Granny Yang sighed deeply and recalled that day that was difficult to let go: "That day, my daughter-in-law called her brother and brother, and the brothers were so vicious that they beat my son into three lumbar fractures, and even hit him with a stool. At that time, we had to rush our son to the hospital. ”
At 2:00 a.m., Granny Yang uneasily recalled her son's experience during his hospitalization: "At that time, she came to the hospital again and cursed at my son. She said she could forgive her brother, but she couldn't spare my son. My son was silent, but he was greeted by six slaps from her. After she left, she even arrogantly sent a voice message on WeChat, threatening that if we dared to let her brother go to prison, she would come to the door every day**, threatening to smash our home. ”
The sister-in-law also expressed her opinion in this family storm: "My sister-in-law came to the hospital at 4:00 a.m. every day to make a fuss, crying hoarsely. As soon as she entered, she began to beg us to spare her brother and brother, claiming that if we did not agree, she would never give up, and even threatened to make a fuss until she pissed my mother-in-law to death. ** Changdu dissuaded many times, but she either begged softly or hit people. ”
What kind of hatred is there between the family? Why did Granny Yang's son suffer such a serious injury? Why did the whole family become such a chaotic state today? Is there something going on in this that no one knows?
Liping revealed the dilemma she faced: "My mother-in-law even changed the locks on the door of the house, and cut off the way for me to go home. She claimed that her name was written on the title deed and therefore I had no right to go back. She even forced me to divorce my husband, but I didn't give in. I had the right to go home, but she stopped me at the door, and all my valuables were still at my in-laws' house. ”
In order to resolve this family dispute, Liping and her parents even went to her mother-in-law's house with a mediator, only to find Granny Yang's daughter (Liping's sister-in-law) knocking on the door outside, but Granny Yang never dared to open the door. Where is this family conflict going, and are there more untold stories in it?
The sister-in-law said that since her brother was injured for 20 days, her sister-in-law has often taken her mother's family to **. Because of this situation, the mother became very scared, so she changed the lock on the door. However, the sister-in-law's next statement shocked everyone present.
The sister-in-law revealed that their family called more than a dozen people to come over today, and three calls to the police failed to stop her sister-in-law, her parents and a group of men from intimidating at their doorstep. Surprisingly, under the attention of the mediator, it was found that the words "no unlocking is prohibited if there is a dispute in the room" was written on the door. In desperation, the mediator had no choice but to let Liping leave with their parents first.
Granny Yang finally opened the door, and with tears in her eyes, she said that her heart had been panicking, and she didn't know how long such days would last. She is already very old, and she has a lot of problems on her body, and it is difficult to bear such a toss.
Granny Yang emphasized that it is not the first time that her daughter-in-law has blocked the door. Due to her age and high blood pressure, she can only be maintained by taking medication. Her son had asked her to change the locks, fearing that his daughter-in-law would come to the door again**. The second-married couple often quarreled after they got married, and every time they quarreled, the daughter-in-law always called her mother's family to support her, thinking that their family had bullied her.
Liping explained that the incident started when she and her husband had a quarrel a month ago, and her brother came to administer justice for her, but accidentally injured her husband. As a result, the mother-in-law made a request, asking her and her mother's family to come up with 300,000 yuan in compensation, otherwise she would send her brother to prison. Liping felt helpless about this, she thought that it was just a broken bone and did not need such a high compensation. She went to visit her husband in the hospital, but he didn't want to see her and told her to get out.
Liping defended that she and her relatives and friends blocked the door not to intimidate, but to negotiate compensation with her mother-in-law. She stressed that her husband fought back in self-defense, not that her family did it first.
Granny Yang insisted that her son did not do anything to Liping, but that Liping's family beat her son all over his body, resulting in three fractures of his lumbar vertebrae, and even used a stool to beat him. She described that at 2:00 a.m. that day, Liping came to the hospital again to abuse her son, and even slapped him six times mercilessly. All this made Granny Yang unforgivable to Liping and refused to negotiate a settlement with the other party's family.
Faced with the conflict, the mediator suggested that Liping should be sent home, and the two sides confronted each other. However, Granny Yang firmly opposed letting Liping into the house, believing that she was a scoundrel and advocating for community mediation to resolve the conflict.
In community mediation, Liping explained that they had already agreed on a divorce. That day, her husband won the 500 yuan lottery twice, but when Liping asked for some money, her husband refused to support her, causing conflicts. Liping was in a bad mood and decided to go downstairs to relax, but her daughter's crying did not attract her husband's attention, which made her angry.
Liping further disclosed that her husband had been dissatisfied with handing over her salary to her for safekeeping, and even said in front of her parents that he no longer wanted her and tried to send her back to her parents' home. Subsequently, the mediator contacted Liping's husband, who explained that the situation that day was due to a lottery dispute that led to a discord between the couple. He insisted that there was no reason to share the winning money with Liping, but the situation escalated to a series of incidents such as his daughter being locked up at home, Liping leaving home, and her husband crying on the street.
The truth of the whole matter is still complex, the two sides have very different positions, and community mediation may be a way to resolve the dispute.
I once went to my grandmother's house with my daughter in my arms, hoping to let someone from my grandmother's family pick up my mother. I talked to their families at my grandmother's house and then quickly returned. However, within an hour, her brother and brother broke into my house and made a lot of trouble.
Liping recalled that her brother kept calling her **, but she insisted that they didn't need to ask. But they insisted on coming to the house, and as soon as I got home, my husband began to accuse me of all kinds of mistakes. My brother advised me to leave, and there he was shouting insults in unbearable terms. After a verbal altercation between the two sides, the situation escalated and he was injured.
Liping's husband recalled that he was just arguing with his wife at the time, but he didn't expect his wife to roll around on the street. So, he went to his mother-in-law's house for help, but not long after returning home, his wife's brother came to the door.
Liping's husband said: "Her brother started pointing his nose and scolding me when he entered the door, I said you take her away, she has been at home." Her brother rushed over and beat me, and her brother came up and scuffled together, and his brother threw a stool on my waist, and I couldn't move, lying on the couch. ”
He said that her brother and brother did not ask a word, and after the fight, Liping did not even look at him and walked away. His injuries sent him a chill, and his wife's indifference made him completely disappointed in the marriage. After that, he asked his mother to change the lock on the door of the house.
After beating me to the hospital that day, she came to the hospital again in the evening to beat me. The next day, she snatched my phone. Yesterday he came to the hospital and slapped me as soon as he entered the door. She saw that I couldn't move, so she pounced on me, and I couldn't resist at all. Liping's husband said that his wife did not show any remorse or apology after beating him, but instead threatened and intimidated him.
Regarding his wife's indifference after beating him, Liping explained: "I went to the hospital to see him, and he told me to get out, and if I didn't get out, he would beat me." I scratched his face in annoyance. My mother-in-law asked me to give her 300,000, and I said I had no money; My mother-in-law came over and slapped me. ”
The mediator asked, "Did you ever do anything like that at that time?" ”
Granny Yang replied: "Yes, I called the police after they fought, and my son was slightly injured in the second degree after the examination." At that time, the police at the police station detained her brother. It was her later actions that made me really unforgivable. My son has been hospitalized for a month, and their family hasn't come to see them once in a month and they don't mean to apologize. Every day, I come to the door to persecute and intimidate, and I come to the hospital three times a day to make trouble, who can stand this? ”
Granny Yang said in a deep voice: "I don't want them to be very much, I just expect to get a reasonable attitude. But the behavior of their families is really outrageous. If they had been willing to visit the hospital and give them proper support, maybe this would not have been the case. However, they found a group of people to come to the hospital**.
Granny Yang revealed that she asked for money just to challenge her, and Liping also confided her true thoughts.
Liping said with emotion: "I feel very devastated that things have turned out like this. My brother was still in detention, my sister-in-law was complaining about me, and I was in a dilemma and under great pressure. ”
I have only one wish now, and that is not to bring my brother to justice. I'm willing to give everything for this, admit all my mistakes, and the pressure in my heart is really too great. Please help me, I beg you on my knees. ”
Granny Yang sighed deeply: "I've been waiting for you to have such an attitude. I didn't want your brother to go to jail at first, after all, he's still my granddaughter's uncle. If you hadn't caused trouble, maybe you wouldn't be where you are today. ”
The mediator said pertinently: "There is a reason why your brother is being held criminally responsible. If you really feel sorry for your brother, you have to have an attitude to solve the problem. ”
When Liping heard this, she felt her mistake and was worried about the legal sanctions her brother might face.
Eventually, the mediator contacted the lawyer to consult about the punishment that the brother might face.
The lawyer explained: "Your brother is currently suspected of intentional injury and could face up to three years in prison, criminal detention or controlled release if convicted. Taking into account current judicial practice, the sentence may be determined on a one-and-a-half-year basis. ”
When Liping heard the lawyer's words, she lowered her head and choked, repenting and blaming herself. She didn't expect that impulse would lead to such a situation. She walked up to Granny Yang and burst into tears.
I was really too impulsive that day and couldn't stand the pressure. I didn't expect things to turn out like this, and now I sincerely apologize to you, Mom, I'm sorry. ”
I know I have a lot of problems, I am easily impulsive, and I can't control myself. The voice I sent to you was also because I couldn't control my emotions. Please forgive me, Mom. ”
Liping's brother-in-law apologized affectionately: "At first we did mishandle it, but now we will say yes no matter what you ask us to do." I'm really sorry, and then we're ready to go back and apologize to your son and apologize to you. We will also take legal responsibility if you need it and are willing to pay compensation, just to bring peace back to the two families. ”
In Liping's brother-in-law's sincere apology, Granny Yang finally announced that she would no longer be held responsible. When Liping heard the good news, she quickly walked up to her mother-in-law and knelt down apologetically. Granny Yang saw the change in the attitude of her daughter-in-law's family, and she also showed a hint of softening. The contradiction between the two families was finally resolved.
Subsequently, Liping's brother-in-law solemnly apologized to Liping's husband through **: "I really mishandled it in the hospital last time and didn't communicate with you, and we brought my husband to apologize for it in person." We are also willing to pay compensation, and now we hope that you will accept our apology and properly negotiate compensation. ”
Liping's husband gladly accepted the apology and said that he would no longer pursue criminal responsibility and was willing to resolve it through negotiation. However, Liping had a heart-to-heart with her husband and admitted her mistakes. The husband was resolute and insisted on the divorce.
Liping said with emotion: "It's really me wrong, I'm sorry, sometimes my temper is really bad." The husband replied firmly: "You are not wrong, you are always right." No need to apologize to me, I won't accept it. After saying that, the husband hung up decisively.
Liping deeply felt that her husband was no longer willing to spend the rest of her life with her, but as long as he could tolerate her brother and brother and choose to divorce peacefully, she could accept it. Liping's husband decided to file for divorce with the court after he was emotionally stable, and the property and custody issues were left to the court for a decision.