The three years of high school are full of students' knowledge reserves, and college life is supposed to be a moment of liberation, however, today's college is becoming more and more like high school, and students are starting to complain. Different from the hectic and hectic high school, college students are oppressed by endless "involution". Elite students and ordinary second-year students feel a lot of pressure, and the competition for highly educated talents is fierce, just to stand out among many people. However, this competition makes the life of a college student even more tiring. While the students of the famous school complained, the ordinary second students could not bear the situation of involution. I thought I could breathe a sigh of relief in college, but I found that it was even harder than high school. Students spend a lot of time Xi for grades and grades, and they also have to deal with various extracurricular activities and evaluation tasks. The complaints of students from prestigious schools represent the voices of many college students, but ordinary second-year students are even more unable to bear such pressure. College students have to conform to their surroundings, dare not pursue their own interests, feel different, and even become "Adou" who cannot afford in the eyes of others. In the eyes of parents, going to college is to improve themselves, and if you can't do it, it is equivalent to studying in vain. However, the purpose of students working hard to get into college is not to compare, but to become a better version of themselves. Students should learn to accept their own shortcomings, reduce their internal friction, and enjoy the fun of university life. In the four years of college, in addition to studying Xi, students should also change their image and way of thinking, keep a clear head, and decide their future. The most important thing is for students to get rid of their anxiety and enjoy their university life. University is certainly an ivory tower for students, but it is not a fairy tale world, and students still have to constantly improve themselves, but they also have to learn to live their own way, which is the most important thing.
Elite students are discovering that today's colleges are becoming more and more similar to high schools. Students in the school begin to Xi a month in advance for the sake of grade points and paper scores, and after one subject is completed, they will continue to Xi the next subject. And when they occasionally want to read some extracurricular books and idle books, they see that their classmates around them are nervously preparing for the exam, which makes them feel guilty. In order to be able to maintain graduate school, some students study Xi late into the night almost every day, and they don't even have time to take a nap, either studying Xi in the library or busy in the classroom. This makes college students sigh: What is the difference between this and high school, even the work and rest are the same!Most college students think that they can breathe a sigh of relief until they graduate from high school, but the reality tells them that college life is more tiring than the junior year of high school. Most of their time is spent on pursuing academic Xi grades and grades, coping with various class meetings, evening self-Xi and information meetings, and even busy with evaluating the merits and joining the party and winning scholarships. At the same time, they should also pay attention to maintaining good interpersonal relationships, especially with classmates and counselors, etc., which directly affect their reputation and bonuses, etc. The complaints of famous school students have aroused widespread resonance, and ordinary second-year students also feel that they can't bear the pressure of involution. They reluctantly found that even the students of famous schools felt tired, so what about ordinary second-class students?Many things will only be discovered when you go to college, and it turns out that college is more complicated than the third year of high school. Students are engulfed by their surroundings, and even if they want to do something they love, they don't dare to do it, and they feel like they are different. Even in the eyes of many parents, going to college is to concentrate on Xi and improve themselves, if you can't do it, it is equivalent to reading in vain. However, students work hard to get into college, not to compare, but to become a better version of themselves. We should learn to work hard when we need to, accept our shortcomings and shortcomings, and reconcile with ourselves. The key is to reduce self-internal friction and enjoy a different university life.
The four years of university are not only a period of learning Xi knowledge, but also a period of shaping one's personal image, enriching one's horizons and expanding one's pattern. Compared with high school students, college students should be more mature and rational, and have their own independent thinking skills. College students should learn to get rid of the mindset of going with the crowd and keep a clear head. Whether it is a graduate school or a graduate school entrance examination, students must decide according to their own ideas, after all, graduate school is not the only way out of life. If you get in, Xi study hard, study hard, and if you don't get in, you have to live well, and there is no need to be overly anxious. University is certainly an ivory tower for students, but it is not a fairy tale, and students still have to improve themselves. But at the same time, they should also learn to live their own lives without being influenced by the words or actions of others. Whether to learn or not to learn is completely in your own hands, and the most important thing is to live a full and happy life.
College life may be more tiring than expected, but that doesn't mean students should be frustrated or hopeless. On the contrary, they should cherish their time in college, look at things with rational thinking, enrich themselves, and enjoy the fun of life. College life should be a time of knowledge, networking, and growth, not just boring for the sake of high grades. Therefore, students should reduce the phenomenon of involution, get rid of the anxious mentality, and strive to become the person they want to be. Only in this way can you truly enjoy the excitement and fun of university life.