Being hurt once by the opposite sex may induce hatred and hatred towards the opposite sex. Take a look at the cursing against "scumbags" and "evil girls" on the Internet, and you will understand the strong vitality that Lenovo has.
Mr. Freud had long asserted that the brain could associate, touch the situation, and uncontrollably associate with the painful experience of the past, even though it has been internalized into valuable intellectual experience.
Like the cat of American writer Mark Twain. His cat had been sitting on a hot stove and had been burned to the point of flying. Since then, this stove has become a forbidden area for this cat, and it will not step on it if it is killed.
In addition to humans, many animals also have a sense of association. Without the association of dogs, Pavlov's theory of conditioned reflexes would not be available.
Some people mistook red mushrooms for edible red mushrooms and almost died. After that, knowing that eating red mushrooms is not poisonous, the associations of those who eat them by mistake will still be powerful, driving them to avoid eating all red mushroom plants.
On a summer night, I took a walk by the river with my colleagues. On the calm surface of the river, a leaf of fishing boat ploughed the river surface "suddenly", twisting out two locks of black and bright "human" water lines.
The street lamps on both sides of the bank are projected on the water lines, flickering with scales, as if countless fish are flipping. I pointed to the sparkling waves and said to my colleague: Look at it, will it look like a fish jumping?
Unexpectedly, my colleague took a look at it and squatted down and exaggerated to vomit.
Later he told me. When he was about six years old, he walked by the river in the evening and saw the water rushing through the shallow riverbed, stirring up a splash of water, reflected by the moonlight and the street lamp, like the scales of a large fish sparkling over the pebbles.
Young and ignorant, he did a stupid thing: he went straight into the river to catch those "big fish" within reach, only to be swept away by the rapids. Fortunately, passers-by found it in time, and he picked up a small life.
From then on, whenever he saw it, his stomach would cramp.
Reason told him that what happened when he was a child was just an accident, and it was impossible to repeat it, and this kind of psychology was unnecessary. But as long as there is a situation that he does not forget, he will have this emotional connection, which cannot help but trigger a strong physiological response.
The swallow exhorted the nightingale to live under one roof, just like her. The nightingale replied: I don't want to remember the pain I have suffered, so I have always lived in the wilderness.
"The Nightingale and the Swallow" in Aesop's Fables tells people that those who have suffered will deliberately avoid the place where the pain has occurred in the past.
The brain's associations are so powerful that sometimes the mutated experiences it triggers can make people paranoid or even unbelievable.
The scalded cat inspired Mark Twain, who left meaningful words: "A scalded cat will never sit on a hot stove again, and rightly so;But it'll never sit on the stove again. ”
Einstein's cat was lucky, she must not have been frightened by her owner's thigh. Otherwise, it would not have seen that the master was immersed in the mystery of the universe, and immediately jumped on the lap of the master and quietly accompanied him to think.