My cousin is a seventy-year-old woman who lives a peaceful and happy life with her mistress. Her characteristics make her unique among the opposite sex, and she never divulges the relationship between men and women as a topic of gossip. She never quarrels with people, speaks softly, behaves generously and decently, and always has a foxy style. However, her appearance did not give her extra points, her appearance was mediocre, "goldfish exposed head and eyes", "rectangular brick knife face", short stature, stout, like a lollipop everywhere. When she was younger, she was nicknamed "Millstone", and now she is called "Capsule".
Her physical appearance contrasts with her inner charm. The people who joke with her and flirt with her are often skillfully defeated by her, leaving them embarrassed and difficult to refute. When my cousin married my cousin, they were both young people. Since the cousins-in-law's family were landlords, they had to marry their brothers and sisters, who were also rich peasants, by means of "family exchange". At that time, my cousin-in-law was nineteen years old, and my cousin was over thirty years old. theirsMarriageLife was stable and stable, and soon after, they had three daughters, and their small life was plain and happy. Ten years later, however, gossip began to spread about my cousin-in-law having an affair with a single man from the team.
This man is handsome, with a round face and a bald head, talented, and his speech and demeanor are very similar to the current Guo Donglin. His father's political history problems led him to remain single at the age of thirty. The cousin had a close relationship with the man, and they were always inseparable, whether they were working in the fields or on other occasions. What is puzzling is that the cousin does not care about this, and even regards this man as his friend and brother, and asks him to help with all the big and small things in the family. This is in stark contrast to the cousin's calm, timid, and clumsy personality, which is difficult to understand.
However, the fate of this single man was not good, and he died of illness at the age of thirty-seven. When he died, his cousin-in-law was very sad and cried to death, completely ignoring the strange eyes of others. It stands to reason that after the death of her lover, her cousin-in-law should live with peace of mind, after all, the children have grown up, and this kind of life is not decent. However, no one expected that less than two months later, there were rumors that the cousin-in-law had found another single man. This man was a soldierDischargeLater, he returned home to work as a farmer and mastered some basket weaving skills.
Due to the poverty of his family, his parents fell ill and died, and he has not yet married a wife. He is the same age as his cousin and a friend of his cousin's ex-lover. The two were attracted to each other and maintained a relationship for six to seven years. However, the difference this time is that this man is poorer and lazier than his previous lover, and he has no hard work spirit. Under the eyes of everyone, the relationship between the man and woman finally ended with the death of the two one after another. My cousin was not as saddened by the man's death as she had been before, and she did not show up at all from his death until his burial, as if nothing had ever happened between them.
However, this year, my cousin-in-law was almost fifty years old, and the restless cousin-in-law fell in love with the two single brothers in their village. The two brothers raised sheep and cattle, and lived in a woolly house without courtyard walls, with only a bed and an old quilt, simple and plain. They lived in poverty, with only one stove for heating in the winter and windows open for ventilation in the summer. Compared with these two men, the two bachelor lovers before the cousin-in-law are in better condition. The brothers also faced deliberate bullying from other singles in the village, and at one point, an old bachelor set fire to the door, almost causing a catastrophe.
The cousin's relationship with the two brothers, although constantly disturbed, lasted only a few years, and the brothers eventually passed away as well. The bizarre thing about my cousin-in-law is that she did not restrain her lustful heart, but instead made cruel words saying that she wanted to find a younger bachelor. She didn't want to go through this toss again in a few years. She found a bachelor man ten years younger than her, a man from a wealthy family, a car and a house, and a businessman. They quietly started their relationship, and the cousin-in-law made a great plan at the beginning of the method for the first time: no more disputes with unrelated people and other people in the outside world, maintain their elegance and charm, and live a happy life.
My cousin's decision changed her life completely. She became more elegant, more confident, and had a noble temperament that was unapproachable. No matter what the outside world talked about and speculated, she ignored it. She and her new lover have developed a tacit understanding that they respect each other, maintain separate spaces from each other, appreciate the good things together, and enjoy the little things in life.
Today, my cousin is nearly eighty years old, and she still retains her elegance and style. Her life is full of love and happiness, and she lives a stable and happy old age with her lover. Her story shows us how an ordinary person can remain graceful and charismatic in the face of adversity, how to choose happiness, and how to remain graceful as the years go by.