Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia were originally a happy couple, they held an engagement ceremony in 2009 and were about to get married, but at this juncture, an accident befell them.
A car accident caused Pan Xiaoxia's head to be seriously damaged, Pan Xiaoxia was not only knocked out of his ability to take care of himself, but his intelligence also stayed at the level of 3 years old, and he lay in the intensive care unit for 20 days before being transferred to an ordinary hospital, and the follow-up ** is still unknown.
Since his girlfriend is in such a situation, should the original wedding be held?
Lu Lei gave a satisfactory answer.
One day in 2009, at the entrance of the emergency department of a hospital in Jiangxi, a black car drove in, and two patients got out of the car, the man was named Lu Lei, and the woman was Pan Xiaoxia, who suffered a serious car accident and are now unconscious.
On the morning of the second day, Lu Lei woke up, and the doctor did a series of examinations for him, and found that Lu Lei only had one leg fractured, and then operated on Lu Lei, and Lu Lei's body was fine.
But his girlfriend Pan Xiaoxia's condition is very serious, a day and a night have passed, he has not woken up, and his breathing is relatively weak, and the doctor found that Pan Xiaoxia not only had serious injuries to his limbs, but also suffered serious trauma to his head.
It wasn't until three days later that Pan Xiaoxia's condition stabilized, and the doctor operated on her, and Pan Xiaoxia was temporarily out of danger, but what the family didn't expect was that Pan Xiaoxia had not woken up until the end of the **.
In the corridor, the doctor's words were a little solemn, "Pan Xiaoxia is too seriously injured, her brain has been seriously damaged, either she can't wake up at all, or, even if she wakes up, she is likely to become a vegetative person." ”
Even if she doesn't become a vegetative person, her IQ may stay at the level of a child. ”
The doctor's words made Lu Lei fall into deep thought, he and Pan Xiaoxia have only known each other for a year, and the two only held an engagement ceremony a few months ago, and they plan to get married at the end of the year.
Now that there is such a situation, is this marriage still concluded?
On the 20th day that Pan Xiaoxia was taken to the hospital, she finally opened her eyes, the good news is that she finally woke up, and the bad news is that she did become a vegetative person, and her IQ stayed at the level of a 3-year-old child.
After Pan Xiaoxia was transferred to the general ward, her family was responsible for taking care of her, at first Pan Xiaoxia's parents stayed at the bedside and took the initiative to serve their daughter, and later Lu Lei, who was still a soldier in the army, hurriedly asked for leave and took over the second elder to take care of Pan Xiaoxia in front of the bed.
To Lu Lei's surprise, when he came to Pan Xiaoxia, he found that Pan Xiaoxia didn't know him, he called Pan Xiaoxia's name, Pan Xiaoxia didn't know how to answer, and Pan Xiaoxia didn't know who Lu Lei was in front of him at all.
Lu Lei went to ask the doctor, and the doctor said, "Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence is not only at the level of 3 years old, but she also has amnesia." ”
At this time, the parents who were far away from their hometown had also learned that their son's girlfriend had been in a car accident and had become a vegetative person.
A week later, they took their son Lu Lei's hand and told him a truth, "Son, you and Pan Xiaoxia are not married yet, you still have leeway, you can choose to give up Pan Xiaoxia and find a new wife." ”
Even Pan Xiaoxia's parents said to Lu Lei, "Yes, child, you don't have to worry about Pan Xiaoxia, she is our daughter, and we will take care of her." ”
You don't waste time on Pan Xiaoxia, you go and pursue your own happiness. ”
But Lu Lei didn't listen to dissuasion at all, and made a promise to the four old people, "Dad, Mom, don't persuade me anymore, I love her, and I will take care of her for the rest of my life." ”
Since then, the task of taking care of Pan Xiaoxia has fallen on Lu Lei alone, going to the canteen on time every morning to get a light nutritious meal for his girlfriend, accompanying her for infusion at noon, and helping her massage her muscles and bones in the evening, Lu Lei almost never absence, always accompanying Pan Xiaoxia.
Lu Lei thought that Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence was only at the level of 3 years old, and 3-year-old children would definitely like toys very much.
Lu Lei went to the small shop downstairs and bought a lot of wave drums that children like to play with, rag dolls that little girls like to play with, and bought a few balloons and brought them back to tease Pan Xiaoxia.
Pan Xiaoxia is really interested every time he sees these toys, and under the leadership of Lu Lei, Pan Xiaoxia has a lot of fun, with a happy smile on his face, very satisfied.
Seeing Pan Xiaoxia so happy, Lu Lei felt extremely relieved, but turned his head and burst into tears.
"I'm so good to her, and she doesn't know who I am”
"The love between the two of us for more than a year may be known only to me. ”
For several nights, Lu Lei always burst into tears, always thinking, "Why are you so unlucky?".”
But only half a month later, Lu Lei completely changed his mind.
"There are some things that he can't control," he said. ”
At the same time, he felt, "Although Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence has stayed at the level of 3 years old, it does not mean that she will always be like this." ”
If the people around her can take good care of Pan Xiaoxia, maybe her condition will improve quickly. ”
It is precisely with this psychology that Lu Lei has taken care of Pan Xiaoxia on the hospital bed more than ever since then.
The other patients in the ward were also moved by Lu Lei's persistence, saying that such love is rare.
Only Lu Lei knows how beautiful his encounter with Pan Xiaoxia is.
Time goes back to a year ago, that is, in 2008, when Lu Lei was only 25 years old, but because he has been a soldier in the army and rarely meets girls, Lu Lei's marriage has become a burden on his parents.
Every time Lu Lei goes home for vacation, his parents always persuade him to go on a blind date, and his parents have already arranged a blind date for Lu Lei.
But the blind date turned out to be unsatisfactory, most of the girls are very realistic, disgusted that Lu Lei has no car or house, and after getting married, Lu Lei will go home very rarely, and the girls have turned around and left.
Until one day in 2008, his parents introduced a blind date to Lu Lei, and this blind date was Pan Xiaoxia.
Unexpectedly, when he saw Pan Xiaoxia, his heart was about to melt, he liked this type of girl very much, and Pan Xiaoxia also liked Lu Lei very much.
As the saying goes, as long as the two of them look at each other, the probability of a successful blind date is much greater, and sure enough, Pan Xiaoxia not only does not dislike Lu Lei for having no car or house, but also doesn't mind how often he goes home, she also told Lu Lei personally, "If the two of them get married in the future, even if Lu Lei only returns home once in a long time, she can take care of the family." ”
After so many blind dates, Lu Lei saw such a reasonable girl for the first time, and he really liked Pan Xiaoxia, the two quickly expressed their hearts and became an enviable couple.
The parents of both parties also agreed to the relationship between the two and urged them to get married early, so in 2009, the two successfully completed the engagement ceremony.
They also planned to choose a good day and hold the wedding as soon as possible.
Unexpectedly, an accident came ahead of schedule.
At that time, the two people lived a life of gathering less and leaving more, although they could be contacted through **, but at that time, smartphones were not yet popular, and the two could not see each other's appearance, after a period of time, Pan Xiaoxia really missed Lu Lei, so he came to the army to visit relatives.
The scene of the two meeting happened to be seen by Lu Lei's comrades-in-arms, so Lu Lei invited his comrades-in-arms to take Pan Xiaoxia to eat out, and after eating, the comrades-in-arms came back in advance, leaving some space for Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia.
After the comrades-in-arms left, Lu Lei took Pan Xiaoxia's hand, and the two walked on the road talking and laughing, ready to go back.
At this time, a large truck that was out of control suddenly collided and knocked the two into the air on the spot.
Lu Lei was knocked to the grass next to him, and Pan Xiaoxia was not so lucky, he happened to hit a stone, and the two fell unconscious on the spot.
The driver called an ambulance and took the two to the hospital.
It was precisely because the accident between the two came so suddenly that Lu Lei still finds it unbelievable.
He always thought, "If this accident hadn't happened, he and Pan Xiaoxia would have happily held a wedding." ”
But what can be done when something has already happened?
Moreover, Lu Lei not only didn't care about the tragedy that had been caused, but also made a decision, "He wants to get married to Pan Xiaoxia and hold a grand wedding for Pan Xiaoxia." ”
Because he thinks that a good love doesn't care about external conditions, he loves Pan Xiaoxia in his heart, so he doesn't care if Pan Xiaoxia has the ability to take care of herself, whether her intelligence is stuck at 3 years old, and whether she knows herself.
Since he loves her, he has no hesitation.
However, Lu Lei wanted to hold a wedding with Pan Xiaoxia, but was rejected by the four old men.
Lu Lei's parents took the lead in saying, "The two of you had a car accident during your relationship, and the car accident was not caused by you, so you don't have to bear the consequences at all." ”
And you have taken care of Pan Xiaoxia for several months, and you have done your best to be benevolent, there is no need to waste your happiness on Pan Xiaoxia anymore. ”
If Pan Xiaoxia really loves you, she will also want you to find happiness. ”
Even Pan Xiaoxia's parents couldn't bear to let their sick daughter marry a healthy Lu Lei.
But no matter who tried to dissuade him, Lu Lei was always unmoved.
One day in 2010, Lu Lei held a grand wedding for Pan Xiaoxia.
Friends and family came to witness the happiness of the two couples.
Lu Lei attended in formal clothes, and Pan Xiaoxia, who had changed into a wedding dress in advance, also came to the stage with the support of relatives and friends.
Lu Lei personally put a ring on Pan Xiaoxia, and then said to everyone, "From this moment on, she is my wife." ”
There was a burst of warm applause from the audience.
After the wedding, Lu Lei officially felt that he had a responsibility, and now Pan Xiaoxia has become his wife, and he has decided to accompany Pan Xiaoxia forever and be responsible to the end.
At the same time, his wife's ** was also put on the agenda.
Fortunately, with Lu Lei's efforts, Pan Xiaoxia's condition really improved day by day.
At that time, after they had a car accident, because they were sent in a relatively timely manner, they did not delay the best time for treatment, so although Pan Xiaoxia temporarily lost her ability to take care of herself, her limbs recovered very quickly, and she could barely move her muscles and bones soon.
Lu Lei saw that his wife had recovered so considerably, and then he had only one task, hoping that his wife could walk on the ground, for the second time, Lu Lei had to massage Pan Xiaoxia's muscles and bones several times a day, and then set aside an hour to help his wife get off the ground, and then assist her to step away from her left leg and right leg, under Lu Lei's insistence day after day, Pan Xiaoxia could finally walk a few steps.
At that time, Pan Xiaoxia's body was not coordinated enough, Lu Lei took his wife to the hospital to do ** training, ** During the training, Lu Lei has been accompanying Pan Xiaoxia, and when he returns home from the hospital, Lu Lei will continue to do ** training for Pan Xiaoxia at home, he is never tired, carrying Pan Xiaoxia's heavy body, almost every day has to walk a long way.
Very fortunately, Pan Xiaoxia is still young after all, and her body recovers very quickly, and it didn't take long for her to recover her ability to take care of herself.
After her health improves, Pan Xiaoxia can already help the family cook, and in addition, she will help the family do housework in her spare time, even if it is some physical work, she can do it.
But the thing that Lu Lei can't let go of the most is that "at this time, his wife's intelligence is still stuck at 3 years old, how much he hopes that his wife's improvement is intellectual." ”
After all, 3-year-old children are completely unable to chat with adults and enlighten adults, and Lu Lei found that Pan Xiaoxia always likes to play with toys, and if she sees some children, she is also willing to play with children. ”
As for Lu Lei, it is her husband. and who her parents are, etc., are not within Pan Xiaoxia's consideration. ”
So since then, Lu Lei has been pondering how to let his wife improve her intelligence, and in addition, let her recover some memories.
Lu Lei took Pan Xiaoxia to seek medical treatment everywhere, but because the brain injury is irreversible, the doctor has no good way, so he can only tell Lu Lei, "In this case of Pan Xiaoxia, Pan Xiaoxia can only let Pan Xiaoxia recover on his own, and as for the extent of recovery, I am not sure." ”
Hearing the doctor say such things, Lu Lei also had confidence, he felt that he would continue to take care of Pan Xiaoxia in the future, as long as he worked hard, he would not have any regrets in the future.
Very fortunately, Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence did not stay at the level of 3 years old for a long time, with the recovery of her body, her intelligence is gradually recovering, and now Pan Xiaoxia, her intelligence has recovered to the level of a 6-year-old child.
You know, there is a clear difference between 6-year-olds and 3-year-olds, 3-year-old children may only know how to play, but 6-year-old children, not to mention comforting their families, can at least know what the relationship between the person in front of him is.
Besides, Lu Lei still takes good care of Pan Xiaoxia as always, maybe Pan Xiaoxia's intelligence still has room for recovery.
Now that 14 years have passed, Lu Lei still takes care of Pan Xiaoxia as always, takes care of her daily life, and comforts her psychologically, they also adopted a child, and some laughter has been added to the family.
With the efforts of the family, life will get better and better.
The story ends here, I am very moved, many couples, even if there is no accident, are very likely to break up unhappily and part ways, and Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia, such a big accident happened, but Lu Lei has always been to Pan Xiaoxia, still held a wedding with Pan Xiaoxia, and still stayed by Pan Xiaoxia's side to take care of her.
Although he knew that his wife's intelligence had stayed at the level of a child, he didn't care at all, because he loved Pan Xiaoxia as a person, not anything else, so he didn't care what Pan Xiaoxia became in the end, and Lu Lei's persistence also touched many people.
In fact, true love is not necessarily vigorous, but sharing with each other when they are happy, accompanying each other when they are in trouble, love is innocent and will not be mixed with additional conditions.
Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia are undoubtedly a happy love, because Pan Xiaoxia met a good husband, he doesn't have to worry about his future life, and Lu Lei's every contribution to Pan Xiaoxia is also worth it for him.
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