Yu Rong's husband Zhihao is the eldest of the three brothers. A few years ago, there was a conflict between the three brothers due to the separation of the family. Although they maintain a harmonious appearance on the surface, in fact there is a secret knot in their hearts, and they have little contact with each other. My father died soon after the family separated, leaving my mother alone in a tiled house. In the face of family changes, although the three brothers are getting by, the tacit understanding and relationship between them have become estranged.
Yu Rong is an honest and kind sister-in-law, frank in words and deeds, and does not like to hide it. On the contrary to her, the second daughter-in-law, Qiaoying, is good at calculation, sour and mean, and loves to provoke trouble. Her words are vicious, and she often tells right and wrong behind her back. The third daughter-in-law, Yuhong, is a person who has no opinions, like grass on the wall, swaying with the direction of the wind. She became Qiaoying's little follower, and when Qiaoying used her, her eloquence was as sweet as honey, and she was coaxed into being only Qiaoying's first and only obeyed the arrangement of her second sister-in-law.
Qiaoying looks down on her mother-in-law the most, the old man is honest and obedient, and he will only be bad at doing things. My mother-in-law gave birth to three sons and a daughter in her lifetime. In that era of material scarcity, one can imagine the toil she had when she raised so many children. Because her in-laws were incapable, Qiaoying looked down on the two old men, and often shouted at her mother-in-law, with contempt and humiliation in her words. The mother-in-law is used to swallowing her anger, and she is afraid of Qiaoying, so she rarely goes to her house.
The three sons were not far from their homes, and they all built buildings. The eldest son's son has a good job, and after graduating from college, he found a good job and built them a spacious house in the first two years. The second child is a small contractor in the countryside, although he has never contracted a large project, but his family is wealthy. Only the youngest son is a laborer, and the living conditions are not very good, but he also worked hard to build a new house. Overall, the three sons are doing well, and she is not too worried. The daughter is married to a demobilized soldier, and both of them work in the county seat.
Originally, the old man lived in the old house with his younger son, but later the younger son wanted to build a new house, so he demolished the old house and built a new house on the original foundation. After the new house was built, the old man moved to his younger son's house for a while. However, later the little daughter-in-law said some harsh words, and the old couple couldn't stand it, so they built a small tiled house on the ground at the edge of the village in a fit of anger. The old couple grew some vegetables and sold them for some money to make ends meet.
The eldest daughter-in-law, Yu Rong, is a kind-hearted person, and every festival or when there is something delicious, she will send some to the second old man or invite them to eat at home. Since the death of her father-in-law, her mother-in-law has lived alone in a small tiled house, which makes her look a little pitiful. Yu Rong saw it in her eyes and felt unbearable in her heart, especially since they lived in a three-story small western-style building, and their son worked in the provincial capital, and the number of times he came back in a year was very limited. The daughter is also married, and the family's spacious house seems empty, with many rooms empty. Whenever she saw her mother-in-law returning from her house to the small tiled house in a lonely and trembling manner, Yu Rong felt pity and felt that her conscience could not be at peace.
The old man has raised so many children in his life, but he has no good place to go in his old age. Faced with white eyes and cold words, Yu Rong felt heartache and sadness for the old man. After discussing with her husband Zhihao, she decided to take her mother-in-law to live in her home. Considering the age of her mother-in-law, she lived alone in a small tiled house, and no one took care of her at night, and no one knew what was going on. Zhihao is also a filial son, and since his daughter-in-law agreed, he is also willing to take his mother over for filial piety. The mother-in-law was so overjoyed that she was so excited that she was about to cry when she moved to the new house.
The news reached Qiaoying's ears. The people in the village praised the sister-in-law for her filial piety, and Qiaoying's heart swelled with jealousy. She talked a lot in the village, saying: "My sister-in-law wants to take my mother-in-law to her house to be an old mother, and my mother-in-law is in good health!"I can feed her chickens and ducks, brush pots, wash dishes, cook, sweep the floor and wash clothes, and the old lady can sit in the card field and play cards!”
Sometimes the eldest sister went back to her parents' house to visit her mother and brought some nourishing health products. Qiaoying's mouth was almost behind her ears, "Those things you take won't make your mother-in-law greedy, and the sister-in-law will take all the benefits!."”
In the past, as soon as the eldest sister left, Qiaoying would run to her mother-in-law's house and take away some gifts. Now that her mother-in-law has moved to her sister-in-law's house, she can't get this cheapness, so she begins to slander her sister-in-law behind her back.
The mother-in-law has lived in the eldest son's house for seven years, and Yu Rong has never been angry with her mother-in-law. When her mother-in-law was sick and had a fever, she accompanied her to the doctor, and she paid for the medical expenses. The little money wasn't worth mentioning to her, and she didn't care. But in Qiaoying's mouth, the taste changed: "Alas!."My mother-in-law has money in her hands, and she and my father-in-law grew vegetables more than ten years ago, and we have money to sell vegetables in hand!The medical expenses are all paid by the mother-in-law, will the sister-in-law give it up?”
A discerning person can tell at a glance that she is lying. When my father-in-law was sick and hospitalized, all his savings were spent, and an old lady was not a fairy without eating or drinking. Qiaoying was reluctant to support her mother-in-law, and she was afraid that others would praise her sister-in-law's filial piety too much, so she would splash dirty water on her sister-in-law at every opportunity. Yu Rong understands all this, but she just doesn't want to get entangled with Qiaoying, and this battle of words will only make people feel funny.
My mother-in-law is over seventy years old and is very old, so it is inevitable that she will be riddled with serious illnesses. One night, my mother-in-law tossed and turned in bed and couldn't sleep. After Yu Rong heard the movement, she quickly walked to her mother-in-law's room. The mother-in-law told her that she felt unwell and was dizzy. Yu Rong was shocked because she knew that her mother-in-law had always had high blood pressure problems, and she usually had blood pressure medication at home. This time the situation was obviously more serious, and the mother-in-law usually suffered alone when she was sick, worried about causing trouble to her children, but this time she obviously endured it for a long time. She hurriedly woke up her husband and urgently called a hospital ambulance to take her mother-in-law to the hospital.
The hospital's diagnosis showed that he had a sudden cerebral thrombosis, which left him partially paralyzed and required the use of a wheelchair in the future. Basically incapacitated and in need of someone to take care of his life.
After the incident, the eldest sister and three brothers rushed to the hospital. Looking at her mother who needed oxygen on the hospital bed, the eldest sister couldn't help but shed tears. The mother-in-law has been in the hospital for more than ten days, and Yu Rong and her eldest sister have been taking care of her, and Zhihao is responsible for buying meals and calling doctors to pick up medicines. And after Qiaoying and Yuhong came to the hospital to visit twice, they never showed up again.
After the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, the eldest sister also returned to her parents' house. She gathered her three brothers and three sisters-in-law to prepare for a family meeting. The eldest sister is usually decisive and wise, and her words are authoritative, and as the eldest sister, her words have a high prestige among the three brothers.
The eldest sister said: "This time, my mother spent nearly 20,000 yuan on hospitalization, and our three brothers shared the medical expenses equally, and each family shared 6,000 yuan, do you have any opinions?"”
The three brothers were about to nod in agreement, when Qiao Ying glanced at Yuhong, hoping that she could take the lead. However, when Yuhong saw the sharp gaze of her eldest sister, she shrank her neck in fright, and swallowed back what she wanted to say.
Qiaoying had no choice but to say to herself: "That ......."Sister!Doesn't Mom still have the money to sell vegetables?You can use that money to offset your medical expenses!Remain in her hands, and once she is gone, we don't know who will fall into her hands. This deduction is made, and we will bear it together if there is something in the future!”
Hearing her brother-in-law's words, the eldest sister suddenly became angry, "Are you really stupid or pretending to be stupid, where did your mother get the money?"At the beginning, they grew cheap vegetables, and how much money they could make was good enough to barely make ends meet. After my dad left, my mother's pocket money was all three hundred or two hundred from me, and you were embarrassed to mention it!”
Qiaoying wanted to say something more, but was stopped by her husband with a loud shout, "Shut up your stinky mouth for me!."All day long, you have the most things to do, you have the ability, don't make a fool of yourself here!”
When Yu Rong heard Qiaoying's words, she was so angry that she almost shed tears. She has been taking care of her mother-in-law for so many years, but her two brothers and daughters-in-law have never said a good word, and they are still sowing discord behind her back and slandering her. Good intentions can't be rewarded, but they can't get anything in return, and the second family still thinks that she has taken advantage of her mother-in-law.
This time, she wasn't going to endure it anymore. She said indifferently: "Qiaoying, Yuhong, my mother-in-law will be unable to move in the future, and the three of us will take turns to take care of it." Since taking care of your mother-in-law will make you feel advantageous, I will share this benefit with you. Don't always talk about my affairs outside all day long, the eldest sister is here today, let the eldest sister say a fair word and be the master, and the three of us will take turns to take care of my mother-in-law fairly. This time, Qiao Ying really panicked. My mother-in-law is about to become a cripple who needs to be taken care of full-time, paralyzed in bed, and she really can't bear the trivial tasks of taking care of life. She really can't do the work of scrubbing and urinating. At this time, the sister-in-law wanted to shirk her responsibility, and she immediately felt anxious. "Why!You are the sister-in-law, you take care of it!Yuhong was also so anxious that she shook her head again and again, "No!."Nope!My mother-in-law can't send it to me, I really can't take care of it, so let my sister-in-law come!”
Yu Rong sneered and said, "Why does my mother-in-law want me to take care of it alone, why aren't the second and third mother-in-law born and raised?"In order to prevent old age, the three families are responsible, and no one can escape. Don't be clever, reason is here, see who dares to say that you don't serve!”
When the eldest sister heard the ridiculous remarks of the two brothers-in-law, she was furious: "What did you two say?".Your sister-in-law is kind enough, she has taken care of her mother alone for so many years without complaints, and you are not grateful to Dade for saying bad things about her behind your back. You also have sons, and you will marry daughters-in-law in the future. If this virtue is passed on, what family will be willing to marry their daughter into your family?Compare your heart to your heart, your sister-in-law is your role model. Don't be unreasonable, the eaves are dripping with water as usual, and when you are old, your children will treat you like this, won't you feel cold?”
Both Qiaoying and Yuhong were ashamed, and lowered their heads and didn't dare to say anything more. In the end, the three brothers agreed on the result: the mother-in-law was still taken care of by Yu Rong, and the medical expenses were shared equally by the three families. The sister-in-law is responsible for taking care of her mother-in-law, and each family pays 1,000 yuan for hard work.
Originally, I planned to take turns to take care of her, but when I heard that I was going to live with the other two brothers-in-law, my mother-in-law became heavy and even cried. She knew exactly how her family would be treated. Yu Rong was distressed when she saw her mother-in-law's tears. The eldest sister looked at her mother like this, she felt helpless, and she felt even more sorry for her mother, but she couldn't say anything about letting her eldest brother and daughter-in-law take care of her. Isn't this a disadvantage to Yu Rong?
In the end, after thinking about it again, Yu Rong still made up her mind to let her mother-in-law stay at her house and be taken care of by her. Although the hardship expenses of the two families are relatively small, her considerations are not these, she just wants her two brothers and daughters-in-law to understand that it is not easy to take care of the elderly, and not to spread rumors outside.
The eldest sister was moved to tears and insisted on giving Yu Rong 2,000 yuan a month for her hard work, but Yu Rong kept refusing. The eldest sister said with emotion: "Yu Rong, you are the benefactor of our family, and my mother has cultivated virtue in her previous life, so that she can meet a good daughter-in-law like you in this life." I thank you on behalf of my mother!If you don't accept this money, I really can't get over my own account!”
Yu Rong was deeply embarrassed, she knew that she should pay attention to morality and conscience, especially when her parents were old, how difficult the situation she faced. She also advises young people all over the world to know how to be grateful to their parents and give them a happy old age, which is the real virtue. 100 help plan