A family with superior feng shui often has three immobility, and the more immovable, the more blessi

The poet Heine once said:

I'd rather organize a happy family with a small cup of truth, goodness and beauty than a boring family with a few boats of furniture.

And if you want to have a warm and beautiful family with a heart, you must pay special attention to the feng shui of the family;

Generally speaking, a family with superior feng shui tends to have three immovables, and the more immovable, the more blessings there are.

Psychology guru Hellinger said:

"Happy families all have one thing in common: there is no person in the family who is very controlling.

True love is not to be strict with one's family according to one's own standards, nor is it to let one's family wronged oneself and fill one's own desires;

It's about giving everyone the freedom to be themselves;

A controlling family is a disaster for everyone;

It's like living in a pressure cooker for a long time, but if there is a family member, the nerves are tense and feel depressed and suffocated, then sooner or later, the family will make a lot of trouble, the sky will fall apart, and everyone will be implicated;

Because the growth and maturity of human beings need to conform to the laws of nature;

In reality, the daily life of many families is that parents complain that their children are not independent and have no opinions;

But I never want to think about whether I give my child the opportunity to think and grow independently, and whether I interrupt my child's opportunity to explore the world every time.

Between husband and wife, when they encounter things, they blame each other, but they don't take the initiative to reflect, do you give each other breathing space?

Do you often deprive the other party of the right to speak, exclude and control the other person, and seek happiness and freedom from the outside world?

When you try to give your children and partners a certain amount of freedom, you will find that everything around you is becoming better and more peaceful.

Home should be a place for people to be warm and happy, not a place for family members to attack and hurt;

In life, family members who could have communicated well often complained to each other, chattered and quarrelled, and blamed each other

As everyone knows, the more you don't know how to speak well, the more it will intensify the contradictions between family members and cause greater rifts;

Once the emotions prevail in the dispute, the person will lose his mind and do irreparable things;

There are many real-life examples that tell us that using force to solve problems is the least worthwhile and the least acceptable to the family.

Whoever is hurt will bring pain to the family and even become a lingering shadow on their psyche;

In this world, except for life and death, it is a trivial matter;

Family conflicts and disputes are often trivial matters, and they are not worth being angry about, nor do they need to treat each other-for-tat;

In case of trouble, you can express your feelings first, strive for the understanding of the other party, don't rush to refute and blame, try to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, everything can be solved;

On the long road of life, everyone will face a lot of **, and the family will also encounter some changes and crises;

For the sake of money, for the sake of love, in short, in the various contests of family affection, morality and human nature, it is difficult for a person to make a completely correct choice;

However, even in a small unit such as a family, it is necessary to pay attention to principles;

A person who repeatedly cheats and betrays his partner does not deserve to be forgiven by his other half again and again;

A person who pulls his family into the water, disregards family affection, and defrauds his family of money and trust, does not need to show much sympathy for him;

If you cover up the mistakes made by your family every time and accommodate his unprincipled and bottomless line, then the whole family style will develop in a bad direction and eventually change beyond recognition;

A good life must have principles as a protective umbrella;

Knowing how to make trade-offs and not confusing right and wrong, a family can develop in a positive direction.

If there is no backbone in the face of major rights and wrongs, and listening to the wind is rain, then the family will also be restless.

All happy families are not created out of thin air, what is needed is to manage them carefully, do not touch these three things in the family, and blessings will roll in.

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