Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge Sigmund Freud once said, "People often fall in love with people who are similar to them, or who they used to be, or who they want to be." This sentence speaks to an important reason why people are attracted to each other: similarity. In life, we often find that those who share similar personalities, interests, and values to us are more likely to become our friends, partners, or partners. Why is that?
Similar people are more likely to understand and identify with each other. When we meet someone who has similar experiences, feelings, and thoughts to ourselves, we feel a sense of intimacy and empathy. Because we know that the other person can understand our inner world and be able to share the joy and pain with us. This understanding and recognition will make us feel accepted and supported, which in turn will enhance our self-confidence and sense of belonging.
Similar people are more likely to trust and rely on each other. When we are with someone who shares similar values and codes of conduct to ourselves, we feel a sense of peace of mind and peace of mind. Because we know that the other person's actions and decisions are based on the same standards and principles as us, we can trust the other person's judgment and decision-making ability more. This trust and dependence will make us feel more stable and secure, which in turn will promote a more stable and lasting relationship.
Similar people are more likely to motivate and grow each other. When we surround ourselves with someone who shares similar goals and pursuits to ourselves, we feel a sense of motivation and motivation. Because we know that the other party is also constantly working hard to achieve their goals, we can learn from each other and Xi, and grow and progress together. This kind of motivation and growth will make us feel more meaningful and valuable in our lives.
As the English poet John Donne said, "No man is an island." "Each of us needs to connect with others and share the moments of our lives with others. And those who are similar to us are more likely to become important people in our lives, who can accompany us through the ups and downs of life and create wonderful memories and futures together.
Of course, we can't just get along with similar people and neglect to communicate and interact with different people. Because different people can bring us new perspectives and ways of thinking, making us more open and diverse. As the American writer Emerson said, "Walk with the wise, and you will gain wisdom;Associate yourself with fools, and you will be foolish. "We need to learn to choose and grasp the opportunities to spend time with different people, and to learn from them and grow from them.
In conclusion, people who are similar are more likely to attract each other, which is a natural law of connection between people. However, we also need to keep an open mind and communicate and interact with different people to get more inspiration and growth. Only in this way can we build richer and more meaningful relationships and make our lives more fulfilling and exciting.
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