There is a transformation, which is formed invisibly. It has no traces of sudden arrival, no sharp turning point, just quietly, silently changing.
We often say that "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change". But in fact, human nature is not absolutely unchanging. It is like a piece of cloth, soft and malleable. Every fiber on the cloth carries experiences and feelings.
When one or more emotions accumulate to a certain extent, the fibers begin to bend until visible marks are formed. This is the change of heart.
We often think that changes in people are instantaneous decisions, influenced by external circumstances, and caused by the pressures of life.
But dig deeper, and you'll find that behind every change, there are countless times of patience, compromise, and disappointment. It's not a drastic change, it's an accumulation of sadness and disappointment.
Imagine a heart that was originally vibrant, but gradually lost its original color in the grinding day after day.
Every injury, every neglect, every misunderstanding is like a sharp knife, silently engraved in the heart.
At first it was just a shallow scratch, but as time went on, the scratches got deeper and deeper, until one day, you find that you are no longer your original self.
This transformation may have been quiet, but it was not accidental. It is a response to life, a perception of the world.
It's not that we've changed, it's that the world has changed;It's not that we have lost our original selves, but that we have found a new self in the long river of time.
So, when people change, don't blame or judge easily. Because behind this change, there is too much sadness and disappointment hidden. And every change is a deeper understanding and comprehension of life.