the text "Eat melons together".
Originally, people just worked normally, and the seemingly intimate movements were only a matter of shooting angles.
Just because he spread right and wrong, the colleague who was photographed chose to resign under the trouble of **.
After that, no one in the company wanted to associate with this colleague who posted on Moments indiscriminately and was particularly "gossipy", he was bored and isolated, and soon found a reason to leave the company.
Feng Menglong said: "Right and wrong are just to speak more, and the troubles are all due to the strong head." ”Posting some false information in the circle of friends, suggesting that someone is of bad character. Spread rumors and make trouble, and no wind can make three-foot waves. Such a person pays attention to gossip and is difficult to perform well at work.
Most of the people who spread rumors are in the middle of right and wrong. In this way, attract the attention of others and find a sense of presence.
The means are low-level, the heart is vulgar, and it is not recognized and liked by everyone.
Some people, when they have some disputes with the people around them, will complain about their bad luck in the circle of friends, and they will also complain about the low quality of others.
will post several moments in a row, scolding others, and showing a look of emotional out-of-control.
But I never thought about whether there was any problem with me.
I like to use the circle of friends as a platform to vent my emotions. If someone advises him not to complain, he will only feel that others do not understand him.
People who love to complain do not see their own problems, and are Xi to accusing others and shirking responsibility.
Life is not easy for each of us. No one loves to make friends with people who like to complain.
Because, those negative emotions are contagious.
Mina said, "Try to start over, you know, the more you complain, the less happiness you have, the more you look back, the less you move forward." ”Quit complaining, adjust your mentality, and live optimistically, so that the people around you will feel that you live with an attitude and strength.
People who feel very cheap are often people who have no cultivation.
is like what is written in "Message of Youth": "Upbringing is not a tonality that is easily bought from elsewhere and pasted on the body, but the dazzling sentiment that permeates from the bottom of your own life." ”People who have no cultivation like to post some particularly ugly words in the circle of friends. If you look at his circle of friends, you will find that the content he posted is all foul language.
If you scold people, you will come as soon as you open your mouth, and you will have a mixed attitude, which makes people feel unreliable when you look at it.
Even if he is a victim, but seeing his scolding attitude, he will re-examine his level and pattern.
People who are not cultivated have low emotional intelligence, and they only know how to vent their emotions by scolding when they encounter problems. I don't know how to reflect, and I don't know how to stop losses.
The quality of such a person is too low, and the more fiercely he scolds, the more his own shortcomings are exposed.
Qiu Xiaoxia and her daughter in "Life Home" received a coupon for the buffet.
After entering, she didn't eat in a hurry, but took out her mobile phone and took a lot of **.
She told her daughter that this is accumulating material for posting on Moments, shoot more, enough to post several times.
Qiu Xiaoxia lives with her daughter, and her life has been very hard, and she does this just to prove that she and her daughter are living well.
However, the more this is the case, the more her level and insight will be exposed.
Many times, the more a person shows off something, the more he lacks something.
People who really have quality and a good material life have become Xi to brocade clothes and food, and feel that these are ordinary things, and there is nothing to show off.
In the circle of friends, he never shows off how well he lives.
On the contrary, those who have nothing to do and love to show off are always proving that they are living a glamorous life, eager to be appreciated, envied, and leave a particularly low-level feeling.
To be a human being, you must learn to keep a low profile.
When encountering right and wrong, even if you see and hear it, you must pretend to be confused and let the parties solve it themselves.
Don't talk too much, don't mess around with things in the circle of friends.
What you show should be positive energy, something beautiful.
Only by being calm and atmospheric can we gain more trust and support.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.