If you are keen to visit the emotional area, there is a high probability that you will brush up on a strange anchor who talks like chopping melons and vegetables, and laughs with flowers and branches-Ququ Big Woman. 
Why do you say she's weird? is different from the usual chicken-soup-style emotional bloggers, she takes the side door -Teach girls how to be in intimacyNuggets. You often hear the following questions from female guests in her live broadcast room: Daddy has more than a dozen small goals, in the siege of the city, he spent 300w on me in two years, and now I have the ball, and I don't have a happy certificate, how can I get more meters? (Black words in the live broadcast room of Ququ: Daddy = gold owner, big guy; Siege = marriage; Dribbling = Pregnancy; Happiness certificate = marriage certificate; m = money, assets).
Is this teaching the mistress how to make money from cheating men with multiple couples? Yes, there is no doubt about it. Although the three views are ruined, more people see "dog eats dog", fishing for women to rectify scumbags. It's none of my business, and there's not much ethical pressure. It's like eavesdropping on the bus and listening to the aunt next door chewing on the root of someone's tongue with her sister with a super large decibel, which is an immoral but instinctive Chinese pleasure, and it is not surprising that it has become popular on the Internet. For this person, opposition, resistance, and criticism are simply not too simple, and if you bring out the theory of "downward freedom is not freedom", you can criticize them in minutes. But compared to the simplest idea, I want to change the direction, ** the underlying logic of the big woman and her audience, and I should also see the B side of the world. Ququ, formerly known as Music Chuanqu, a high-achieving student of Wuhan University, was originally the UP master of the ** district, but his singing was out of tune, and the content was lackluster, and he later turned to an emotional anchor, and he was also considered to have stepped on the emotional outlet of the times, and soon became an emotional blogger upstart with strong monetization ability. (Ququ's monetization path includes: hundreds of live broadcasts with microphones - thousands of teaching courses - tens of thousands of 1v1 guidance - 100,000 into the girlfriend circle, etc.) Some time ago, the "20 million big melons in the financial circle" that came out of her live broadcast room pushed her to the forefront, and she was about to become a public enemy of male bloggers in a certain sound. 
The ** was also known by the big V Lu Kewen**.
It stands to reason that Ququ should have been a carnival for a small group of people. Most of her customers are 25-40 years old, professional women with good economic conditions in first- and second-tier cities, and there is no shortage of Bai Fumei, who has millions of assets. But it can radiate a lot of Xi and curiosity, especially the audience who is lively and having fun. Among them, there are many fans of Ququ, and Ququ's theory can really capture more people's emotional points. To be honest, Piao is not as eager to get rid of her as some male bloggers, after all, even if people don't like it, it's hard to subjectively dislike a person who thinks about your interests. How to solve it? You look at a slogan of a big woman in Ququ-Men are the channel, emotions are the skills. The "man" here can be a platform, a resource, a boss, or a customer, but it is not the person you entrust in illusory love. Since the ultimate goal is to make money and make a career in the relationship, all emotions and emotions that can coax a man to dig rice can be used for you. I'll admit it sounds and incorrect, but it really makes people laugh! For example, what should I do when Ququ demonstrates that my father buys you a mobile phone and wants to buy you a Huawei but doesn't buy you an apple? Spoil first.
Give a reason why you want to buy an apple: The apple looks good in photos "I'm happy after I use the apple, our little sisters are using this, you can buy it for me".
If you don't agree after spoiling, you can't buy apples by yourself at this time, which will intensify the conflict. Since the purpose is to spend other people's money to do your own business, you must go along with it, and when the other party is tough, don't resist, be obedient. In fact, what the other party cares about is not whether to buy Huawei or Apple, but whether you are obedient at key points. 
It's not that you can't be strong, in the small mood that both parties are very happy and relaxed, your strength and domineering are a kind of fun. For example, when the two of them are lying in bed, he is playing with his mobile phone, you can't tell if he is playing, and then he uses his body parts to block his eyes. Ququ teaches a sense of proportion that you need to have in order to mobilize the other party's emotions and play with you. can not be obedient, because what people want is your youthful and lively energy, and as a result, you will endure more than his nanny, just like chewing gum that tasteless, making the other party lose interest; You can't be rude and make the other party annoying. 
I probably understand, isn't this teaching everyone the art of tea? Ququ and the bloggers who promote "good marriage style" both advocate female competition, the difference is that the latter teaches women to do housework robots + erotic plastic dolls, and Ququ teaches everyone to do itThe "lover" of tea in tea. It sounds like a zigzag self-interest, the physical pay + emotional value is clearly marked, and the man is the boss to please in exchange for benefits, even if he is broken up, he will get enough money. Ququ aims at women's fears, and then gives a definitive self-protection planSince women are generally easy to lose themselves in love and be deceived and cheated, then give a solution that does not suffer any loss, and if you are lucky, you may even achieve a jump. It seems that as long as you take off the love brain, don't take men seriously, and treat relationships rationally and self-interestedly, you won't be hurt or lose anything. In this set of songs, one is called Don't be prostituted for nothing, stay away from sloppy men (low-value consumption type), and the other says that women should improve themselves and climb upward. In her live broadcast room, she simply treats the love brain as a dirty thing.
Lian Mai cried and cried for the man who was sloppy, and his facial features were twisted into a ball in annoyance.
And advise everyone that the only measure of whether a relationship is unnecessary to survive is - am I achieving a better version of myself in this relationship?
But if you think about it carefully, Ququ's so-called happiness, satisfaction, happiness, and self-consistency are almost equivalent to getting the desired benefits. According to this logic, overtime dogs who get high salaries in large factories should be happy and self-consistent, as long as you get money, you will achieve a better self, even if you are terminally ill, your body is not as good as day by day. 
Ever felt like this was an illusion about success? It tells you a shortcut to success where you pay off. You don't have to fight against anything, just give some emotional value, and you will gain something. As long as you take off your love brain and take the initiative to seek profit in the relationship, you are a big woman who has the initiative. It is equivalent to adding the crown of the big heroine (smart, high emotional intelligence, and high rank) to "get something for nothing". There are many signboards with ** power. Even if you don't learn, how can you not like to listen to this kind of cool narrative that massages your spirit. And Ququ is very good at alleviating the audience's guilt, when she taught a female customer who directly threw the link to her boyfriend to make her pay, she first demonstrated how to show her feminine charm and make this "small request" to her boyfriend when he was confused. And massage the client's self-esteem - don't be afraid to lower your personality, what is impersonal in the world of the two. 
And then give you a massage from a rational point of view - a man is nothing more than this, not spent on you, but also on singing K on his feet outside, so it is better for you to make a little effort to leave all his consumption impulses at home. What a great reason why not. I don't know how the customer listens, but the audience is as fresh and fun as listening to some secret gossip. 
If we judge her with pure morality, we don't need to discuss it, and the remarks of "knowing three things when three" and "sugar daddy" that appeared in her live broadcast room can be directly characterized by "value distortion", what else to discuss? We talk about her in terms of demoralization, we thinkFacing the truth of injusticeIt is better than idealizing harsh realities or demonizing objective statements. One of the truths is that many people have mixed feelings about her. does not necessarily agree with her values, but has to admit that Ququ's pure interest analysis of the two sexes that are divorced from moral concepts and value judgments has no intention of tearing off the good-looking but also binding "pearl sweatshirt" that society puts on women. Why? If marriage and love are seen as a game, women have no chance of winning in the first place. They are confined to romantic love, waiting for someone who loves them all their lives, expecting that person's love will give them an identity as a woman, a person, and learn early on to reflect, blame, belittle themselves, and show a sense of eternal disappointment. On the contrary, men have been trained from an early age to be the master of the rules, the ruler of the world, who like to take and control, and who value love and women's ideas is shameful. In contrast, how can a lamb that is unarmed and Xi to killing himself deal with a hunter who has mastered ** and is still at ease? In this unbalanced state, some of Ququ's sharp rhetoric is to some extent overturning the ecstasy soup instilled in women. For example, what she especially hates is that iron is not steel - don't meet a man and think that it is your heaven and your spiritual pillar, and you can't leave it when you are stuck in the mud, but if you go out and try other possibilities, you will find that the one in front of you is a rotten pickle.
Like what? "You thought it was cute to have a big belly, but when you touched that pectoral ab, you suddenly felt that your belly was very greasy. ”
Some of the sayings of Ququ do not have to be used in practice, as a kind of reference, in fact, it is OK. For example, discharge more, socialize more, release the possibility to the men around you (other sexuals are fine), let go of your damn reserved self-esteem, and chase what you like, rather than passively waiting for someone who is not as good as you to catch up with you. There is no need to fantasize about the frog as a prince, the frog is the frog, it is not a disadvantage to burst the dream bubble to see the cruelty of the world and train ** self-defense. We are not lacking in love, but there is basically no such realistic education, and it is necessary to have extreme theories.
But when we understand the rules, it doesn't mean that we have to be black, but that we know black and keep white, and do our best. Sharp-edged kindness is not a bad thing, on the contrary, the blind pursuit of goodness and ethics is a kind of weakness. As for how to evaluate the set of Ququ teaching girls to climb upward with the help of men? reminds me of the "Hypocalypse" in "Apocalypse", a conversation between Tang Ying and Mr. Ma about "burning the warehouse". Mr. Ma felt that those young and beautiful girls who pretended to be smiling and waiting for men to pay for them were useless barns, gadgets they used to fill their emptiness and loneliness.
Tang Ying saw through Ma's trick of burning the barn, but he only dared to scold him in fantasy: On the one hand, people like you feel that people are useless, and on the other hand, they like to take them to see a better world, and when they are completely adapted, they kick them away, and watch them collapse in despair, because different girls, different collapses, this is a different landscape.
Of course, Ma Wanliu doesn't care about giving the girl that little bit.
Ten or millions of pocket flowers, of course, will also cooperate to applaud the girl Michelle's "celebrity speech", although she used to be a waitress until she met a certain boss. It seems that the girl coaxes the boss to feel comfortable, but the actual boss is also enjoying the fun of teasing the sparrows.
In the situation where the road is one foot high and the magic is one foot high, this is a shortcut for ordinary girls. Not to mention that there are praying mantis catching cicadas and yellow finches behind. Tang Ying's cousin Lin Xinzi is the beautiful girl who expects to achieve a class jump by choosing a mate upward, and with such a motive, Xu Jiabai who calculated her appeared. The possessive Xu Jiabai bought a house near Lin Xinzi's company, and used love to restrict Lin Xinzi's freedom and encircle her under his control. So I like Tang Ying very much that after seeing Michelle and the like, he still understands it: being a vassal.
It's much harder than working hard, and the former is more labor-intensive.
It's not just youth, mental strength.
It is more important to sell one's soul and the dignity of independence from the world, which is not a price that anyone can bear.
Indeed, there are very few who are lucky enough to succeed in learning the female competition route of Ququ, after all, not everyone can become Wendi Deng. It is easier to spend youth and hard work, go against the heart, and cultivate those so-called high-level and high-wrist skills. So I don't intend to make a value judgment on the Ququ set, this world is far more colorful than I imagined. The mere existence of some big dads is much more harmful than the sum of ten big women. Cut the complexity and simplify, thoughAfter seeing the truth and the falsehood, embrace your true self.