This is the first time I have participated in such a novel parent-teacher conference, and from entering the school gate to entering the classroom, student volunteers are just right at every corner. The meeting has also become a salon, and what I thought was to listen to the report has become a sharing exchange, and it is worth it for me to travel a thousand kilometers to attend this parent-teacher conference. From the sharing of parents also saw the shadow of their own education children, educating children is a lasting process, from birth to adulthood, we dare not stop, and the middle school stage, is the stage of children's body, academics, behavior Xi and other qualitative stereotypes, we never dare to be careless. After the meeting, I also had a brief exchange with the teachers of each subject, and the teachers still grasped the details of the children quite well. In the next six years, I will fully cooperate with the teachers and strive to be a good father, so that the child can improve a little bit every day and grow into a useful talent for the society. - Li Yichen's father.
This is the feeling of Yichen's father after the parents' meeting of the primary and junior high school of Qingbei School last weekend, he came to Bachuan to hold a parent-teacher meeting for his children, which left a deep impression on the teachers. There are not a few parents like him who rushed back from other places, and in order to make it worthwhile and rewarding for parents, the school has also thought of a lot of ways before.
How to have a parent-teacher conference?How to have an effective parent-teacher conference?
According to the characteristics of the school, students and parents, it was finally decided not to use the traditional way to let parents be "meeting", and everyone agreed to plan a parent-teacher meeting that could reflect the educational philosophy of Qingbei School.
As a teacher of Qingbei School, we all know that we should not "cramm" indoctrination in teaching, but should give full play to students' initiative, so that they can experience the fun of exploring, asking, answering and harvesting in the learning Xi. Why don't we use this concept when holding meetings with parents, but stick to the old practice and refuse to change it?Schools allow students to enjoy the fruits of education reform, but also let parents feel the truth-seeking and pragmatic work of home and school, so that parents can really be touched by the school and can take action in their own family education.
So everyone decided to use the way of the parent salon to let the parents express their opinions through the series of hosts. The parents of Qingbei School are very attentive in educating their children, and the excellence of their children proves that their methods are correct and effective. Therefore, the school department issued an invitation, and finally determined a total of 9 parents of each grade to have on-site exchanges and talk about their experiences and experiences in educating children.
From the feedback from parents, we can feel everyone's recognition of the parent-teacher conference. Below we have excerpted the content of the exchanges between several parents to share with you, from which we have found good practices for cultivating excellent children.
Children are always children, they need praise and encouragement, and they need to be recognized by their parents. In this way, I guided him to start reading slowly, using the child's curiosity and parents' encouragement, so that he gradually liked to read. We should treat our children as good friends, understand more, praise more, and blame less. I usually pay a lot of attention to the communication and communication between my child, whenever I communicate with him, the two of us chat like good friends, very relaxed and very happy. - Parents of Grade 8 Class 2
The essence of self-discipline is self-driven, and to motivate children to be self-driven, it is necessary to build a good sense of self-control and autonomy. 1.The principle of equal rights: prior consultation, participation in decision-making, and sharing of consequences. 2.The principle of choice: children can choose how to do their own things, when to do them, and in what order of priorities. For example, homework and play can be done by the child. 3.The principle of bottom-line thinking: children must be responsible for their own decisions, and their own requirements must be completed. Through three principles, a sense of self-control can be formed: it is to give the child the opportunity, to make the child feel that his own things are always under his own control, and the things completed under this sense of self-control are very fulfilling, and can greatly enhance the child's self-confidence, form a strong self-driving force, and slowly transform into a Xi, a self-discipline from within. - Parent of Grade 9 Class 2
The love that parents give to their children is not only material, but also includes spiritual warmth, care, tolerance, comfort, encouragement, trust, support, etc. Being too strict with children is easy to make children rebel, and blindly appreciating education can easily weaken children's frustration. And this degree needs to be skillfully grasped. Develop a Xi of communicating with your child. Parents should open their hearts to their children, and we should show respect and trust to our children. - Parents of Grade 7 Class 1
When a child makes a mistake, let him distinguish right from wrong with a tolerant attitude. Don't belittle children, don't compare children with other children, children are our only ones, children are the best in the hearts of parents, so that children are optimistic and confident. The child's three views should be correctly guided, so that he can experience what he is doing now and what he will do in the future. Let him set a goal in life, and he will know that only knowledge can make him strong, and the motivation to learn Xi will arise spontaneously!- Parent of Grade 9 Class 3
When a child truly feels the love of his parents for him, he will be obedient and not make his parents angry. Parents' love for their children is not material satisfaction, but spiritual support and encouragement. When children encounter difficulties and setbacks, parents should give them enough care and help, and can express their love for their children through hugging, listening, communication, encouragement, etc., so that children can feel understood and supported, and let them feel the warmth and strength of the family. When you get home from work, no matter how tired you are, parents need to accompany their children to read, exercise and play together, so that the home is overflowing with family affection and joy, so that the home becomes a shelter for the child's soul and a club for the child's mental relaxation. The quality of the companionship is more important than the frequency of the companionship. Parents should devote themselves to their children, pay attention to their children's needs and feelings, communicate more, communicate more, become friends with their children, and take time to listen to their children's voices from time to time. When a child has a point, we should respect her and support her, so that we can open the door of the child's heart and be willing to share with us what happened at school. Love and companionship are more effective than any other form of education in a child's only development. - Parent of Grade 7 Class 2
Set goals, emphasize the process, pay attention to results, downplay scores, transform into semi-open-ended parents, and always maintain a good state of Xi. "While setting appropriate standards, there is no need to be too detailed in the details of the learning and Xi process, and it is not necessary to be too detailed, as a parent, it is more important to always pay attention to the child's emotions and Xi state, and give timely communication, response and guidance to the problems that arise. In the process of learning Xi in the three years of junior high school, you have to go through many exams, as well as the final high school entrance examination, as a parent, you should set reasonable goals, pay careful and sensitive attention to your child's Xi state and psychological changes in the process, and respond and solve them in a timely manner. In the face of staged exams, we should attach great importance to the results with our children, analyze and solve problems rationally, dilute the scores, and always maintain a good state. - Parent of Grade 7 Class 3
Learning Xi is the child's own business, not for the parents, let alone for the teacher. Let your child know the importance of "I want to learn", not "I want to learn". As a parent, you can't just put the score first. I often say to my children, my mother hopes that you are a healthy and healthy, honest and kind child, optimistic child, and encourage your children to participate in more group activities to enhance the sense of honor of the group. ——Parents of Qingbei School
Give your child the firmest support, trust and respect, no matter what happens, let your child do and make decisions on her own, believing that she has the ability to make choices and decisions. She has received enough respect and instant gratification, will be more courageous to accept challenges, will also take responsibility for her own choices, in the process of facing challenges and taking responsibility, she has accumulated experience, increased knowledge, felt the growth of her own strength, and then increased self-confidence, learned self-discipline, and gained the motivation to continue to move forward. Reduce the requirements for your child, lower your expectations for your child, and learn to accept your child's shortcomings ......Slowly, I found that my mind became more and more peaceful, and my children became more and more "obedient". Xi is the best way to relieve confusion and anxiety. Family education is actually a process of parents and children growing up together and achieving each other. - Parents of Grade 9 Class 1
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Qingbei School is a newly established school in this academic year, with the mission of "cultivating top-notch talents and cultivating social pillars", the implementation of integrated teaching, including basic courses, strong foundation courses, competition courses, art courses, life courses, and psychology courses, is an important measure for the cultivation of top-notch innovative talents in Bachuan Middle School.